Kunoma iyiphi intombazane eye yangezelela iningi, ukukhulelwa kungukuhlola okukhulu kokubukwa komzimba kanye nengqondo. Ngokwesilinganiso, ukukhulelwa kusenesikhathi kwenzeka phakathi kweminyaka eyi-15 nengu-17. Isimo, yisho ngobumnene, wethuka. Kepha kungani kwenzeka nokuthi ungasivimba kanjani lesi simo. Sizozama ukuthola.
Khuluma nendodakazi yami, uyithande impilo yakhe
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Ukukhulelwa Ebusheni
Vumelana, abafundi banamuhla bezikole eziphakeme bahluke ngokuphelele kubantu asebefunda nabo, ababavumela bahlangane nabafana, kodwa nokho senze umbono wezingane ezijwayelekile zesikole. Manje kukhona ukuthambekela lapho amantombazane-trent-amabanga abukeka njengabantu abadala ababonile amantombazane. Akumangazi ukuthi abafana beminyaka yabo nangaphezulu ngokuqinisekile banganquma ukuthi kungakanani intombazane yeminyaka. Imvamisa, amantombazane amancane ayakujabulela lokhu, akhohlwa ngobungozi bokuziphatha okunjalo.
Umuntu okhulile akaze azixhumanise ebudlelwaneni obungathi sína nesikole, uma-ke, Ungumuntu ongenamakhono ngokwengqondo, okuphezulu okungenzeka kwenzeke kubo ubulili, njengoba kufakazelwa yilowo nalowo muntu Indaba yakamuva, ukuduma kwesinye seziteshi ezimaphakathi.
Inkinga yokukhulelwa kwasekuqaleni ibhekene nezibalo, amazwe athuthukile: Endaweni yokuqala yiRussia, noma ngabe ukudabuka kanjani.
Izizathu
Kunohlu lonke lwezizathu esikumema ukuba uzijwayeze:
Ukuntuleka kokushicilelwa
Kulokhu, umthwalo wemfanelo olele ngokugcwele kubazali, owayekade ebeka phambili ukukhula kwengane. IPoland iqala kusuka eminyakeni eyi-12, noma nangaphambi kwalokho, kulo nyaka kuyadingeka ukuchaza ingane zonke izingozi zokuqala kwempilo yezocansi. Akunasidingo sokusabisa nokunqabela, ngakho-ke unesithakazelo ngokwengeziwe enganeni olwazini lwalesi sigaba sempilo. Uma ungeke ukwazi ukwenza lutho nhlobo, tshela imithetho yokuvikelwa ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini ukuze okungenani le ndlela le ukuvikela indodakazi yakho imiphumela.
Ukukhululwa
Ngomqondo othile, le nto ilandela kusukela kokuqala. Kepha umehluko kuphela ukuthi awekho ithuba elingathi sína kwabazali, ngoba umuntu ngamunye ukhula ngendlela yalo, akunakwenzeka ukubikezela ukuthi yini umfucumfucuzo ozothola ingane yakho. Kulokhu, ungazama ukukhuluma nendodakazi yami, zama ukumguqula ukunaka kwamanye ama-Age Age afanele.
Ungakushiyi wedwa, vumela ingane yakho ukuba iluleke
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Ukukhulelwa okuhleliwe
Okungajwayelekile impela, kepha kaningi abasebasha baya ngesinyathelo ngamabomu. Kugcwele imizwa, bafuna ukuhlanganisa ngokuphelele nomlingani, kubandakanya nokuletha ingxenye evamile emhlabeni. Intombazane encane isaqondi ukuthi kungenxa yezizathu zezomnotho nezengqondo azikwazi ukuba ngumama. Futhi, abazali kudingeka bazinake ukuthatha iminyaka ye-CHAD yazo, ukuze imiphumela ibe ukumangala ngawe.
Ukukhulelwa Okukhulu Kwekhonsoli
Okokuqala, umama osemusha uqobo usaphila isikhathi sezingane, ngisho nasesigabeni sokugcina. Akakayeki njengomuntu, akazange athole imfundo egcwalisiwe futhi ayilungele ngokuphelele impilo ezimele.
Ukusuka endaweni yokubuka kwe-phyhology, ukuzalwa kwengane kusenesikhathi kungabulala futhi kube ngumama, kanye nengane, ngoba umzimba awukakhiwa ngokuphelele.
Ngitshele ngazo zonke izingozi zokuzalwa kwengane yokuqala
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Ungakuvimbela Kanjani Ukukhulelwa Kwasekuqaleni
Qikelela endodakazini, uthokozise impilo yakhe futhi ungamvumeli ukuba azizwe unesizungu esijulile, ngoba iningi labo libe amantombazane angenakunaka okwenele nokushisa emndenini wabo, ngakho-ke balwela ukuba yinkululeko, noma kunjalo indlela edidayo. Khumbula ukuthi nguwe kuphela, abazali, ababhekele ingane yabo.