Elinye i-zigmund uFreud aphawula ukuthi "ukuqondiswa kokucabanga kokugcwaliseka kwezifiso kunikeza ukwaneliseka." Vele, kumayelana nezocansi. Kepha umsunguli we-psychoanalysis wabhala ngokugcizelelwa kwe-postotricicicity of the world. Nangaphansi kwaleli gama lakhe libonakala lizikhukhumeza. Ngemuva kwakho konke, futhi kwabesifazane, amagama acashunwe acashunwe angaphezu kokufanele. Kodwa-ke, noma ngabe nokukhululwa kwamanje, ukuqaliswa kwabo kuthunyelwa kakhulu emhlabeni wokusetshenziswa kwezinto nokudla, kuvame ukubuyisela ukungagculiseki ngokobulili. ERussia ikakhulukazi.
Kanye neYurophu neMelika, kudala, sekuyisikhathi eside kusenkathi yobuntu bobufazi, kodwa postfeminism. Uyini umehluko? Iphuzu lokuqala le-feminism "isisulu sowesifazane", futhi ku-postfeminism, intombazane ekuqaleni yamahhala, iyazethemba futhi ivelele ngokwethu. Futhi into esemqoka kuso ukuqwashisa ngentokazi yamandla abo ezocansi. Lokhu kuyisisekelo kunalokho cishe kutholakale ukulingana komphakathi. Kubukeka sengathi kuyinto emangalisayo ukuyithatha, ngoba amagama azwakala ukukholisa futhi okuyenga. Eqinisweni, konke akulula kangako. Ubunzima obukhulu ekunakekeleni kusuka ku-stereotype yokucabanga.
Yebo. "Ngifuna njengakuqala: ukulandela indlu futhi ngihlanganyele ezinganeni. Okusele kungumsebenzi wesilisa. " "Ama-FEDinists amnyama kuphela! .." nokunye. Emuva kwaseRussia, izitatimende ezinjalo ziyena kuze kube manje. Futhi qinisekisa umthetho kuphela: amamodeli wokuziphatha ancike ezimpandeni zenhlalo. Kuze kube manje, akukho okungenzeka uzinzile ngokuthola imali enelisekile, kanye nokukhula komnotho ezweni, isimo sizoshintsha kancane. Kepha kuzoba.
Amantombazane anamuhla aba nesibindi
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Ngendlela, cishe "njengakuqala." Kuyathakazelisa nini? Kuyizwi lowesifazane, ngenxa yalokho, ngokuvamile kwaqala ukudlula lapho kufika ntambama kuphela engxenyeni yesibili yekhulu le-XIX. Bese-ke nge-applub enkulu kanye no-grin. Lapha, ake sithi, sithi uNietzsche: "Kowesifazane, konke kuyimfihlakalo. Kepha zonke izimfihlakalo zakhe zine-attenuation eyodwa kuphela. Igama lakhe likhulelwe! "
Phonsa ekhanda lenhlolovo eguqukayo "njengaphambi kokuthi" Amagama kaLyudmila Gurchenko asiza kakhulu. Ngesinye isikhathi, wayekhulume kabanzi ngalokhu: "Njengoba ugogo wami okhaliphile wake wathi:" Bengijwayele ukwanga umlambo we-general. "
Kepha buyela emuva ku-postfeminism. Inenkambo ethokozisayo - I-Sex Positive. Muva nje, bekunqunywe yisabelo sikaNadezhda Tolokonikova (Pussy Riot): "Yilapho umuntu wesifazane enganqikazi ukukhuluma ngocansi, akunamahloni okuthi ukhulume ngokuthola injabulo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungachaza kalula ukuthi yini okudingeka yenziwe kulokhu. Futhi lapho yena, akesabi ukuphila impilo evulekile yocansi, uma ufisa ukuba nabalingani abaningana futhi ungabi nokwesaba ukuthi isifebe sizobizwa. "
Ngokwami, ngiyayithanda le ndlela. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuphonsa imihlangano emikhulu, ucansi empilweni yanamuhla, mhlawumbe ukuphela komkhakha lapho umuntu asakwazi ukukhululeka khona. Ngesimo sokuthi ngeke silinganiswe kuyo. Futhi uma isigaba sowesifazane sowesifazane sihlanganisa ukuzibona, kanye nesifiso somphimbo womoya omusha ngemuva kwesehlukaniso noma ubuhlobo obunzima, kungani kungenjalo?
Kepha emphakathini wasemuva kwenzalamizi, leli nto yenkululeko libalulekile ngokwanele. Njengesibonelo, ukukhangisa okujabulisayo kohlobo lwezemidlalo: "Izinyembezi ngenaliti wesilisa, hlala phansi kobuso besilisa." Amahora amabili, lesi siqubulo sasihlala esikhaleni esibonakalayo futhi sasuswa ngokungenakuphikiswa. Ngokukhangisa, empeleni ungokwezigaba, empeleni, umdlalo usesangweni elifanayo. Kepha ngokwayo, ake sithi, njengoba ingxenye yalokho kuthumelelana imiyalezo yocansi isebenza kahle. Isifiso sadlula emfungelini esingokomzwelo sebinzana empeleni ngenkuthalo. Ikakhulukazi isifiso sowesifazane.
Ukusondelana akuyona nje ukuqhubeka kohlobo
Ngasikhathi sinye, uma uthinta amasayithi athandanayo, angikhumbuli ukuthi igama elithi "cunnilingus" lagcwala emibonweni namaphrofayili esitezi esibuthakathaka. Le yindlela eyinkimbinkimbi ebukeka ngayo. Yize ubulili buyingxenye yempilo, futhi i-cunnilingus iyingxenye (kwesinye isikhathi eyanele) sex. Lona kanye isihloko sinjenge-tatuled, ngokungafani ne-blowjob. Ngisho nokukhululeka kwe-sobchak, yize ku-arbeit ngendlela eyingqayizivele, kepha uvuselela incazelo: "... Futhi uma ngingafuni ukuhlala ebusweni bami ngokomthetho, kodwa ngifuna ukuqamba amanga emhlane wami, lapho ngenza konke lapha ... "
Ngakho-ke nakhu okunengqondo kwezocansi - ngesimo sengqondo sezocansi. Kepha kuboniswa futhi kudluliselwa kwabanye abantu ukuthi ngamazwi. Ukubekelwa phansi kokufunayo - okuyinkimbinkimbi. Ingxoxo ilandelwa yi-Embodiment - Ukususa i-Complex. Uma nje abesifazane ngokwabo bamemezela obala ukuthi bakhetha ukuthandwa kwabo, amadoda azokwenza izinqumo: Yini engenza kangcono, kodwa yini okubi kakhulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokuthula kwabesifazane, "Ngaphambi kokuthi" no "Ngemuva kokuthi ubulili bazibone njengabathandi abaningi.
Abesifazane bafundwe ngaphandle kokwesaba ukuthi bathi "Cha", sekuyisikhathi sokufunda nokusho ukuthi yebo, kodwa ngomoya wokuwina wezocansi.