Okubi kakhulu ukuthi umzimba wethu "ukhuluma" ngaphezu kwentando yethu - ngekhanda unikeze imicabango yethu engaphakathi kanye nezifiso eziyimfihlo kakhulu. Ukushukuma kwethu okucishe kube kungabonakali nokunyakaza kungamasiginali ahlelwe ngemvelo esithumela ngokungazi. Okuzungezile kuyakubona futhi kuyabavimbela, nasezingeni eliphansi. Lokhu kungukuqonda okungazelelwe, kwesinye isikhathi okuthi "Intuition", "thanda ekuqaleni kokubona", "ukwenqatshwa okungenakuqhathaniswa", njll. Kungakho izinsizakalo ezikhethekile zihlala zisebenza ngokucophelela, ziheha ochwepheshe abahle kakhulu. Lapho ulungiselela "ama-ejenti 007", afundiswa hhayi nje ukuthwebula, kodwa futhi aqondise amasiginali emzimbeni entweni ebekiwe. Lapha singaba ulwazi olunjalo yebo ngaphambili! Ngakho-ke, yini intuthuko emkhakheni wolimi lomzimba isinikeze sona mazengqondo kanye nochwepheshe bezocansi?
Chipher. Uvame ukubona umuntu onentshisekelo ngakho noma ukuxhumana njalo nakho - ngokwesibonelo, emsebenzini. Ungathanda abangane abaseduze kakhulu, kepha ungaqondi ukuthi usebenza kanjani kuwe. Lapha uhlela amanga lokucabanga: Kufanelekile ukwenza isinyathelo sokuqala? Ingabe kukhona ubudlelwano obusondelene? Kuthiwani uma ungamthandi (yena), kodwa uxhumana nawe ngokwakho ngokwamandla? Maye, imvamisa kakhulu isinyathelo sokuqala akwenzi lutho - nje ekwesabeni ukunqatshwa. Ukusizakala nge-crib yethu, ungaqonda ukuthi umuhle yini entweni yakho, noma ngabe awukatshelanga amagama.
Amasiginali abesifazane. Ngakho-ke, unamathuba uma ekuboneni nina bantokazi ...
Isongelwe. Kulesi simo esinemibandela, izenzo eziningi ezincane zingafaka - njengezingubo ezingcolile, zezinwele zokulungiswa, ukushefa othuli olungewona owothuli. Uma, ukukujabulela, lona wesifazane uqala ukuthinta izinwele zakhe ngenkuthalo (ngokwesibonelo, eshisa i-curl emunweni) - amathuba akho ayakhuphuka. Ukuthinta kwezinwele okuzithayo - uphawu lokuheha okunamandla kunalokho.
"Warts" wena. Ngokwemvelo, kungenzeka kuphela uma okungenani ujwayele. Ukushukuma komzimba "noma" abanikazi "kuhlelwe kwi-DNA yowesifazane ngamunye futhi ekuqaleni kubhekiswe kwinzalo. Njengokulindelekile, empilweni yakhe, owesifazane akasebenzi nje kuphela enganeni, kodwa nakulabo abanganengqondo ngempela. Uma le ntokazi ikulungisa uthayi, kusho isikhafu, isula ijantshi noma ishelele izinwele zakho - thokozani! Ukwenza isiko lokushukunyiswa kokuphathelene, njengoba bekuzokushada, njengensimu yalo, ngaleyo ndlela kucabanga ngezimbangi.
Izama emlonyeni. Nganoma iyiphi indlela - ichopho lomunwe, ukukhotha izindebe noma indawo yokukhosela yepensela yepensela. Zonke lezi yizibonakaliso ezithembekile zokuthi intshisekelo yakhe akunazo ubungane nje.
Izindebe ezivulekile kancane. Physiology eqinile! Ngesikhathi sokusondela okusondelene kwezindebe, ngenxa yalokho, baba ngokwengeziwe. Futhi ukuba khona kwento yentshisakalo kuqhutshwa ngokuzenzakalela emzimbeni wowesifazane ngendlela efanayo. Umphumela: Ekuboneni kwakho, izindebe zakhe zivulekile ngokuzithandela futhi zingenakuvuleka.
Eshaya amahlombe. Uma uStroking ehamba kancane futhi ethambile, akulutho kodwa isifiso saso esingazi lutho sokudonsela ukunaka kwakho esifubeni sakho. Vele, lokhu kungaba kuphela uma kwenzeka unentshisekelo ngakho njengomlingani ongaba khona.
Embozwe yi-blush. Lokhu akuyona into ephikisanayo. Lapho nje kukhona into ekhuphukayo, izinga lokushisa lomzimba likhuphuka. Ngokubona lokhu kungavezwa ngokubukeka kwebhulashi noma kumaconsi amancanyana okujuluka (uhlobo lwezinhlwathi) ebusweni. Cabanga ngalokhu: Uma kunjalo, lona wesifazane ucishe waba ngeyakho.
Amasiginali wesilisa. Uma ekuboneni kwakho ...
