"Ukusuka ekumamatheleni kuzoba ukukhanya konke!" - Sikhumbula leli binzana elivela kukhathuni kusukela ebuntwaneni. Kepha njengokucabanga okuhle kwempilo yethu eminyakeni embalwa edlule. Uma ngaphambi kwalapho bekungabhekwanga ukuvunywa ukukhala ngempilo enzima futhi kwabelane ngezinkinga nabangane, manje sekungafaneleki amahlombe abantu. Okufihla ngemuva kwemaskhi yeGuinplane, kuhlale kunenzuzo enhle, indlela yokusithuthukisa kanjani imvelo yakho yokomoya futhi uthathe isinyathelo ukuze uzuze wena - sizozama ukuthola.
Ebuntwaneni bami, umqondo wokuthi "ukucabanga okuhle" awuzange ube khona, abantu abajabule babebizwa ngokuthi amathemba, okuphambene nalokho - ama-pessimists. Maye, isibonelo somuntu wami osondele kakhulu - omama - setha ukuthi akukho lutho oluhle okwenzeka futhi alukwazanga. Ukuthi ngokudumazeka kwabo empilweni, noma ngokuqapha ngokweqile, "kwafumana" noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka: "Ngeke uphumelele," "Ngubani olindele yona!". Uma kwenzeka, njengomthetho, wabikezela uhlobo olubi kakhulu lwentuthuko. Futhi - yebo, yena iningi, yena wayedabukile, ethola ukungapheleli kwakhe ezweni langaphandle.
Vele, lesi sikhundla sibangelwa ukwenqatshwa. Mhlawumbe, futhi udadewethu angakhula ethule athule athule, kepha lokhu akwenzekanga. Ngokuphambene nalokho, yonke imizamo yahloswa ukufakazela ukuthi umama engalungile kanjani. "Ngeke usebenze? - Futhi ngizokwenza! " "Akekho olindile? - Yebo, sizobona. " Ngicabanga ukuthi ukulimala kanye nezikhathi eziyingozi empilweni yami kungaba ngaphansi uma ngingamelanga umbono ongemnandi kangako.
Umuntu ocabanga kahle
Kuyaqonda ukuthi konke empilweni kungumphumela wokuzikhethela nezisombululo zakhe. Ngakho-ke, akufunga ukugcwala okulahliwe futhi akubonisi. Akugxili emaphutheni akhe. Njengoba uHenry Ford ekhuluma, ukwehluleka yikhono lokuqala konke futhi, sekuvele ngokuhlakanipha. Uma ukhathele - phumula! Kuyazi ukuthi kunoma yisiphi isimo kuzoba nezikhathi ezingasongelwa kahle. Ukhetha imvelo ekhuthaza. I-Universe iyisitho esizwela esiphendula ukuphuma kwakho kwamandla. Uma wenza okuhle nokukhanya, bazobuyela kuwe kaninginingi.
Iminyaka uNapoleon
Ngicabanga ukuthi iningi lethu liyavuma ukubona impilo nemicimbi ezayo kukhiye ongemuhle - ukungakhiqizi. Ukungakholelwa kanye nezikhalazo kuncishwa amandla kanye namandla, kukhuthaze ukungasebenzi. Lesi ukuphela okufile. Uma ucabanga ngalokho okubi, kungcono ukungaqali nhlobo. UDale Carnegie wayengowokuqala ukuthwala umbono wokuthi "ukucabanga okuhle" ekuziboneni komphakathi. "Injabulo ayixhomekile ezimeni zangaphandle. Kuya ngemibandela yokuhleleka kwangaphakathi. Ujabule noma unelangabe ngenxa yokuthi unalo, futhi ungaxhumi nokuthi ubani, lapho ukhona noma wenzani; Wabhala, isimo sakho sinqunywa yilokho okucabanga ngakho konke lokhu, "
Uqhubeke futhi wathuthukisa lo mbono uNapoleon Hill. Ekuthengiseni kwakhe okungcono kakhulu "cabanga futhi ucebe", waqinisekisa abafundi ukuthi konke abakudingayo ukufeza impumelelo nokuchuma ukucabanga ngendlela enhle. Uma lokhu kungenzeki futhi awugcini nje ngokuthola ibhizinisi lakho, imoto kanokusho nokukhiya izwe, nokubala amapeni, kubala ipeni elivela emholweni kuya emholweni, Ngendlela, uNapoleon uqobo wayeyindoda empofu - uMbuso wamletha ... ukuthengiswa kwencwadi yakhe. Kepha sasiyini isizathu sokuphumelela kwakhe?
