Vuma, imvamisa ngosuku lokuqala esivakashelwa yimicabango, yini umuntu azolala embhedeni? Ngisho nanamuhla, abesifazane baphendukela ezindleleni ezinjengokubala usayizi wesithunzi sozakwethu ongaba khona kanye nobude beminwe / ikhala kanye nenani lezimila emzimbeni. Kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi izindlela ezinjalo azithembisa lutho ngokoqobo. Kodwa-ke, odokotela bezengqondo baveze amaphethini ambalwa okuziphatha angakwazi uma angakhulumi ngamakhono ezocansi, bese okungenani anikeze isethulo esiyisibonelo.
Mina nami kuphela
Ngaphandle kwekhwalithi engenakwenzeka ebulilini obuhle kakhulu? Vele, ngaphandle kokunakekelwa kwabalingani komunye nomunye. Cabanga nje ukuthi ubusendleleni noma waya endaweni yokudlela ethokomele. Kwenzekani ngokulandelayo? Unesithakazelo kuwe, ubuza imibuzo, ufuna ukwazi kabanzi ngawe? Uma kunjalo, unethuba lokuthi indoda ibe ngumlingani wezocansi onocansi. Kepha uma ungakwazi futhi ufake amagama bese uqala ukubonakala sengathi wenzeke eTheather Remologue kaHamlet, lezi zindaba zidumaza - indoda iyazibukela - futhi lokhu kusikisela ukuthi kuzokhethekile kuphela imizwa yakhe.
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Ungangithinti
Noma yimuphi umuntu onentshisekelo kuwe, njengowesifazane, okufanele anqobe, azokulwela ukuthi uthinte, futhi cha, ngeke kube khona ukuthinta okuhlambalazayo, ngaso sonke isikhathi njalo ufuna ukuzwa ubukhona bakho. Lesi sibonakaliso esihle. Kepha lapho le ndoda igwema ukusondela kwakho ngazo zonke izindlela, ayifuni ukungena kuthintana nosondelana ngisho nangemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa, lindela iqhinga - lingaba ngemfundo yezenkolo noma imfundo yezenkolo. Njengoba uqonda, umlingani onjalo kungenzeka ukuthi ajabulise embhedeni.
Bonke abesifazane bayefana
Awunaso isikhathi sokujwayelana, futhi usuvele uyazi ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lowesifazane omubi olwaluyinto yangaphambili? Insimbi ye-alamu. Asikho isiqinisekiso sokuthi indoda engeneliseki njalo phansi kwabesifazane ngeke iqale ukukhombisa imizwa engemihle ekhelini lakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuphawula okubucayi okubucayi kwabesifazane bakhuluma ngezinkinga zokuzethemba futhi kaningi ngezimo ze-neurotic. Ngabe udinga "ukufika" okunjalo futhi uzoke ulungele ukuba khona lapho kulungile kwangaphambili?
Ngihlale kwenziwa kahle
Khuluma kancane, sebenza okuningi. Kepha hhayi esimweni sabanjalo. Umuntu ongeke aphile angazi umhlaba ukwazi ngokunqoba kwakhe kocansi, okungenzeka ukuthi kungenzeka kungamangaze embhedeni, ngoba iningi le- "fearts" lakhe liyaqisa ngokusobala. Indoda eqiniseka ngamakhono ayo futhi yazi kahle amakhono ayo, ayisoze yagcizelela lokhu, kunalokho, iyomane ithathe amalungiselelo ocansini ezandleni zakhe.