Kukholelwa ukuthi noma umuntu engashintshile eqinisweni, kungenzeka ukuthi wakwenza emcabangweni wakhe. Kunokuvukela kwesikhathi esisodwa nangokoqobo, kepha abantu abanjalo abakhipha ukuvukela umbuso okwesibili.
Ngokusho kochwepheshe emkhakheni wezobungqingili, indoda ihlala iyimbangela yokuvukela umbuso - kungaba ngowesifazane wayo, noma eyakhe. Uhlala ekholelwa iqiniso lokuthi wehluleka ukugcina umfazi, futhi uma azishintsha, wayengenazaba zokuthethelela.
Kepha kunamanye amaphuzu okubuka, ngokwesibonelo, izazi eziningi zengqondo ziqinisekile ukuthi yonke le nto ikhona ngokuthambekela komuntu: kunezinhlobo ezithile ezithambekele 'ukushiya kwesokunxele' kaningi. Noma kunjalo, amadoda ahlukaniswe ngezinhlobo eziningi kakhulu zabesifazane.
Ukuvukela kwabesilisa kukholwa kakhulu emphakathini
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1. Indoda ene-crochet
Umuntu onjalo uyazethemba, uyakwazi ukusondela kowesifazane. Imvamisa uhamba nengxenye, owesifazane akanaso nesikhathi sokucabanga nokwenza isinqumo. Akukho okumangazayo ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi indoda enjalo inabesifazane abaningana ngasikhathi sinye. Akanandaba nothando, futhi akazizwa enamathiselwe kowesifazane, ngoba uthando lusho umkhawulo wenkululeko.
Ngakho-ke, alwelwe lutho ngaphandle kokuphoqelela ubudlelwano. Umuntu onjalo angaba nomndeni ongeke akwazi ukuphazamisa ngokuphelele. Izazi zezengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi indoda izama ukuquleka ngale ndlela, izenza ukuthi uyakwazi kakhulu.
2. Indodakwane
Le ndoda ifana nendlela yokwenza okwedlule, kepha ikhwalithi ibaluleke kakhulu kunenani. Bonke abesifazane ababeka iso lihle kakhulu. "Izisulu" zayo "ziba, njengomthetho, kungaba abesifazane abasebenza kakhulu futhi abaqhakazile bemvelo yakhe, noma i-narcissist eost efanayo. Umuntu angancintisana nowesifazane ngenani labalingani, futhi bobabili bazoyihlela. Lapho "edlala", babuyela emndenini, balindela intokazi elandelayo yenhliziyo, okudingeka uyinqobe.
Abanye besifazane kunzima ukwenqaba
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3. Narcissus
Le ndoda iyazithanda ngokwakhe kuphela. Ngakho-ke, udinga lona wesifazane onjalo ukuba babone futhi bancoma amathalente akhe nobuhle bakhe. Awamukeli uhhafu: abesifazane 'emazweni akhe' muhle noma bayesabeka, ukhetha, njengoba uqonda, uhlobo lokuqala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lona wesifazane akudingeki ukuthi angasebenzi ngaphandle ukungena esigabeni sesibili, kwanele ukungabaza ukuhluka Kwakhe.
Uma ekhetha umfazi, kufanele ancishwe amathuba, ngoba kuyadingeka ukuqagela izifiso zomlingani ngokubukeka kwakhe. Unkosikazi empilweni yendoda enjalo ukhona "ukukopela." Kodwa-ke, udinga umkakhe ukuthi athethelele imikhankaso yakhe nakwesobunxele, echaza ukuthi wayengenanhlanhla nomkakhe.
4. Owesilisa ngomqondo ngamunye
Mhlawumbe umbono "othandwayo" kakhulu. Uthethelela ukuvuma kwakhe ukuthi iqiniso lokuthi liyisithembu, ngakho-ke owesifazane oyedwa akwanele. Kubalulekile kuye ukuthi azocabanga futhi azotshela abangane bakhe ukuthi "uzobe enezindlebe" zezindaba zakhe ezimibalabala zokunqoba kothando. Izinto zokuzilibazisa ezivela kumuntu zilula: ezemidlalo, ukuzingela, ukudoba, ukuhlangana nabangane.
Okuxakile ngokwanele, le ndoda yesaba ukulahlekelwa ngumndeni wayo, ngakho-ke kulula ukuyiphuza ukuze uyinakekele, ukuze angakaze acabange nge- "Imevent One."
5. Isithandwa sokubuka
Le ndoda iqhudelana nawo wonke umuntu kukho konke: Ngaye kuye injabulo yokuphonsela inselelo umkakhe nenkosikazi yakhe, bese ubona ukuthi kuzokwenzekani. Mhlawumbe isimo esinjalo lapho sizama ukuncintisana nomyeni wakhe we-mistress. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uyojabula futhi athande isithandwa sikankosikazi wakhe, ngoba wayenomphikisi ofanele.
Futhi kuthiwani ngabesifazane?
1. indlovukazi
Noma ngabe unomndeni omuhle, umfazi onjalo uzobe esesesho lwaphakade lwendoda enhle. Yonke imicabango yakhe ibandakanyeka ekwakhekeni kwe-salon, i-yoga, izimonyo ezintsha kanye nezibuyekezo ze-wardrobe. Uzibeka ngaphezu komyeni wakhe, futhi ngenxa yalokho ngeke wehlise umoya aze athole okungenani isithandwa esihle.
2. I-Amateur Adventure
Ngokungafani nohlobo lwangaphambilini, lo wesifazane uhlobana nomyeni wakhe. Inkinga yilapho kuphela ukuthi ingazihlupha, ngakho-ke ifuna i-cavalier yezokuzijabulisa. Ngeke yakhe ubuhlobo besikhathi eside, unesifiso sezocansi kuphela, ngakho-ke ukukhetha kwakhe kugoqwe amadoda angenangqondo ngaphandle kwamadiphozithi akhethekile okuqonda.
Owesifazane uqhubeka nokuvukela umbuso, uma ebuntwaneni bakhe wafundiswa ukulalela
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3. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi "cha"
Laba besifazane bacacile kakhulu. Aziguquki ngoba zifuna, kepha ngoba zibhekene nobuthakathaka ngaphambi kokuba indoda ibe ngaphezulu kwesimo. Ngokusho kochwepheshe bezengqondo, ukuziphatha okunjalo kusekelwe ebuntwaneni lapho le ntombazane ifundiswa ukuthi ikhwalithi yakhe eyisisekelo yamlalela. Lolu hlobo lwabesifazane luvame ukutholakala kubuchwepheshe obufana nesikhonzi sendiza, unobhala, uthisha kanye nomhlengikazi.