Iningi lethu, abesifazane, baletha omama kanye namgogodla abangena ekhaya kwizimbobo ezidumile, zithuthuke kakhulu - ngezingubo zezemidlalo, kanti nezingubo eziphambili zazikhululekile futhi azixoxi. Kuba sobala ikakhulukazi lapho, ngesikhathi sokuhlaziywa kwekhabethe, amaklayenti ami athi "a, akufanele? Kulungile, khona-ke ngiyakugqoka ekhaya. " Kuvela ukuthi lapho ephumayo, kwabanye, sikulungele ukusebenza kuwe, shintsha, siguqule, kanye nawe sisondele kakhulu - umndeni - ungavuma futhi nalokho.
Cabanga kuphela, abayeni bethu, izingane zisibona ekhaya nsuku zonke, zivame ukusibona kuphela ekhaya futhi akuvamile ukuba zibe khona "ngaphansi komugqa".
Uyazi ukuthi bangaki abesifazane, abangibhekisele kimi, emhlanganweni wokuqala baqashelwa ukuthi abazi ukuthi bapenda kanjani, bagqoke, bathathe amakhithi? 8 kwezingu-10.
Ngasikhathi sinye, isilinganiso seminyaka yamantombazane kusukela eminyakeni engama-27 kuye kwangama-35. Lawa kwabesifazane abasebancane abaphumelelayo, abaningi babo bathole umsebenzi, ongaziqhenya ngayo. Abanye babo banemindeni, kepha njengomthetho, baphupha nje ukuhlangana nomuntu wabo futhi, bebodwa, bathi: "Angikwazi ukungifundisa ukunakekela," "Angazi ukuthi zenza kanjani ukwakheka, kanjani Izinwele "futhi" angikwazi ukugqoka iziketi. " Futhi kanye ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bahlangana nalezo zambulo, siya endleleni.
Konke kuqala ekhaya nasekhaya. Ngesinye isikhathi, lapho babemncane, umama wabo (udadewethu, udadewabo) bebengazi ukuthi malini futhi angena ekhaya bekuzofanela, kukhokhe lokhu kunakunakwa. Manje amadodakazi abo asekhulile, namadoda akhohlwe ubuhle nhlobo, lapho wake wahlangana khona.
Ungasho ukuthi: "Ngikhathele kakhulu emsebenzini, ukuthi ngibuyele ekhaya, ngifuna ukukhipha futhi ngingacabangi okuningi nganoma yini! Yiziphi ezinye izingubo ". Ngiyakuqonda, yingakho ngikhuluma ngokubaluleka kokukhetha ikhabethe lasekhaya ngokuya ngesitayela sakho esiyingqayizivele, esizogcizelela zonke izinzuzo zakho, umlingiswa, futhi sikuvumele ukuba uphumule, usizakale, lapho kukhona khona Akusekho sidinga ukwenza sengathi, dlala indima engaziwa. Sesha futhi udale isitayela sakho hhayi empilweni yomphakathi kuphela, kodwa ekhaya ngumcimbi kanye nokutshalwa kwezimali okuzoba yinsiza enamandla kuwe, kanye nesipho esihle sendoda yakho esithandayo nesifundo esisebenzayo sezingane.
Ukugcina isiko lokuzivocavoca ekugcineni kwendatshana ngayinye, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ubuze abesilisa, abangathanda ukubona owesifazane wabo ekhaya. Icebo Elincane: Buza abangane abaseduze futhi uqaphele ngesithandwa, bangagcina izifiso zabo, besaba ukukucasula.
Akudingeki uhlangabezane nokulindelwe kwabo, kepha ulungele ukufunda emadodeni, mhlawumbe angazi ukuthi yini ehlanganisiwe, kodwa bazizwa ncamashi futhi babona isithombe sakho sonke. Lokhu ngamandla abo.
Inhlanhla ezihlokweni!
Karina efimova,
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