Ukucabanga okuhle kunikeza umuntu ngezinzuzo ezimbili eziphambili: Akasisoli isiphetho esilahliwe, kepha abona kahle izinhloso zawo futhi afune indlela yokufeza lokho okufunayo
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Isimo sengqondo esifanele noma ukusebenza kanzima?
UJohn Kekho, uJoe uxoxa - ababhali banamuhla - baye phambili. Futhi, ebhekisa emithethweni ye-quantum physics, baphikisana nokuthi ku-quantum field, noma yiziphi izinketho (kufaka phakathi okukhangayo) zitholakala kithi, kuyadingeka kuphela ukuhambisa imisebe yamandla ehambisanayo. Lokhu kudonsela kanjalo, umuntu uthola impendulo enjalo evela endaweni yonke ebikezela. Cabanga ukuthi ungumsizi odabukisayo - uHlelo uzohlala uphonsa ngokuqinisekiswa kwezimanga ezingezinhle. Ngokuphambene nalokho, imizwa emihle izoheha izehlakalo ezinhle. Awuzami ngisho nokwenza okuthile, i-Universe ngokwayo izokunikeza wonke amathuba. Ucabanga ukuthi kufanele uthathe kuphi imali ukuvula ibhizinisi noma uthenge ifulethi? Ukuphupha ngomhlangano nomuntu othokozisayo, okhanyayo? Cabanga nje ukuthi lokhu usuvele unakho, uzizwe injabulo nokubonga - ngemuva kwesikhashana konke lokhu kuzofika empilweni yakho. Njengoba uqonda, le ndlela akuyona eyabalwi. Futhi, ngombono wami, kukhona wonke amathuba amathuba alahlekile, azitholele ama-grees.
Smirk joker
Into eyodwa icacile: vele ukhweze imaskhi yethemba elingakanani, hhayi ukufihla ubuhlungu obungaphakathi. Ngokuphambene nalokho, hhayi ukunikezela ukuboniswa ngemizwa engemihle, sibashaye bangene esifundeni sabangazi lutho - futhi lokhu kubi kakhulu. Uma ubuke i-movie ethi "Joker", uyabona engikushoyo. Umfana, umama wafundisa ukubona impilo enhle kuphela, ethembela futhi emamatheka kubantu yize kunjalo, waphenduka umbulali we-serial. "Ukucabanga okuhle kumane kuyifilosofi yobuzenzisi, ngoba lapho ufuna ukukhala, ukukufundisa ukuthi ucule. Kepha engomeni enjalo ngeke kube khona iphuzu, ngoba akuzalwanga ngenhliziyo, kodwa engqondweni, "wabhala omunye wabacabangi obumangalisayo ka-Osho.
Imizwa engemihle
Ungazami ukuwanza. Ngakho-ke ubashaya endaweni engenakuphikiswa, futhi lokhu kubi kakhulu. Adubule, uma uzizwa uthukuthele, ukhale, uma kubuhlungu. Vumela imizwa ngaphandle, ukudedela futhi kuphile.
Ukuvuma ukubona kukho konke uhlangothi oluhle futhi ungaboni okubi, sizama ukuzikhohlisa. Izinhlekelele, izifo eziwumshayabhuqe, impi, udlame, ukweqa umthetho - kunzima ukuzikholisa ukuthi lezi zinto zingabonakala kukhiye omuhle. Futhi ngakho-ke asishintshi okungokoqobo. Ukushiya izinkinga nokukhuphuka emgodini wenhlala-kahle yakhe, ukukhanyiselwa nokulunga ngeke kufinyelelwe. Umngane wami omuhle wenqabile ngisho nokukhuluma ngezinkinga nabangane ababehlanganyela - bona uqobo kufanele basolwe, hhayi imizwa enobuhlungu, ebhubhisayo, izehlakalo ezibuhlungu zikhangwa ezimpilweni zabo. Maye, isimo sanamuhla emhlabeni, usongo, silengiswa ngobuntu, sikhombise kahle ukuthi sihlobene futhi sincike komunye nomunye. Ngubani okufanele asolwe ngokwenzekile? Ngubani owayengahle? ..
