Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi cishe wonke umzali uyaqiniseka ukuthi kuveza ingane yakhe kahle. Noma ingane iziphatha kabi futhi ayilaleli, omama nobaba bayaqiniseka ukuthi imvelo / isikole / abangane banecala - noma ngubani, hhayi bona. Nge-misdemeanor encane kunazo zonke, abantu abadala kwesinye isikhathi bavele baphume ngokwabo, imvamisa basebenzisa amandla omzimba. Ngokwemvelo, ingane esemkhathini onjalo ngeke ikhule ilungu lomphakathi eligcwele. Kodwa-ke, ingane isadinga ukuchaza ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi ayilungile. Ngakho-ke kuthiwani? Ake sikutholele ndawonye.
Izingane zizokwazi umhlaba futhi azifuni ukubhubhisa
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Akunasidingo sokujezisa ingane kanjalo
Imvamisa, izingane zizokwazi umhlaba futhi zikwenza njalo kulungile: kwesinye isikhathi kwephula isikhala somuntu siqu sabanye abantu noma uphule izinto. Akufanele ukhiye wokuphonsa ingane ngokubonisa inzalo. Mchazele ukuthi wenzeni okungalungile, futhi ngokuzayo lapho ezokucabanga ngaphambi kokwenza okuthile. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ingane ingakhula ingavikelekile. Kuyadingeka ukukhuthaza umsebenzi kanye nentshisekelo emhlabeni emhlabeni jikelele.
Bona imiqondo ye- "Offer" ne "Qaphela"
Kubaluleke kakhulu lapha ukuza kahle ngumdala. Kunomehluko omkhulu phakathi kokuthi "Mhlawumbe uyadlala kwenye indawo?" Futhi "ungadlali emgwaqweni." Esimweni sesibili, ukhuthaza ingane ukuthi icabange ngokuphepha futhi ingalahli ikhanda lakho. Kuphela uma exosha imiyalo yakho, kuyadingeka ukufaka umusho, kepha kuphela, ngaphandle kokumemeza nokuklanywa kombhalo.
Ungabi ngokomzwelo ngokweqile
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Akunasidingo imizwa eqinile
Abantu abaningi abadala kufanele balawulwe yiwo wonke umuntu ozungezile, ikakhulukazi izingane zabo. Abazali bavame ukuqeda ingane ekulindelweni, kepha kuyaqabukela lapho okulindelwe kwabo kufakwe eqinisweni. Lokhu kuholela ekudleni okungenasisekelo kusuka kumzali. Ingane isiqala kumalahle futhi ikhuphuke emthambekeni. Cabanga ngokuthi i-psyche engazinzile ingasabela kanjani ekuphawuleni kwakho okukhulu. Awufuni ukuthi ingane yakho ikhuphuke ngomuntu ngokuphelele ngaphandle kwentando naso nakusizo, okuzolalela abantu abanethonya ngaphandle kokucabanga ngezifiso zabo?
Ungajezisi obala
Awukwazi ukucabanga ukuthi udida kanjani nokugxeka ukugxekwa kubantu. Ngisho nomuntu omdala. Ingane ehlazisayo imaphakathi, ngaleyo ndlela ihambisa imingcele yayo, ikhombise ukuthi wena nabanye abantu banelungelo lokuphambukisa. Ngakho-ke, uma ingane yenza okuthile okungalungile, yamsusa eceleni futhi angitshele ukuthi kungani engenjalo futhi enzeni ngokuzayo.
Musa ukufunga, kepha chaza
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Bamba izithembiso
Uma unqamule okuthile enganeni, kusho ukuthi ukuvinjelwa kuthatha isikhathi esingaphezu kwamahora ambalwa. Kuyasiza ukuthi ukhathaze ingane yakho okungenani kanye, njengoba eqala ukukusebenzisa, bese eyeka ngokuphelele ukukholwa kwezinsongo zakho. Zihleleke.
Jezisa ngokushesha noma ungajezisi nhlobo
Kukhona umthetho "wakwaMzali" othungelwe: jezisa, thethelela, ukhohlwe. Khumbula ukuthi izijeziso ezingapheli zokungaziphathi kahle kwesikhathi esedlule kuholela ekuthuthukisweni kweziphazamiso ezahlukahlukene zengqondo. Yenza ngesimo ngalesi simo, uma ufundile ngokuziphatha kabi, vele usho lo mbuzo nengane futhi uchaze imiphumela.