Isazi sezengqondo esidumile se-Mikhail Labkovsky sithi: "Lapho umuntu evuka ukuzethemba, impilo yakhe iguquka ngokuphelele." Uchwepheshe ukholelwa ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuthi uqale ukusebenza nakho kuwo - ukuze ufunde ukuzithanda ngaphandle kokuphikisana, kepha nje. Abanye ozokwelapha bavumelana nesikhundla saso, becabanga ukuthi yilokho kanye ukungabikho kwezinkinga. Kodwa-ke, akuyena wonke umuntu ongazithanda - futhi yingakho.
Ukubukeka Kwecala
Umphakathi uhlelwe ukuze azame ukulingana konke ngaphansi kwendinganiso eyodwa. Lesi yisilinganiso sokuqapha kanye nokuqinisekisa isimo senduduzo - abantu kunzima ukwamukela ukuthi abanye bangabafundisi abaningi abafundile, banamandla noma banciphise. Ukusuka lapha kunemiyalo njengoba umuntu kufanele aziphathe, ukuthi yini okufanele agqoke nobani abangane njalonjalo. Futhi, uma usebuntwaneni kuphela ama-gabbs asegcekeni aqinisekisa ingane ukuthi "ayinjalo." Kubi kakhulu lapho kugxekwa emndenini nakho: okubizwa ngokuthi yisiwula, ihlazo ekupheleleni noma ekubukekeni okungafanele. Ngaleso sikhathi, kungamazwi abantu abaseduze abahlehliswa ekujuleni kokuqonda okujulile futhi bathinte impilo elandelayo yomuntu. Yiba mter nezingane futhi ungazami ukuzilibazisa nabo ngokuhluleka kwakho ukudlulisa umcabango ngolimi oluzolile lwabantu.
Sekela ingane futhi imnikeze uthando
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Isipiliyoni esibi
Ngokulandelayo ngemuva kwabazali abangafaka amandla amakhulu umuntu ngamunye eba othandekayo. Lapho sebekhulile, kungukubonakala okubhekwa kakhulu ekuhlolweni kwezimfanelo zangaphakathi, iningi lizokhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Usayizi webele, ukuzungeza kwe-buttock, ubude bezinwele kanye nokucishwa kwezinwele - konke kuzokugxekwa. Uma unengane yobusha, ulandela ngokucophelela isimo sakhe futhi uzama ukulondolozwa okusondele, uzungeze ukunakwa nothando. Ngakho-ke ngeke kusondele phambi kwakho, futhi uzokwazi ukusiza ngesikhathi esifanele, ukudumaza ukungabaza ekusebenzeni kwakhe. Uma wake wahlangabezana nesimo esinjalo, cabanga ngalokho abantu abakutshela kona ngamazwi? Indoda ejabule ifuna ukuhlanganyela injabulo, futhi ingahlabe abanye ukuthi iningi labantu abanengqondo ngokwengqondo abazama ukunqoba igunya nokufihla ukungavikeleki.
Thola umlingani ozokujabulela, hhayi ukucasulwa
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Iphutha lephutha
Ingozi elandelayo e-Psyche izokuthatha ekugcineni kweNyuvesi. Lapha abantu bahlukaniswe ngamaqembu amabili: Abanye banquma wonke amabutho okunikeza ukusesha othandekayo futhi aqaphele emndenini, abanye bakhathazeke kakhulu ngomsebenzi. Uma uzizwa ngokulandelayo, kusho noma ngabe yikuphi ukwehluleka lapho kusebenza imisebenzi kungakuthinta kakhulu. Bheka isipiliyoni sempumelelo yabantu abaphumelelayo: Funda ama-biografikhi abo, bheka amafilimu abhalwe phansi. Uzoqonda ukuthi umkhondo wawo wokuhamba ubheke egoli waphulwa, hhayi umugqa oqondile. Omunye usomabhizinisi washo ibinzana elihle lokuthi abukho abantu ababephelelwe yiziwula. Ngamunye wethu angenza iphutha, kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi ngeke sikwazi ukukubona futhi sifunde ngokwama-rake yethu. Ukuhluleka okufanayo ukwehluleka: bona konke ukwehlisa umoya futhi kwazi ukuthi okulindelwe okungcono kakhulu ngaphambili.
Ungafuni ukuqashelwa kwabanye abantu - wonke umuntu kufanele aqale azinakekele, abese ecabanga ngomakhelwane. Gcwalisa Ngothando ngokwakho - Funda ukuchitha isikhathi uwedwa nawe, uzithobe ngamaholide, kepha ukudala iholide kusuka nsuku zonke. Yiba ngumngane wakho omkhulu futhi wamukele uhlobo luni lomuntu. Yilapho-ke kuphela iZen izofika kuwe - uyazi ukuthi uyazithanda.