"Ulwandle olunesihlabathi olunesihlabathi, ulwandle, olwandle kukhona omunye umuntu, oxhumana nami, kepha ubukhona bawo bugcwele, njengesithunzi. Ngemuva komhlane wami ebhishi lomhume ngesimo semikhakha. Ngizithola ngaphakathi komunye wabo, azikho izimbobo ezisobala kuwo, kuyilapho kukhona ukukhanya okuhlanzekile, komile futhi kufudumele. Ngokuphazima kweso iba yintokozo enkulu, futhi ukuhlaselwa kwe-claustrophobia kuyaqala, ngidinga ukuphuma ngokushesha. Ngibona i-slot engezansi, kusukela ohlangothini kolwandle, igagasi licwila kulo i-trickle futhi liqhekeke kancane. Ngididekile, njengoba ngiphuma kangcono - ikhanda noma imilenze, ukuze ungabambeki. Angazi ukuthi ngiphume kanjani, kodwa sengivele ngisebhishi, ngibheka olwandle - kubanda - futhi ngizwa ubutha kulo, akekho ogeza, futhi angifuni. Ngasohlangothini olubuyela emuva kwemihume - indlela yolwandle evela emabhodini, igcwele kakhulu, konke okumhlophe, ungaya endaweni ngayinye ngokuvula umnyango, futhi ushintshe izingubo. "
Kusukela kusethi yezindlela zokuhunyushwa, leli phupho lidonswa kakhulu ukuze sihlabezele lapho kubukwa indlela yokubuka yemvelo.
Iqiniso ngukuthi kusuka emigqeni yokuqala yalokhu kulala, okuqukethwe kwalo kufana nokuzalwa kwesimo sokuzalwa.
Isibonelo: Eduze kwami ngumuntu impela, kepha ukuba khona kwakhe kugcwele, isithunzi ... Mina Ngaphakathi komhume, azikho izimbobo ezicacile kuyo, ukukhanya okukhishwe ...
Ngizwa ukuhlaselwa kwe-claustrophobia, ngifuna ngokushesha indlela yokuphuma ... ngikhetha, ngikhuphuke ngekhanda noma imilenze yakho.
Ukuzalwa kwengane yingane yakhe, isinyathelo sokuqala sokuzimela
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Uma osanda kuzalwa ekwazi ukuveza imicabango yabo kakhulu, nakanjani into enjengaleyo izotshelwa ngokuzalwa kwayo. Leli phupho lifana kanjani namavesi enkumbulo amaphupho ngesipiliyoni sayo se-intrauterine. Ukuphrinta lemigqa, izinyathelo ethrekhi eshelelayo, ngoba kunesifundo esibi kakhulu esikhuluma kakhulu ukuthi ubuchopho bakwaNgqongqoshe bungakavumi ngalezi zindawo ezibhekele le nkumbulo yesikhathi eside.
Futhi kunemikhuba esekelwe ekusizeni abantu okholweni lokuthi lokhu kuhlangenwe nakho kukhunjulwa ingane yempilo, ukunqoba ubunzima kwizithombe eziningi zokuphila: banqobe ubunzima babo kanye namathuba, bakuthanda.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, iphupho lingena ezweni elibandayo elingenabungani, lapho abantu bonke bemhlophe. Hhayi-ke, yini okungeyona ihholo lokubeletha?
Manje umbuzo osemqoka. Ake sithi iphupho ngokuzalwa, futhi njengenguqulo yezimanga sithatha le ndlela. Kungani owesifazane okhulile ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi ephupha ngalokhu?
Mhlawumbe ngoba ingqondo yethu yendawo yonke icabanga ngokwezigaba. Ukuzalwa kwengane yingane yakhe, isinyathelo sokuqala sokuzimela. Kungenzeka ukuthi lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuvela ekuqwashweni, kuphendula imisebenzi yamanje yokuphila ekwakhiweni kokuzimela kwayo, ubuqotho, ukuzimela. Ngicabanga ngesihloko esiphuphayo esihlangabezana nakho manje ngemisebenzi efana nemisebenzi yengane: Ukuzimela, ngenkathi kudingeka, kubuza, kubuza futhi kunamathele kubathandekayo babantu abahlazisayo kanye nokuphazamiseka kwalezi zidingo zabantu zemvelo. Simfisela inhlanhla.
Ngiyazibuza ukuthi uphupha ini? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho athumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli uzobhala izimo zokuphila okwandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin