Umkhathi emndenini, ubudlelwane babazali komunye nomunye nasezinganeni, kanye nokukhuliswa kwabo - kuyisisekelo sempilo yanoma yimuphi umuntu obekelwe ebuntwaneni. Ekwakheni umndeni wakho, sisuselwa kakhulu kokuhlangenwe nakho kwezihlobo zethu kanye nabathandekayo, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeka "izitini" zomusa kakhulu, ukwethembana nothando. Izincwadi eziningi nge-Psychology zibhalwe ngalesi sihloko, kepha yilowo nalowo unesipiliyoni sawo somama, ahlukile. Njengokubukwa kokukhuliswa okulungile. I-Star MAMMICES Regina Todorenko, uTutta Larsen noNelli Yermolaeva babiwe nababhalisile babo.
URegina Todorenko
I-TV edumile ne-Blogger Regina Todorenko yaba ngumama ngasekupheleni kuka-2018. Indodana yami nomyeni wakhe uVlad Topalov wanikeza igama elithi Mikhail, kodwa igama nguMichael. Umama osemusha uyavuma ukuthi unezindlela zawo zokukhuliswa yindlalifa. Isibonelo, muva nje ingane yaba nentshisekelo kwifoni yabazali. URegina "njengomama okhathalelayo" akazange anikeze indodana yakhe igajethi, wesaba ukuze ingane ingabhekwanga. Kodwa-ke, ukuboniswa, kwashintsha umbono wawo. Wabona ukuthi uma kungavimbela ngesigaba indodana yakhe ukuthi idlale ngocingo, yayizoqinisa isithakazelo sakhe kuye. Ngemuva kwalokho i-ntombazane uqobo yasikisela ukuthi idlale ingane, ichaze indlela yokusebenzisa le gajethi. Lapho nje uMichael eqonda, kwakungu, isithakazelo sakhe sehla kancane kancane, futhi washintsha kwezinye izinto.
"Ochwepheshe bezengqondo kuyo yonke ishubhu amagajethi amabi athinta kabi i-psyche esheshayo yengane. Futhi kubonakala kimi, ububi konke lokho ngokusebenzisa nami !!! Ngokuvamile, abaningi bagwetshelwa iqiniso lokuthi abukho ukunqatshelwa kwendodana yethu, kodwa umgomo wami ulula - ngivunyelwe ukusakazeka amathoyizi futhi ngibavumele ukuba baqoqe " approx.), "kusho umgcini we-TV.
Nelli Ermolaeva
Umgcini we-TV odumile, wowesifazane webhizinisi kanye nelungu lephrojekthi "I-Dom-2" uNelli Yermolaeva wabeletha izibulo ngo-2018. Umfana omuhle kakhulu wavela emhlabeni, okwathi abazali ababizwa ngokuthi yi-Miron. Manje umama osemusha ubeka ngentshiseko izithombe nevidiyo nendodana yakhe ngokuphila kwakhe kwansuku zonke nengane futhi ahlanganyele nabalandeli bezindlela zokukhuliswa, ezazazise ngazo ngalesi sikhathi.
Into ebaluleke kunazo zonke, ngibheka uNelly, lokhu kungukubonakaliswa kothando nge-Chad yakho, ukuxhumana ngomzimba, ukwanga, ukuvalwa, kanye namagama athi "Ngiyakuthanda." Uyavuma ukuthi wayenentula ebuntwaneni lapho ukunakekelwa kwabazali nokubonakaliswa kwesisa. Umethuli we-TV unamathela esimweni sokuthi ingane etshalwe esimweni esinjalo esizothwala uthando kuyo yonke impilo futhi kuzoba lula ngaye ukuyinika izingane zakhe ezizayo.
Okwesibili, iThe Star ithi, kuyadingeka ukudumisa izingane ukuze zizuze futhi zisize indlu, noma okuncane. Uyaqiniseka ukuthi ingane ngeke ichithwe kulokhu, ngokuhlukile, izoyinika isisusa esidingekayo sokuzimela nangezinto ezifanele.
Futhi, okwesithathu, ermolaeva ngokwezigaba akwamukeli isijeziso nokukhala. Ukholelwa ukuthi ngenxa yobudlelwano obunjalo, ingane ingavala ngokwakhe, izokwesaba abazali futhi ngeke izizwe izolile emkhayeni.
UTutta Larsen
Intatheli eyaziwayo noMnumzane we-TV uTutta Lartan ngumama omkhulu - uphakamisa izingane ezintathu. Okwengeziwe, uLuka, ngolunye usuku wayeneminyaka engu-15 ubudala. Indodakazi yami manje ineminyaka engu-9 ubudala, futhi indodana encane kunazo zonke i-Wan - Iminyaka Engu-4. UTatiana (igama langempela lenkanyezi - approx. Auto.) Uhlanganyela njalo nababhalisile ku- "Instagram" ngezindaba ezivela emndenini wakhe. Imvamisa kuphakamisa ingqikithi yokukhuliswa, ukuxoxa nababhalisile. Inkanyezi inokuthunyelwe okuningi ebudlelwaneni bezingane nabazali.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngokwami ngiphawula iTutta, "AKUFANELE ushaye, uyamemeza nanoma iyiphi indlela yokuhlazisa izingane (ukwehlukaniswa, ukuthula okubandayo, ukuhambisa izinto).
"Ukushaya izingane - ubugebengu ... Ngikhuluma ngesijeziso njengethuluzi lethonya enganeni. Liyini iphuzu lesijeziso? Uyahlazisa? Cindezela? Ukuvinjelwa? Ukuziphindisela ngokuziphatha okubi? Vele akunjalo! Siyazithanda izingane zethu. Sifuna ukubafundisa! Ukuze baqonde okuthile, "kusho uLarsen. Into esemqoka ukuchaza ingane imiphumela yezenzo ezithile, ukufundisa umthwalo wemfanelo.
Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile elethuli le-TV ukuxhumana nezingane ngokulingana. Uyavuma ukuthi uma izingane zimbuza ngokuthile "okudala", akakaze akushiye impendulo, kepha azame ukuchaza ingane iqiniso, kunjalo, ngesimo esitholakala kuye. Ukholelwa ukuthi ubudlelwane bokwakha nengane buwumsebenzi ofanayo nalelo ndoda yabantu abadala.
Elinye iphuzu elibalulekile emfundweni liyimfundiso yokuzimela. Kufaka phakathi ngokwemigomo yokuzijabulisa. Emndenini womethuli we-TV, "abazali abajabulisi izingane." Vele, bangahlangana futhi badlale imidlalo yeBhodi ndawonye, bafunde ngokuzwakalayo, babuke ifilimu, kepha akuhambi njalo ekusunguleni izifundo ezahlukahlukene. "Ukuzibophezela kanye nobudado buqala ngalokhu: Okokuqala, ingane ifunda ukuzijabulisa, bese izinikela ngokwazo, njll."