Namuhla, isikhathi sendaba esisha, i-heroine, kwakungumfundi wethu u-Alexander, isikhathi eside akakwazanga ukubuyisana nesikhumba sakhe.
"Izinkinga zesikhumba zingiphelezele impilo yami yonke. Ngisho nasenkulisa, konke ukucindezela nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabonakala esikhunjeni - isishonile sasiyi-satellite yami yaphakade. Umama ezimweni ezinjalo umane wangifaka ngo-ayisikhilimu wathi ngidinga ukwesaba okuncane, ukuthi ingane eneminyaka emihlanu neyisithupha kwakuyiseluleko esingenamsebenzi, ngoba angizange ngilandele ukubhekana nemizwa yami. Ngenhlanhla, ebusheni bentsha, uDermatitis waqala ukungikhathaza esikhathini esiningi, amanxeba ahlanganisiwe aba nezivakashi ezingandile ezingxenyeni ezivulekile zomzimba, ngicishe ngabubula ngokuthula. Kepha hhayi isikhathi eside. Eminyakeni engaba ngu-15, ngangingaphezu kwesigamu esingaphezu konyaka, ngafafazwa ngama-eels engisakaza nawo. Abathintele kakhulu ubuso futhi emuva, njengoba kamuva ngifunde kudokotela wesikhumba - izinduku ezisebenza kakhulu zitholakala kulezi zindawo. Umama wabona ukuthi isimo sami sempilo siguqukile kangakanani: Angikwazanga ukugqoka izinto zangaphandle ehlobo, angizange ngiye echibini, elalithanda kakhulu, angikwazanga ukuvumela abantu ukuthi bangibone esimweni esinjalo. Sithole isazi sezinkambi sazana, kepha imali yadedela kabi kakhulu - ngenxa 'yokuthi "izikhumba" zaba yinkinga nje, kodwa futhi zinenhlonipho, kwangezwa amanzi emzimbeni wokuvuvukala, okungezelelwa. Fihla noma yiluphi ukhilimu wethoni. Ngehlise izandla zami - ngisho nochwepheshe wayengeke angisize. Ngashiya yonke imisebenzi yezemidlalo: Ukudansa, echibini lokubhukuda kanye nama-Pilates, ababambisene neningi lempilo. Ngokoqobo ngonyaka kamuva, isisindo sami sedlula esijwayelekile kabili, ngoba ngangikuthanda "ukudla" ukucindezelwa emsebenzini ophansi. Ngiyazi ukuthi "Wenze kahle" ...
Angikwazanga ukuxhumana nabantu
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Njengoba ngihlala kule minyaka iminyaka engamashumi amabili nesikhombisa, ngabona ukuthi amafoltela asezinhlangothini angivimbela ekuhlaleni futhi axhumane nabantu, ngoba ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho ngiba nesakhiwo esibi kakhulu. Ngalesi sikhumba, angikwazanga ukuthola "ulimi olujwayelekile". Ngonyaka ngemuva kokuqala kwe-Aerobics, isisindo sami safika kancane kancane kwidijithi ekhululekile kimi, ngaphezu kwalokho, egumbini lokungena elokuhle ngahlangana nomuntu owaba umngane wami omkhulu eminyakeni embalwa ezayo - uTatiana wahlanganyela nami ehholo, Ngokushesha thina ngangijwayela, "ngamemeza" ngaye ngesikhumba, kwavela, iTampan isebenza ngodokotela wesikhumba. Angikaze ngithembele kunoma yini, kepha nginqume ukuzama ukuxazulula inkinga ngaphansi kobuholi bayo. Futhi ukuthi yini ... manje sengingu-35, isikhumba sami sicishe siphelele, kodwa, angikwazanga ukuvimba ngokuphelele ukubukeka kokuvuvukala, kepha izakhiwo zami zancibilika kancane kancane, njengamachashazi amnyama ngaphansi kwensiza ye-tannium ultrasonic. Manje sengiyaqonda ukuthi akunakwenzeka ukwehlisa izandla zakho ngisho nasesimweni esisebenzayo kakhulu, uma bengingazitshela eminyakeni eyishumi edlule ... Kodwa-ke, ngiyajabula ukuthi manje impilo yami igeleza embhedeni ohluke ngokuphelele - ngangifisa Xhumana, nganginokuzethemba futhi manje sengingasho ngokuzethemba - ngiyazithanda. "
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