Uma ukala amanani aphelele, khona-ke akukho okubaluleke ukwedlula umndeni. Kepha, ngombono wami, ukuqhathanisa lapha akukulungile ngokuphelele. Ngokufanelekile, umuntu kufanele apheleze amanye. Ukulingana nje maqondana nezindleko zesikhathi nemizamo ehambisana nayo iyahlukahluka ngokuya ngezinto eziza kuqala empilweni. Mina, nganquma ngokunembile ukuthi umndeni, ukukhulisa indodakazi encane kulesi sigaba samanje sempilo yami, kunjalo, kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu.
Ngokusekelwe kulokhu, ngihlela umsebenzi wami wobungcweti, yize kunjalo, kwesinye isikhathi akulula. Ikakhulu, lapho inqubo yokuzilolonga igcwaliseka, ihlala ithatha isikhathi esiningi nomzamo. Ngangenze nginikela ngendima ethile lapho ecabanga ukuthi isikhathi eside sintula indlu ngenxa yokuvakasha kohambo. Kimina, injabulo yomndeni, okokuqala, ubudlelwane obuvumelanayo, lapho kungekho khona uthando, kodwa futhi nokuhloniphana, ukusekela nokuqonda. Futhi-ke, kubalulekile kimi ukuthi ngisindise lokhu kuvumelana futhi nganda. Akusizi ngalutho ukuthi isikhathi samakhulu eminyaka sinendaba nabesifazane nabo babebhekwa njengabagcini bendawo yokuzwa ekhaya.
Imithetho emihlanu:
1. Njalo kusukela kusihlwa ngihlela usuku olulandelayo hhayi kuphela izinto, kodwa futhi nezingubo, zezinwele, ukwakheka. Igcina isikhathi kakhulu futhi ikuvumela ukuthi uyisebenzise kahle.
2. Angithathi okuthile uma ngingaqondi ukuthi ngikwenza kanjani. Lokhu akusebenzi kuphela kwi-Professional Sphere, kodwa futhi nokuphila kwansuku zonke. Ngokubona kwami, kuyasiza nokungachithi isikhathi uchithelwe imizamo engenamsebenzi yokuphumelela kulokho ongakubi nesethulo esincane. Ihlala iqondiswa umthetho: okokuqala ukuhlola kahle zonke izici, bese uqhubeka nakwicala.
3. Ngicabanga ukuthi ukukhathala akusona isizathu sokupheka kabi futhi, ikakhulukazi, kubukeka kukubi. Eminye yemithetho eyinhloko engangisiza ukuthi ngingakhohlwa ukuthi i-mission ebalulekile iphathiswe amahlombe anoma yiluphi ubulili obulungile - ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo ukuze uhlale owesimame. Ukuhambisana nalo mthetho kugwema izinkinga eziningi empilweni yomuntu siqu.
4. Sivikela umbono wakho kuphela uma nginezimpikiswano ezanele. Lo mthetho futhi ulungele yonke imikhakha yempilo futhi usiza ukugwema ukucaciswa kobudlelwano obungenasidingo nabo bobabili ozakwabo kanye nabantu abaseduze. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi noma yini yokulwela ukunqoba engxabanweni iphula amandla amandla angaqondiswa endalweni nasekuchitheni inzuzo enkulu kubo nabathandekayo babo.
5. Angiyeki ekuthuthukisweni. Akukho lutho oludina kunowesifazane ofanayo njalo. Ochwepheshe bezengqondo abakhathali ukuphindaphinda ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuma, kepha njalo dlulela phambili - olwazini olusha, amathuba, ukuthola amakhono amasha futhi uthole amakhono amasha. Ukuhamba phambili kuyadingeka kumuntu ophumelelayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngihlala ngikukhumbula lokho:
- Indlela engcono kakhulu yokukhuliswa yisibonelo sakho;
- Ngaphambi kokuthi usho, kungcono ukucabanga kaninginingi;
- Akunasidingo sokuthembisa lokho ongazokwenza;
- Ungaze usheshe ngeziphetho, ungeyona yonke imininingwane;
- Impumelelo izofika kuLowo ongeyesabi abasebenzi;
"Ukumamatheka kudala isimo sabanye, futhi izwi elihle lithwala imfudumalo.
- Owesifazane olinganiselayo nowezolile uzohlala ephambi kwamabanga aqhuma futhi axakile;
- Ukuphazamiseka emicabangweni kuzoheha ukungcola kwemizwa futhi kusebenza;
- Akukufanele ukuchitha amakhono akho, amandla nesikhathi sakho salabo abangakudingi noma abakwazi ukwazisa.