UHarvard University Press washicilela incwadi kadokotela waseMelika Biologist Elizabeth Lloyd, owafundela isifundo sohlobo lwe-orgasm yabesifazane eminyakeni engama-80 edlule. Ngokwemininingwane yakhe, ama-25% wabesifazane kuphela anelisa njalo ngenxa yokungena, kanti amanye, ikakhulukazi athokozela ukukhuthaza kwangaphandle kwezitho zangasese. Cishe ingxenye yababambiqhaza bezivivinyo kwesinye isikhathi yaphawula i-orgasm ngokungena. Ukuze uqonde lokhu kubalulekile nabesifazane, nabesilisa: Kulokhu, uzokwazi ukuthi ungamsiza kanjani umlingani ukuletha wena ku-orgasm nokuthi ungazibeka kanjani kwigagasi elifiselekayo. Kwafika embuzweni ovela endaweni yesayensi yokubuka futhi ukulungele ukuchaza izinqubo ezenzeka emzimbeni.
Usayizi cishe awunandaba
Uma sikhuluma ngasohlangothini lwesayensi, azikho izifundo eziqinisekisa ukuthi izitho zangasese zikhulu kune-avage × 12.9 cm esimweni esakhisiwe (ngocwaningo olushicilelwe e-Journal of Urology). Okubaluleke kakhulu ukufezekisa umlingani we-Orgasm ukuthuthukiswa kwemisipha yezandla, ikakhulukazi ingalo, ngenxa yokuthi umuntu angakhathali lapho owesifazane ephendula isikhathi esithile, hhayi khona manjalo. Ukuphela kwento yokuthi usayizi ohlaba umxhwele we-penis ungathonya injabulo yentombazane - lapho ebona khona ekhanda lakhe kukhona ukusabela kokukhuthaza, njengokuthi "ukuqhuma", ngipendiwe ekukhiqizeni okuthuthukile kwama-hormone, futhi nge It kanye ne-lubricant yemvelo yikho okuthinta induduzo ngesikhathi sex.
Thola ukuthi umlingani uthanda ini
Abantu munye athanda ukuthinta okumnene, kanti abanye bajabule ngokushaya ngempama nokungahlwitha umphimbo. Khuluma nomuntu wakho othandekayo ovutha kuye ngamazwi ngomlomo, futhi angazami ukuqagela iphuzu lakhe G - Izazi zezengqondo ziluleke ngale ndlela. Iqiniso ngukuthi imibhangqwana eminingi ayithembeki ngokuphelele komunye nomunye: intombazane ingabubula futhi igingqe amehlo, noma ingamkhuthazi injabulo yendoda, ukuze imkhuthaze. Esikolweni sethu sasekhaya, isihloko sokulingisa ngesikhathi socansi sizosebenza iminyaka eminingi. Sikucebisa ngokweqiniso ukuthi ushiye ubandlululo ophoqelekile ukuba luhle futhi luthokozele umuntu: Zithande wena nomzimba wakho. Izazi zobungqingili ziyaqiniseka ukuthi lezi zindlela ezizokusiza uqonde kahle ukuthi uthola kanjani injabulo, futhi uthuthukise ukuzwela endaweni ebusayo. Lapho nje uqonda ukuthi ufunani, uzoba lula ukuchaza lokhu kumlingani.
Khuluma ngangokunokwenzeka
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Ungathandazi isikhathi
Njengoba ucansi selusekulangazeleleni ukudlula kwenqubo yokwakha inzalo, khona-ke izinhloso zalo sezishintshile. Ngelinye ilanga udinga ukulahlekelwa yingcindezi, komunye - ukukhombisa ubumnene obukhulu maqondana nomlingani. Ukwakha kabusha ubuhlobo "Wena - ngisemi kimi," Ukuqonda othandekayo wakho nezidingo zakhe ngaphandle kokunqaba izifiso zakho. Isibonelo, akufanele ube namahloni okucela owesilisa ukuthi enze ubulili bomlomo, lapho uzoba khona umgcini, kepha ungafuni ukuguqula isikhundla futhi umsize aphumule. Noma yisiphi isenzo embhedeni kufanele senziwe ngesifiso sobabili: unikeza, kanti elinye iqembu liphendula ngemvume noma lokuphika. Uma enqaba ucansi namhlanje, akusho ukuthi indoda ethile isikusize - ungumuntu futhi angakhathala noma abe nesinye isizathu. Lapho nje amasiko ethu eguqulwa ngokuphelele esuka ekucabangeni kocansi 'njengomsebenzi ophansi ", ngoba bobabili abahlanganyela kulo inqubo ngokulinganayo futhi bazivuselele futhi bacabangele izikhathi zokugcina shintsha. Ufuna ucansi kanye ngesonto noma ngaphansi kaningi - akunamahloni, kepha ngokujwayelekile, njengokufisa nje nsuku zonke. Sonke sihlukile, ngakho-ke yima, ekugcineni, uzikhulule futhi uqhathanise nabanye, onesizini yakhe izolala ngokuphumelela kwabo embhedeni. Futhi yebo, inkinga yabo nayo ingumphumela wesiko eliphelelwe yizocansi.
Thandana futhi ujabule. Ukukhuluma kaningi futhi kuza ekuyekethiseni, khona-ke akudingeki ukhonondelene nezintombi futhi uzithobe ngaphakathi.