Imvamisa siwela esimweni lapho konke kuncike emandleni ethu okulungisa ukuxhumana nabanye abantu. Kodwa-ke, akuyena wonke umuntu oqhosha leli khono. Ngempela, kunzima impela ukuqonda okokuqala ukuthi ungasondela kanjani komunye umuntu noma omunye umuntu.
Kunamasu amaningi ezengqondo, ngenxa yokuthi ungavumelana nanoma yimuphi umuntu. Sikulungiselele amasu ayishumi kwengqondo okuxhumana kahle.
Inombolo 1.
Uma uhlelelwe ukuba yinhlolokhono, kufanele wazi ukuthi umuntu ojwayelekile ukhumbula imininingwane oyidingayo engcono kakhulu ekuqaleni nasekupheleni. Ngakho-ke phambi kwabantu abaningana abafaka isicelo sesikhundla esifanayo nawe, zama ukuba okokuqala noma kwakamuva kulolu hlu. Lapho uzithola phambi komqashi ongaba khona, qiniseka ukuthi ubheka emehlweni akho, kodwa yenza ngokuthula: Abanye abantu babona lokhu kwethushwa njengolaka nje. Kepha, imvamisa, ukubheka emehlweni, sibonisa isifiso sethu engxoxweni.
Kubalulekile ukwakha kahle ukuxhumana
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Indlela No. 2.
Imvamisa kunezimo lapho umphathi ehlala elungiselelweni elimpofu lomoya futhi lapha konke akulona ngokwalo, ikakhulukazi lapho ekuzwisa ehhovisi lakhe. Wake waba sehhovisi, hlala eduze naye. Ngokumangazayo, abantu ngaleso simo banciphisa amabanga okubi. Lapho umuntu ehleli eduze, ukufunga naye kunzima ngokwengqondo. Kungcono ukuthi ujike ngokugcwele ukukhombisa indawo yakho.
Inombolo 3.
Esimweni lapho ukhuluma khona nozakwabo, futhi yena, akaphuthumi ukuzokutshela iqiniso, mbona ngqo esweni. Le ndlela imvamisa ikhipha umphikisi wakho. Kuzwa ukungakhululeki futhi kuzama ukugcwalisa ikhefu lokulengiswa. Kungashiwo ukuthi le yindlela yengcindezi yengqondo engenakuqhathaniswa.
Khombisa intshisekelo ku-interlocutor
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Inombolo 4.
Abantu bavame ukukhombisa ukuzwela kulabo ababakhathalelayo. Sebenzisa le ndlela. Buza umngani ofuna ukufuna umusa noma usizo oluncane. Ngikholwe, unentshisekelo kumuntu, ngoba kwinqanaba eliqondayo lizokwazi ukuthi uyamethemba, okusho ukuthi angakwethemba. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uzofinyelela umgomo wakho - uzokhokha konke ukunakwa kwakho.
Inombolo 5.
Enye indlela ephumelelayo: Khumbula futhi usebenzise igama lomuntu oxhumana naye. Futhi, esigabeni sokuqonda, umuntu azocabanga ukuthi uveza ubuningi obuphelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, landela ukunyakaza kwe-interlocutor: Gcwalisa imibiko yakhe kanye nokuthinta, kuzosiza futhi ukuthola indawo yomuntu. Imvamisa, le ndlela isiza ekuxhumaneni komuntu siqu futhi isebenze kahle ohlangothini "Owesifazane - umuntu"
Hlala phansi kusondela - lokhu kuzonciphisa izinga lobulandi
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Inombolo yenombolo 6.
Uma usuthutha umphakathi ngehora lesilinganiso, awudingi ukumemeza kakhulu futhi ufunge uzama ukuphuma. Sebenzisa inqubo elandelayo: Bamba ukubukeka ngaphambi komuntu omile futhi ubheke imvume phakathi kwakhe nomgibeli oseduze. Indoda enembile iyashukumisela futhi ikunikeze umgwaqo.
Inombolo 7.
Imizwa enamandla ihlanganisa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi udinga ukuba seduze kwento yakho yokudumisa ngesikhathi lapho imizwa yakhe izoba nomkhawulo. Sikhuluma ngemizwa emihle. Isibonelo, indoda iyahlanya ngamafilimu asabekayo noma okuhehayo okuyingozi: Kwenze kube yinkampani, yiba ngumuntu ozokwabelana naye ngemizwelo.
Inombolo 8.
Zama ukuqeda imishwana enjalo ngokuthi: "Ngicabanga," "Ngicabanga." I-interlocutor ibukeka sengathi ayinandaba kakhulu ekuxhumaneni naye futhi izame ukungena kumabinzana afanayo. I-Sly Reception: Uma umsebenzi wakho usebenza namakhasimende, ubeke isibuko esikhulu ngemuva komhlane wakho. Ngakho-ke, uzonciphisa amathuba obukhulu obuncane, ngoba akayona ukuzibona ngesikhathi solaka.
Inombolo 9.
Nakekela abanye. Ezingeni lezingqondo zengqondo, abantu badonswa kulabo abakhombisa ukungabi nazimpawu zokunaka, abanandaba nezicelo zabangane kanye nozakwabo, zisiza njalo kunalokho ongakwenza.
Inombolo 10.
Bukela umphikisi wakho ukuze uthole ukuthi bafuna ukubonakala ngani emehlweni abanye. Ngakho-ke uzokuqonda umongo womuntu. Landzelela ukushukuma komzimba, ukusabela kwamagama athile, okungenzeka, umuntu azokwaba amagama angukhiye anencazelo ebaluleke kakhulu kuye.