I-Polygamous Man - Izinyoni zamahhala ezine-libido enempilo. Owesifazane wePolygamy - ukhethekile ngesibopho somphakathi esiphansi. Kepha konke ezweni lanamuhla kuyashintsha ngejubane elingakaze libonwe, futhi nalolo, kungabonakala sengathi izisekelo eziyisisekelo sezishintshile.
Kwacatshangelwa ukuthi abesifazane abazenzakalelayo bangabesifazane abazenzakalelayo, ngoba bangabagcini bokuzwa futhi baphoqelekile nje ukuthi bathembekile kumlingani wabo, bahlale ngewindi futhi bembozwe ngothuli futhi bembozwe ngothuli.
Kodwa ingabe ikhona igalari yowesifazane, ukuthi ungangena kanjani emakhanda abesifazane kuzinhloko zabesifazane?
Ngiyaqiniseka ukuthi "indoda eyodwa yempilo" iyisisombululo esingadalwanga physiology, kepha sixhunyiwe kuphela ngengcindezi yezenhlalo nemithetho, njengoba sazi, yalotshwa ngabantu. Nasemitsheni yalezi - "Yazi indawo yakho, umfazi." Futhi ngichaze le ndawo ngokuthi uyazi ukuthi ngubani.
Phambilini, ukuncika emibonweni yomphakathi kanye nesibindi sikababa esijuluko, asishaya etafuleni uma kwenzeka ukungalaleli, babenamandla kunanoma yiziphi izinto ezidingekayo, izifiso kanye nemvelo.
Owesifazane wayenohlu, ophambene naleso naleso sitho, wabeka amakimu ngokuhlukile:
- Zinakekele ngaphambi komshado;
- Ikhulelwe ngemuva kokusebenza cishe kwazo zonke izikweletu zomshado;
- I-Riga - kungakhathalekile ukuthi ikuphi, ukukhulelwa nokuzalwa kwangaphambilini;
- Ukunakekela izingane, ikhaya nomyeni.
Ukusuka ekusetshenzisweni kwemali ngokweqile kwemisebenzi, ekucindezelweni okubekezelayo emahlombe abo, ekuntuthulweni kokuvimbela inzalo kowesifazane kwabeka isiphambano kubo futhi wabona ubulili obukhona njengomsebenzi, umalume nezikweletu. Injabulo enkulu futhi ayihambanga. Yebo, kunabesifazane ababelalela izifiso zabo futhi behamba ngomgwaqo wokumelana nobuncane - yize emphakathini, ekucindezelweni kwakhe, ekulahlekelweni kwaKhe okuvela kwabaningi, imvelo yabo. Kepha bekulokhu kungafani nemithetho.
Izikhathi sezishintshile, futhi abesifazane bathi amalungelo abo akhulu kakhulu. Ukuvela kwezindlela zokuvimbela inzalo kwanikeza inkululeko kubo bonke abesifazane abavela emphumeleni osondelene nobulili - ukukhulelwa, ophishekela okhokho bethu.
Owesifazane uqobo ukhetha umlingani. Lalela imizwa yakhe futhi usengavele ukhulume ngokuthula mayelana nezimbangela zangempela zokungalingani kwabalingiswa "njengoba izimbangela zesehlukaniso - izimiso zezocansi ezahlukahlukene, ukuntuleka kocansi.
Futhi nokho, njengodokotela wezengqondo nodokotela wobungqingili, ngibona i-nuance ebaluleke kakhulu. Isithembu sowesifazane esimweni saso esimsulwa senzeka ukuba yizikhathi ezithile zokuphila kowesifazane hhayi esinanini esikhulu kangaka. Futhi lapha izici zethu zemvelo zemvelo zinendima enkulu engenakulahlwa ngama-akhawunti.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu evela kwabesilisa yiyona eqinile ngokomzwelo ebopha umlingani wezocansi.
Amaphesenti amancane kuphela abesifazane angahlukanisa phakathi kombhede nemizwa, ukwaneliseka ngokomzimba nokwaneliseka kokuziphatha. Ngiyasiyazi isimo lapho sinqaba ukubuyisana okusheshayo ngemuva kokuxabana nomlingani, ngoba icala alidlulanga futhi amacala awazange akwehlise?
Ngakho-ke, lawo madoda akazange asibuse kule ndaba futhi ngeke aqonde, ngoba akukho lutho olungcono kubo kunokwenza embhedeni.
Hlukanisa ubulili kanye nobudlelwano ngokugcwele, ubulili nemizwelo, ukwaneliseka ngokobulili kanye nemizwa kutholakala kwabambalwa, ngakho-ke ubudlelwano obukhululekile, obusekelwe yithonya lomzimba, abuvame kakhulu kwabesifazane. Yebo, amadoda aguqula ama-halves abo wesibili nabesifazane, yilabo kuphela ababoshelwe kakhulu, bawe othandweni futhi, ekugcineni, bahlupheke, ngoba indoda ayizange ithembisa lutho, futhi kungafanele ...
Omunye umzuzu omkhulu Ngemuva kwakho konke, i-orgasm yowesifazane, ngokungafani nowesilisa, akuyona nje umakhenikha futhi ngaphandle kokuhlekisa (okungenakwenzeka ngoxhumana naye wesikhathi esisodwa) kungenzeki.
Futhi-ke kuvela ukuthi ukushayela kuphela emzini wenkululeko, futhi, awusona ukwaneliseka kwakuwumgomo, khona-ke asikhulumi nge-monogamy, kodwa nakhu kungcono ukusebenzisana nodokotela wezengqondo, kunokuba ubambe iqhaza ekudluliseni kwabalingani.
Ngokusobala into eyodwa - ngoba ucansi lwathi lubalulekile nakwabesilisa. Abesifazane baphuma emfundweni wakusihlwa, ekulahlisweni, emihlanganweni yokulalela nokulalela okungaboni iminyaka eminingi yezinto. Kubi? Kuhle? Owesifazane ngamunye unelungelo lokuzixazululela yena, bangaki abalingani, ukuthi bangabakhetha kanjani futhi baphile kanjani nalabo abangahlangabezani nezidingo zakhe noma bathole inketho efanelekile ngayo. Futhi le nkululeko iyabiza.