Sonke sifuna ukufana nezithombe zesikrini sabesifazane abaphumelelayo nabazethembayo abangasinda ehlukaniso, ngaphandle kokudwengula izinyembezi, kepha bafakazele ubuhle babo kuphela. Kepha empilweni kwenzeka njalo. Ngisho nokuqhekeka kobudlelwano obungekho emthethweni kungangqongqoza ngokuphelele igeji.
Uma wena, njengeningi, awunakusindisa ukuthula kwengqondo ngesikhathi nangemva kokuhlukana, ungazibekeli yona. Ukukhathazeka nokukhala kujwayelekile. Zinike ithuba lokuphanga, ungakopili imizwa. Kepha zama ukungaweli endimeni yohlukunyezwa kanye nokukhawulela ukuhlupheka ngamaviki ambalwa.
Lapho-ke kufanele uhlaziye izizathu eziholele ekuphelisweni kobudlelwano. Mhlawumbe lokhu kuzocacisa ukuthi yimaphi amadoda okufanele agwenywe esikhathini esizayo nokuthi ungashintsha kanjani indlela oziphatha ngayo ukuze wakhe inyunyana eqinile.
Zama ukungagxili embusweni wakho we-divergent. Sebenzisa isikhathi ngezinzuzo: Hlangana nabangane, iya eshashalazini, funda izincwadi. Ngenxa yalokhu ungaphuma ekucindezelekeni ngokulahleka okuncane.