Amamodeli i-torso. Lokhu kuhlola ukuhlakanipha kusho ukuthi le ndoda "yakha" isikhundla somzimba wayo kuwe ngendlela ethile. Uma unganakwa umngane wakhe ohlelweni oluyi-sexy, wembula i-torso eqondiswayo futhi amtshengise. Ngamanye amazwi, uma iphupho lakhe - wena, uPelvis wakhe nesifuba uzokwenzeka kuwe, noma ngabe amehlo akhe ebheke kolunye uhlangothi. Futhi, ngokuhlukahluka ukuzama ukubonakala kukhange, le ndoda idonsa isisu futhi iveze isifuba.
Ama-glides okufanele abukeke. Uma, ngesikhathi sengxoxo, ukubukeka okuphindaphindiwe kungena emehlweni akho phansi emlonyeni bese ubuyela emehlweni futhi - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuheha okunamandla kakhulu.
Ukumamatheka, kulutha ikhanda. Ngakho-ke indoda ebonakalayo ibonisa uhlangothi lwayo oluqondile, olusengozini enkulu, elinde wena ukumamatheka kokuvunywa. Lesi senzo singabhekwa njengombuzo obonakalayo: Ngiyakuthanda? Ingabe usukulungele ukungithanda?
Ama-nods. I-movie ngokwayo ayinasithobisi socansi. Umbuzo ngobuningi. Uma indoda inikina kuwo wonke amagama, kwenzeka kuye ngokungazi. Futhi uphakamisa ukuthi umbuzo wokuheha kwakho usenqume yena kahle. Kanjalo namakhanda.
Izama ukukuthinta. Hlanza umucu wezinwele ngamehlo akho. Lapho ingxoxo, bekungaba ukumboza intende yakho yesandla sakho. Ukuvula umnyango phambi kwakho, kukuthatha ngengalo ngenhla kwe-elbow noma usuka emahlombe ... ukusetshenziswa kwanoma yisiphi isilungiselelo esizothinta, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi umuntu afuna ukuya ebudlelwaneni obusondelene kakhulu.
Amasiginali ajwayelekile kuwo womabili ocansi azwakalisa uzwela. Ukunwetshwa kwabafundi. Uma ngokwako kungukubuka kwezinye izimo kungasho ukuthi kunentshisekelo kuwe njengomuntu onke, khona-ke lolu phawu lungamaphesenti ayikhulu. Uma, uma ukubheka wena, abafundi be-vezavi yakho bayanda, i-interlocutor ayinandaba. Ukwanda kwabafundi ukusabela kokuzithandela okuvela ku-cortex yengqondo.
Izimpaphe zokunciphisa. Akukaze kube yize kudala kubonakale ukuthi abathandi balungile. Lapho sibona lowo esimthandayo, izimfanelo zobuso bethu zithamba ngokuzithandela, zikhange ngokwengeziwe. Imigqa ebukhali iyanyamalala, futhi amehlo ayamamatheka. Futhi uphawu olucacile lokuheha ukumamatheka okuqukethwe. Mhlawumbe, thina ngokwethu sabona: Ngendlela yozwela, umlomo wethu uqobo welule izindlebe.
Ukupholisa. Uma i-interlocutor ibhekana nokushintshwa koshintsho ekubonisweni kobuso bakho nokunyakaza kwakho ngokulingisa okungaphansi, kusho ukuthi ufuna wena ngempela. Indoda ebhekene nozwela, ngokwemvelo izama "ukubamba igagasi" yento yakhe futhi ingene kuye. Okungukuthi, uma ngabe wena ngalesi sikhathi ngesizathu esithile udabukile noma ubalulekile, umuntu olungiselelwe kuwe ngeke ahleke kakhulu, ukugibela amahlaya noma azame ukukulanda ngohlobo lwezinkinga.
Ukulawula. Okuthiwa izithiyo zomzimba - uphawu lokuntuleka kozwela nokungafuni ukuxhumana. Ukubamba amasiginali anjalo kwabanye, kungcono ubashiye wedwa - abakwazanga kuwe. Futhi zilawule: unganikezi imizwa yakho ngaphandle kwesidingo.
Kubukeka. Uma ubukhulu obukhulayo bokubukwa bukhombisa ukuheha, khona-ke ukungabikho kwayo kukhombisa ngokucacile ukuthintana okubukwayo. Kalula nje, isabelo ngamabomu entweni yakho yokubona ohlangothini oluhlangothini lunobuhlakani kunanoma ikuphi ukuvuma izono okungathandeki.
Ibamba okuthile ezingeni lesifuba. Uma, ngesikhathi sengxoxo nawe, i-vesati yakho ibambe phakathi kwakho noma iyiphi into (ngokwesibonelo, ingilazi, ngocingo, ugwayi, incwadi), yazi, izithiyo ezibucayi. Le ndaba yenzelwe ukumvikela ekuxhumaneni nawe. Hhayi-ke, ungagcizeleli ...
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