Thina, abesifazane, sivame ukusola amadoda ekuhloseni futhi kwesinye isikhathi ukungabikho kobudoda. Kungani kuvela amadoda anjalo? Konke kumayelana nokukhuliswa, noma kunalokho, lapho ngqo kubazali okubonisa khona isinyathelo esikhulu. Uma unendodana encane, kuzoba kuhle uma isandla sakho nobaba banamathele ekukhulisweni kwakhe.
Njengoba wazi, emindenini eminingi, izingane zilethwe, iningi labo omama kanye noMkhulu kunabantu. Ngisho nasezikhungweni zemfundo, abasebenzi ikakhulukazi abesifazane.
Indoda, njengomthetho, ilungiselelwe yiqhaza lemvukuzi, ngakho-ke ngakho kanye nokufumbathisa kubushelelezi. Kulula ngowesifazane ukuthi aye kumfundisi uqobo, uma ingane yakhe enze okuthile, futhi akhulume nendodana yakhe ukuthi iphazamise umyeni wakhe ekwenzeni imali.
Khuthaza noma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kwenzalo yabantu
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Kodwa-ke, ukuxhumana okubaluleke kakhulu phakathi kweNdodana noYise kulahlekile. Indoda idlala indima enkulu ekukhulisweni komfana, ekhuluma njengesampula futhi, uma ufuna, isibonelo. Kusuka kuYise, kuya ngokuthi umfana wakhe uzokwazi ukuqiniseka ngokwakhe ummeleli wobulili obuqinile noma impilo yakhe yonke uzobheka izisekeli nosizo kwabesifazane.
Kufanele kanjani lokhu kukhuliswa
Zifanekisela
Isimo esiphela: Ubaba kufanele abe yindoda uqobo lwaKho, okungukuthi: Unomthwalo wemfanelo, oqinile, oqinile futhi othembekile - ukungadideki ngokuzethemba. Umfana kufanele aqonde lokho, agxile kulowo muntu, yena uqobo uzofinyelela okuningi empilweni.
Kodwa-ke, hhayi uBaba kuphela ongaba yisibonelo emndenini: umkhulu, umfowabo omdala, umalume angabhekana nale ndima.
Qala "imfundo" kababa kusesikhathi sokukhulelwa
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Ndawonye ukujabulela impumelelo futhi unikeze ukwesekwa kukho konke
Noma yimuphi umuntu, ukusekelwa kwabathandekayo, kanye nensizwa, ukuqashelwa kukaYise kumane nje kubaluleke kakhulu. Indoda yakho mayingazihluphi ngamazwi afudumele eNdodaneni. Amadoda amaningi akholelwa ukuthi ukubonakaliswa kwemizwa kuwuphawu lobuthakathaka, kepha kwabesifazane bethu, ngowesifazane, ukuze bashintshe leli phuzu. Ebona kuphela ukuthi uBaba uzohlala esekela futhi aqonde, umfana uzokhula ngumuntu owanele nomuntu oqinile.
Fundisa umfana ukuthi azimele
Ngo sezokuxhumana uyise nendodana yakhe, kubalulekile ukuba acabangele umbono lomfana, okungukuthi, kufanele kube khona imishwana enjengethi engxoxweni, njengoba "lokho ocabanga?", "Ungenzenjani e leli cala? " Futhi konke ngale ndlela. Gwema ithoni ebaluleke kakhulu, izitatimende ezingokwesigaba, ngoba iNdodana kufanele isungulwe, futhi okubaluleke - ukuyikhuthaza ekuqaleni.
Khuluma ngobudlelwano nabesifazane
Le ndawo ingenye ebucayi kakhulu: akuyena wonke umuntu okhuluma ngalesi sihloko, ngisho nezingane ezindala, angalisho ukuthi abasebasha. Kodwa-ke, ubaba kufanele enze lokhu, ngoba isimo sengqondo sowesilisa kowesifazane siwumaka wobudoda bakhe. Umfana osevele usesencane kufanele aqonde ukubaluleka kobudlelwano, ukuhlonipha imizwa yomunye umuntu futhi abe nomqondo wokwethembeka.
Futhi, umfana ubheka uyise futhi ufunda ukuphatha isibonelo sakhe. Uma ubaba asho umama ngenhlonipho, futhi kungenzeka futhi indodana izolandela isibonelo sakhe ngokuzayo, lapho iqala ukwakha umndeni nowesifazane wayo.
Ukufundisa ukuzisebenzela
Umuntu kumele futhi yena ngokwakhe bazithuthukisa njalo njengomuntu, basuse izimfanelo ezimbi, banikeze umgwaqo oqondile. Lapha sikhuluma kangako ngezimfanelo zabesilisa njengabantu. Futhi ukuze ingane iqhoshe ngayo, endabeni yokubeka ubaba esibonelweni futhi acabange: "Kepha uYihlo wayezofika kanjani endaweni yami?" Udinga ukuzisebenza njalo.
Kuthiwani uma umuntu engafuni ukubamba iqhaza ekukhuliseni ingane:
Ukukhuliswa kukababa endodeni yakhe kudingeka akuqaphele lapho indodana yakho iya ebangeni leshumi, kepha ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa. Musa ukukhanyisela futhi unikele indoda yakho ibe yizici zenkambo yokukhulelwa kwakho, usho ngemizwa yakho, makabuye futhi azizwe ukubandakanyeka kwakhe.
Lapho ingane izalwa, ungayithatheli kumuntu. Thatha usizo kumyeni wakhe, ngaleyo ndlela ukhuthaze isifiso sakhe senqubo.
Bashiye wedwa ukuze umyeni nendodana bathole ulimi olujwayelekile kanye nezinto ezijwayelekile. Lapho beba yiqembu elilodwa, kuzoba lula ngabo ukuthola ukuxazulula izinkinga ngokuzayo. Ikakhulu njengoba kunezinto ezinjalo lapho lona wesifazane angaqondi ngokuphelele.
Indoda yakho mayibe yigunya emndenini. Lapho owesilisa esesekelwa, kulula ngaye ukuthi axhumane naye ingane naye azojabula ngayo ukuchitha isikhathi, echaza ingqikithi engaqondakali kunina.
Shiya uyihlo kuphela nendodana yakho
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Njengoba ubona, awekho umuntu onjalo owayengaba ubaba omubi emvelweni, baba ngezimo, kwesinye isikhathi bahlangene nowesifazane ngqo. Ngakho-ke, emandleni akho okwenza konke ukuze amadoda akho womabili athole ulimi olujwayelekile futhi abe abangane ngokuphila.