Ukukhuliswa kwengane akukhona emithethweni kuphela oyifaka ngaphakathi komndeni, futhi uhlanganyele njalo empilweni yengane. Kwesinye isikhathi abazali abafuni ukuthatha iqiniso lokuthi ukuxhumana kwabo phakathi kwabo kanye nabanye abantu abadala kugxile ngokuphelele yi-psyche esheshayo. Ingane yakho akufanele ikhule ngomcabango wokuthi izwe lilungiselelwe ngaye, futhi kungahle kwakhiwe umbono onjalo uma abazali ngokwabo bengalungile. Ngakho-ke yiziphi izihloko phambi kwengane okufanele zikhawulelwe noma zikhishwe ngokuphelele? Ake sikuthole.
Ukugxekwa kanzima kwabanye abantu
Akekho umuntu ongeke akwazi indawo evamile. Ngasikhathi sinye, abaningi bethu bathanda ukunikeza ukuhlola okubukhali futhi kwesinye isikhathi okungalungile kwezenzo zabanye abantu. Ukuchazela ingane, ukuthi, ake sithi le ndoda iphenduka isibani esibomvu cishe "ihlazo laso sonke isintu," ufundisa ingane yokuhlanganyela emhlabeni wonke, " Uma ufuna ukutshela ingane, ukuthi yenza kanjani ngesimo esisodwa noma kwesinye isikhathi, zama ukwenza lokhu ngaphandle kokuhlaziywa kokunye, ikakhulukazi umuntu ongazijwayele.
Ingxoxo Yothisha
Mhlawumbe, wonke umzali akayena cha, kepha akhononda ngothisha wesikole. Yebo, uthisha akakwazi ukuthola ulimi olujwayelekile nengane futhi futhi awuphoqelekile ukuncoma uthisha. Futhi kusabalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi ukusebenza kwengane yakho kuncike kulo muntu, ngaphezu kwalokho, okungekuhle kwakho ekuqondeni kothisha kuzonikeza ingane ngengane "yenkonzo yebhere": uzonikeza ithuba lokunganaki ngokuphelele Amagama nezicelo zothisha, ngaleyo ndlela azikhuli ngokuxabana. Ngaphezu kwalokho, lokhu akusebenzi kuphela kothisha bezikole, kodwa nabanye abantu abadala abaxhumana nengane yakho noma kunjalo.
Ungagxeki izihlobo
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Usopolitiki Ophansi
Kunzima ukuhlala kumazwana, edlula nge-TV, lapho kunenye enye inkulumo yezepolitiki. Ingane esemthethweni akulula ukunika lesi sihloko, ikakhulukazi uma sikhuluma ngabafundi abasebasha, konke okuvezwayo okuvezwayo kuthathwa yingane futhi kusakazwa ezindaweni ezingafanele ngalesi sihloko. Qaphela.
Taboo ekugxekeni izihlobo
Ungazonda umama womyeni wami noma umlingani wakho ngokwesigaba ubhekene nogogo wakho ekhaya lakho, kodwa ngoba izingane zakho zithandwa futhi zingokomdabu. Ukugxekwa kwakho kanye nokungahambi kahle ekuqondisweni kwabo akucaci nakancane ezinganeni, futhi ukungaqondi kuholela ekukhathazekeni. Ngokuvamile kuphakama izinkinga phakathi kukamama nobaba, kuyilapho iqembu ngalinye lizama "ukuphakamisa" ingane kuye kohlangothi. Khumbula ukuthi akukho lutho, ngaphandle kokudideka, okube sekuthathelwa indawo intukuthelo zombili, ngeke kuholele ezenzweni zakho.
Cataclysm
Emhlabeni, izenzakalo zivela minyaka yonke umuntu engakwazi ukulawula lokho okubaluleke kakhulu ubhubhane lwakamuva. Vele, ingane ingaba nemibuzo yokuthi kungani impilo ejwayelekile iguqukile kakhulu noma othisha esikoleni noma embundwini ithini, umsebenzi wakho ukuchaza umbuzo onzima enganeni futhi ngaphandle kokuboshwa kwemininingwane futhi kungenzeka Umphumela. Izingane zitholakala kalula ezindabeni ezimbi kanye ne-psyche esheshayo kungenzeka zingakwazi ukumelana.