"Ukwethembeka, ubuqotho, uthando, ububele - bavelaphi kusuka uma kungekho ukuqwashisa? Futhi bambalwa kuphela abantu (ngokwesibonelo, njengeGautam) bathi okokuqala badinga ukuzikhulisa ngokwabo, futhi kuphela iqiniso leqiniso lizovela kuwe, uthando lweqiniso nesihawu sangempela. Kepha ngubani ofuna ukuqonda lokhu namuhla? Sifuna nje ukuba nethemba ngoba ngokuzenzuzo. " Lokhu futhi kuyisilinganiso esivela ku-OSHO. Kepha bhalisela lokhu ngokuphelele.
Lapho ingilazi igcwele uhhafu
Empeleni ube yithemba elihle! Lababantu abadingi ngisho nokuzikholisa ukuthi ingilazi igcwele isigamu. Kwenzeka ngandlela thile ngandlela thile. Intombi yami u-Elena ivela kulokhu. Ngiyakhumbula ukuthi wasinda kanjani ekukhasheni kothandekayo, washaya isibhedlela, waphelelwa ngumsebenzi. Kepha kwanikeza isizathu sokuhlela kabusha, uzitholele kwenye insimu, uthenge indlu yakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lapho ebandakanyeka engosikweni ebanjiswayo, akuzange kucabange ukuthi imalimboleko ibizoyikhokha kanjani, kepha konke bekuphumelela kakhulu.
Izimo Ezingemnandi
Zama ngisho nasendabeni enzima kakhulu kuwe ukubona izinhlangothi ezinhlanu eziwusizo. Ekukhulekeni ukucabanga ngale ndlela, uzokuqonda ukuthi umhlaba awulona i-cinema emnyama nomhlophe. I-multifaceted. Futhi noma yisiphi isimo singasongelwa ukuthandwa kwakho.
Ngokwesicelo sokuzithuthukisa uBrian Tracy ukuzithuthukisa, ukucabanga okuhle kunikeza umuntu ngezinzuzo ezimbili eziphambili: Akazisoli isiphetho esilimele, kepha azi kahle izinhloso zakhe futhi afune indlela yokuthola lowo owufunayo. Abantu abanjalo buthula buthula ukwehluleka, ngoba kuyisizathu sokucinga ezinye izinketho. "Ukwehluleka kuyithuba lokuqala futhi, kodwa kakade ngokuhlakanipha", "kusho uHenry Ford. "Angikubekezelela ukunqotshwa. Ngavele ngathola izindlela eziyi-10 000 ezingasebenzi, "kusho uThomas Edison. Kepha ukukhetha indlela yokumelana, kufanele uqonde ukuthi kuphela ukholo ngokwalo akwanele, futhi udinga ukubekezelela, nentando enkulu.
Ngokwami, ngihlabeka umxhwele yincwadi efundwayo "iTranssurfing Reality" Vadim Zeland. Kudala wayefuna ukutadisha, kepha izandla azifinyelelanga. Kepha ngesikhathi sokuhlukaniswa, leli thuba lathula. Umbhali weluleka ukungalwa nama-windmill, kepha ukwethemba nokufunda ukuzwa ukugeleza kwempilo, kubhekisele kulokho okwenzeka lula, ngaphandle kokumnika ukubaluleka okukhethekile. Ukulwa kuzoholela ezingqinamba ezinamandla ngisho nangokwengeziwe, futhi okuhlangenwe nakho kuzonciphisa amandla adingekayo. Ngokuvamile, njengoba uDalai Lama afundiswa, "uma inkinga ingaxazululeka, akudingekile ukukhathazeka ngayo. Uma inkinga ingasebenzi, akunangqondo ukukhathazeka ngakho. " Kepha ngoba hhayi sonke esifinyelele ezingeni elifanayo lokuqwashisa nokukhanyiselwa, ngezansi - amasu ambalwa asebenzayo azosiza uma engaphenduki ngethemba lokuphoqelela, okungenani abheke lesi simo ngakolunye uhlangothi.
Ngokuka-Esoteric, umuzwa wokubonga ungomunye wemithelela yamandla enamandla kakhulu.
