Ngisanda kuza kimi izinhlamvu ezimbalwa ngemibuzo efanayo futhi cishe okuqukethwe okufanayo kwamaphupho.
Lezi zinhlamvu ezivela kwabesifazane abasha abashadile, nezingane ezincane, zaneliswa ngesikhundla sabo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ukuthanda abayeni babo. Kepha amaphupho avezwa izinkanuko eziyimfihlo. Imfihlo, okokuqala, kusuka kubo uqobo.
Nakhu amaphupho:
"Ngobusuku balobu busuku ngahlanza ibhokisi leposi. Njengoba ngisanda kushada, nginqume ukuthi nginokuningi ukuze ngigcine ukuxhumana nabathandi nabalandeli bangaphambili. Kusihlwa, ngisuse konke okuvela eposini, futhi ebusuku ngiphuphe ukuthi ngithandana nabanye 'kwangaphambili ", futhi ngenqubo ngicabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi:" Ngiyaphila Ngomqondo omubi wamahloni nemicabango yokuthi angikwazi ukucabanga ngokuphelele ukuthi ngihlala kanjani ngalokhu uma bekungeyona iphupho, kodwa i-yawl. "
Futhi iphupho lomunye wesifazane: "Ephusheni, ngiphinde ngihlangane nesithandwa sami sangaphambili. Futhi ngisho nomqondo wokuthi ngangishadile futhi ngifuna ukuhlala umyeni othembekile, angizange ngingiyeki. Ngenza uthando nalokho okwedlule, ngithola imizwa eqinile kangangokuba angizizwa ekuqaleni komyeni wami. Ngivuka ngixakile, ngoba angikhumbulanga iminyaka yami eminingi, futhi angikaze ngicabange ngokuhlangana naye ngemuva kokuhlukana okubuhlungu. "
Kuyiqiniso, umangalelwa kalula ukuguqula abesifazane esifisweni esiyimfihlo sokushintsha abayeni babo, futhi umbono onobuhlanya ubanzi kahle, njengoba bengahambi kahle nabayeni babo, imicabango mayelana namanye amadoda ihlukana ngamaphupho.
Kepha akubona bonke abacace kakhulu, yize le ndlela ingahle ithembeke.
Ngesikhathi somshado, ubudlelwane be-pair buqhubeka nezigaba ezahlukahlukene. Isikhathi senoveli ekhanyayo, e-euphoria, ezothando, njengomthetho, siphela ngaphambi komshado (uma bekungaphumi). Ngesikhathi sokuvikelwa kokuqala, lo mbhangqwana ubhekene nawo lonke uhla lwemizwa, uthando, ama-extravagancicies. Imvamisa bayakhumbula ubuhlobo bocansi ngokulahlwa okukhulu.
Impilo ehlanganyelwe ngaphambi kokuvela kwezingane ibizwa ngokuthi isigaba se-diaband. Ngaphezu kwenjabulo ekuhlaleni okuhlangene, ngalesi sikhathi lo mbhangqwana ufunda ukuhambisana ngempela nomunye, ukhiqiza amasiko ahlanganayo, imithetho, amasiko empilo yomndeni. Uma okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo okwandulelayo emindenini yabazali noma nabalingani bakudala bayehluka kakhulu, khona-ke lesi sigaba kungenzeka ukuthi ngenze ngobudlova, ngamahlazo, ngokucaciswa okuvela kumnikazi wendlu. Lapho-ke isivunguvungu sokuqala nothando sithuthela ngemuva. Abalingani bakho bakhonkolo komunye nomunye hhayi kuphela ikhwalithi yabo enhle kakhulu, kodwa futhi bakhombisa amasu abo empi kanye nezindlela zokuxazulula izingxabano. Lapho lesi sigaba siphela, laba bobabili bathela izisekelo ezihlangene nemithetho, ezimweni eziningi isigaba esingu-3 siqala. Lesi yisikhathi sezinkulungwane - okungukuthi, ukuvela kwezibulo. Ukuba ngumzali kwengezwa ngokubambisana kwabo, kuthatha cishe sonke isikhathi ababenaso ngaphambi komunye nomunye. Uthando nokuzwela kuyizinkumbulo eziningi nje.
Kepha ukulangazelela lezi zifundazwe, isifiso sokwembula isiphepho semizwa futhi. Asikho isikhathi sokuphupha, kepha kukhona indlela yokuphuma - leli yiphupho. Ukukhetha kwethu okuwukukhetha into lapho wonke amaphrojekthi ama-eroticism angemuva, amaphupho angenakuqhathaniswa nemicabango, ngoba amaqhawe ethu aqhakazile, anamandla okuthola.
Esikhundleni salokho, baphakamisa ukuthi empilweni yabo yansuku zonke, banesisindo ngezingane eziphathelene nezingane, impilo ehlanganayo, ayikho indawo yemicabango, ayikho indawo yokuzizwa efisa futhi ekhethekile futhi. Ngakho-ke, yonke inkanuko ihlukana nokulala. Kungenzeka ukuthi amaqhawe ethu athole icala kubayeni babo ukuthi ubunikazi buye ngemuva, ngoba ngamaphupho futhi babona abathandekayo babo, ngokuhlangana nalo lobu buntu (kodwa kwakungekho lutho ngaphandle kwakhe).
Amaphupho ethu anganikelwa kuphela ukubuyisa uthando ebudlelwaneni babo bomshado njengamanje. Akahambi ndawo, kuphela isikhashana ethunyelwe emakhoneni amnyama omphefumulo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kufanele bahlolwe njengoba behlobana nabayeni babo: noma ngabe abaphuca icala lesimo sengqondo esijwayelekile, abadingi ukuqashelwa nokunconywa - hhayi ukuthi bakulungiselele kanjani isidlo sakusihlwa, kodwa nje? Lezi zifundo zizobanika ithuba lokuthola umfudlana omusha nobudlelwano namadoda abo abaseduze.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin