Ebudlelwaneni kufanele kube khona umholi kanye nesigqila, ngaphandle kwalokho isikhathi uzobe ungakhululeki ngokuba nomuntu ongaboni ukuthi uyalingana, futhi ubeka phezulu noma phansi. Ukuzimela ukuzimela ngempela futhi ngasikhathi sinye ukuvalwa, wonke umuntu udinga ukwakha i-WorldVew - akusona ngaso sonke isikhathi kuba phakathi nesikhathi sentsha. Abantu abaningi abadala baphila ngaphandle kwemibono yabo ezindabeni zokuqala futhi abanandaba nokuthi umlingani wabo ucabangani ngalokhu. Kuphakamisa ukuxazulula inkinga, kushintsha kakhulu indlela yendabuko.
Khuluma ngezinto eziyisisekelo
Uyawazi umlando wothandekayo wakho - ukuthi wakhula kanjani, wafunda esikoleni naseyunivesithi, yiziphi amanoveli angaphumelelanga futhi aphumelelayo asinda? Abantu abaningi banenkulumo eyanele ngezinkinga zasekhaya futhi baxoxa ngezinhlelo zosuku lokubeka uphawu esigabeni "sokuxhumana", yize kusondele kakhulu ukubiza. Sabhala impahla enohlu lwezinkinga ezibalulekile zokuxoxa ngezinkinga - zithole lapha futhi ziphendule nomlingani ukuze aqonde ukuthi zifana kangakanani noma zihlukile. Funda lokhu futhi uphathe izingidi zengilazi kubalulekile okungenani ukuze ubheke kahle umuntu othandekayo wakho futhi uqonde ukuthi kubalulekile kuye empilweni nokuthi ngabe izinhloso zakhe zihambisana yini nezekho zakho zihambisana.
babonena ngesikhathi sengxoxo
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Sebenza ngokuzethemba
Izimpikiswano zixazulula kanjani abantu nge-psyche enempilo? Azenzi ngokweqile, zizivumele ukumemeza umuntu ngamunye, futhi zinikele ngokuthula ukuze zikhulume ngalokho abazikhathazayo. Benzani abantu ngezinkinga ezisobala? Bazama ukuletha umuntu ukuxabana, setha kabusha imizwa engemihle ngenxa yokukhala, ukusakaza izinto, izinsongo kanye nezinye izinto ezibonisa ukungakhotho kwazo. Ukuzihlola kuyinto enqumayo: Umuntu ophilile ubonakala ethi "Ngiyayihlonipha imingcele yami, okusho ukuthi ngiyakuhlonipha wena nemingcele yakho." Lapho wenelisekile ngempilo yami, kwabanye abantu ekuqaleni kulungiselelwe kahle, okusho ukuthi bayabamukela futhi baqonde ukuthi bangahluka kuwe.
Ungavali embuthanweni wakho wokuxhumana
Abangani abaningi ozoba nabo, ababanzi nombono wakho wezwe abayoba. Uzoqonda ukuthi sonke sihlukile - wonke umuntu unomlando wawo kanye ne-peripetics yempilo, ukuhambisa lokho, ukubheka umuntu, kwesinye isikhathi akunakwenzeka. Umkhuba wokuxhumana nabantu bobulili obuhlukile, ubudala, izingqimba zezenhlalo, ukubukwa komhlaba wonke nokunye kukusiza ukuthi uqede okulindelwe ngamanga. Uyaqonda ukuthi bonke abantu banelungelo lobuthakathaka, amaphutha namaphutha, futhi ngasikhathi sinye banelungelo lokwenza la maphutha nokuhlangenwe nakho okubukhoma ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwakho. Lapho ezwa izindaba zabanye, kuzoba lula ngawe ukuba uqonde umlingani futhi uzichazele kunokuba ushukunyiswa yizenzo zakhe nokuziphatha kwakhe.
ube kude kwesinye isikhathi ulusizo
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Nakekela Impilo Yakho
Ukuwela othandweni nothile, ngakho-ke ngifuna iminyango kuye izimpande futhi ngibopha wena, kepha ungagijimeli ukukwenza. Emphakathini wethu manje uhambisa umbono ophilile wokuthi abalingani benyunyana akufanele bangenele isikhala somuntu ngamunye - funda lokhu. Ngamunye kini kufanele abe nezigaba zawo, kuyinto efiselekayo ehhovisi elihlukile efulethini kanye nethuba lokuya eholidini ngokwahlukana ngodwa noma nabangane. Ukuba kude, ungabheka ubudlelwano kusukela ohlangothini futhi uhlaziye ukuthi ngempela ubhekene nomuntu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinto zokuzilibazisa ezahlukahlukene nezindawo zomsebenzi zikuvumela ukuthi uqongelele imininingwane engashintshwana futhi ungakhathali ukuxhumana. Hhayi ku-TIANE TV TV TINASITIT uthi "indoda indoda ingumthombo wolwazi" - ibinzana elinekhono kakhulu.