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Sebenzisa Simulator
Ngokuka-Esoteric, umuzwa wokubonga ungomunye wemithelela yamandla enamandla kakhulu. Zitholele idayari yokucabanga okuhle. Njalo kusihlwa, ngaphambi kokulala, khumbula izikhathi ezinhlanu zobumnandi ezazisendlini namhlanje, futhi zibonga ngobuqotho i-Universal kubo. Makube kube yinto encane: ubizo lomngane, abangalukhulumisana naye isikhathi eside, i-hairstyle entsha, inkondlo enhle noma umdlalo wekati, owawukade ucwayiwe. Ukuvuselela amarekhodi eviki lakhe, uzokuqonda ukuthi umhlaba awumubi kangako, futhi kuyohlala kuyisizathu senjabulo. Futhi, ngokwesisekelo sempendulo, izenzo ezinhle zikwenza umuzwa wokwazisa, okuhle empilweni yakho kuzovela ngokwengeziwe.
"Izindlela ezinhlanu" nazo zisebenza kunoma yimuphi umcimbi noma isimo senkinga. Cabanga ngakho bese uzama ukuthola okungenani izinhlangothi ezinhlanu eziwusizo kuwe. Ngakho-ke, ungaqonda hhayi ukungabi nathemba ngokudabukisa, kodwa futhi namathuba amasha. Akekho othokozisa isidingo sokuba sekhaya lapho ilanga likhanya emgwaqweni. Ngiziduduza ngeqiniso lokuthi akudingekile ukuchitha isikhathi endleleni okufanele ngisebenze, kwenzeka ukuthi ufunde izincwadi ezintsha, ngikhumbule ngokuzilibazisa, amaphrojekthi angenziwa ukude.
Uma ukhethwe enkingeni, indlela enhle yokuphazamisa ukuqeqeshwa kwezemidlalo. Futhi umzimba uzokuhleleka, futhi isimo sithuthuke. Ukuzivocavoca akugcini nje ngokulawula izinga le-cortisol (i-hormone, elikhiqizwa ngokucindezelwa), kodwa futhi kuvuselela ukukhiqizwa kwenjabulo ye-hormone ye-endorphin. Ekhuluma ngamagama alula, ezemidlalo zisiza ubuchopho buqine futhi busebenze kahle.
Izikhathi zenjabulo
Zilungise wena. Zitholele idayari yokucabanga okuhle, lapho uzobhala khona zonke izinto ezinhle ezenzeka kuwe ngosuku. Ngemuva kokufunda amarekhodi ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, uzokuqonda ukuthi impilo ingakhanya futhi yinhle.
Amagama, amagama ... Yiliphi ithonya abanalo ezimpilweni zethu esihlotsheni sendatshana esehlukile. Ukuqwashisa komuntu kubona noma yimiphi i-oscillations emnandi. Ukusho noma yini, sidlulisa isithembiso samandla. Amanye amagama ayakwazi ukukhokhisa amandla amahle, agqugquzele abanye - ukulimaza. Uhlaka, isisu esinamasazo dala ukungalingani, ukugxekwa okungakhambi, inhlebo iyavusa ukuvuza kwamandla. Zama ukungasebenzisi amagama ngenhlayiya "hhayi": Angikwazi, ngeke kusebenze. Zibonisa ubuthakathaka. Izitatimende zakho kufanele zibe nencazelo enhle. Thola iziqinisekiso eziningi ezingafanele futhi uzibize ngezikhathi ezinzima. Ngendlela, iziqinisekiso zingazwakala zombili njengemibuzo echazwe kukhiye omuhle. "Kungani abantu behle ukuxhumana nami?", "Kungani wawubonga umsebenzi wami omkhulu kangaka?" - Le ndlela isebenze ukucabanga ngokuya ngokuthola amandla ayo.
Njengoba besho, azokwenza nobani ... futhi uma uzungezwe ama-whins kanye nama-pessimists, kunzima ukunganqotshwa umoya ojwayelekile. Abazali abakhethi, kepha nobani ozokwakha ubuhlobo, babe abangane nomsebenzi - isinqumo sakho esiqondayo. Kungcono lapho imvelo ifaka isibonelo sayo.
Ukubuyela engilazini egcwele amanzi, ukucabanga okuhle akuwona uhambo oluvela emizweni engemihle. Umuntu omuhle wokucabanga akanikezeli ukulinganisa, kepha ufuna indlela yokusebenzisa lesi simo esivumayo. Nquma ngokwakho ukuthi ngenzeni ngale ngilazi ukwengeza amanzi noma uyilahle bese ubeka izitsha eshalofini.