Sonke sithande ukulalela inganekwane nge-Cinderella, lapho inkosana enhle yathandana nokubuka kuqala. "Uthando lolu!" - Sicabange, sibheke "amamitha amathathu ngaphezu kwesibhakabhaka" uhlobo lwamafilimu. Kepha bakhona abanenkani ngenkani ukuthi bekungenakwenzeka ukuthanda umuntu ekuqaleni - futhi, ekugcineni, ososayensi bafakazele ukuthi baqinisile. Wafunda izifundo zakamuva ezikufakazela.
Sicabanga kanjani uthando
"Lapho kufika isikhathi, umuntu azovela empilweni yakho, owayebonakala ebona lokho ayemfuna impilo yakhe yonke," bonke abaqeqeshi bathi bathi, kushukumisela amantombazane. Indoda enhle elahlekile kanye nobaba ongasekuhle kakhulu wezingane zakhe waya ogwini lolwandle lwakhe. Uphikisana neqiniso lokuthi impilo yakho neyakho intuthuko kufanele ikumelele okokuqala, ngeke. Kepha ngeqiniso lokuthi phezulu kumiselwe lapho ubona indoda ikulungele, ngeke sivume. Noma ngabe ucabanga ngokunengqondo, amathuba okuqhathanisa izici zendoda enenqubo yakho yendoda efanelekile, lapho uhlangana khona nezinhlobonhlobo zamadoda. Ngakho-ke hlalani enqabeni, njengoba i-rapunzel yakwenza, ayikhethi ngempela - Khetha abantu! Futhi manje siphendukela kokuthakazelisa kakhulu - ucwaningo.
Ungazisoli ngesizungu, funa umuntu uqobo
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Ososayensi basabela othandweni ekuqaleni kokungabaza
Ochungechungeni locwaningo, ucansi nozakwabo balandele izinkumbulo zabantu ngesipiliyoni esihlukile sobudlelwano phakathi nesikhathi sobudlelwano babo, zombili isikhathi eside. Isibonelo, ukwanga kokuqala, ubulili bokuqala nokunye. Kwavela ukuthi amandla emizwa yabantu maqondana nomlingani wawo ayefana nakubo bobabili ubudlelwano besikhathi esifushane nebude. Kamuva nje, abacwaningi babona umehluko phakathi kobudlelwano obuqhubekayo nobudlelwano, obusukume. Kepha kuthiwani ngothando ekuqaleni? Hlobo luni lothando uthando ekuqaleni kokufunda kokubona? Uphenyo olunamandla ", olushicilelwe ejeni lezesayensi" Ububanzi Bakho "bakhombisa ukuthi abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi bakuthola lo muzwa. Kepha eqinisweni, ucwaningo lufakazele ukuthi lo muzwa wokuthi "Uthando" empeleni umuzwa wokuheha okuqinile ngokomzimba - ofana kakhulu nenkanuko. Futhi abantu abaningi abakhuluma 'ngothando ekuqaleni kokubona' kumlingani wabo wamanje, bamane baphoqa imizwa yabo yamanje emihlanganweni yabo yokuqala nalo muntu.
Abathandi badidekile ukuthi banomuzwa ojulile
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Uyithanda kanjani le miphumela? Uyakholelwa othandweni ekuqaleni kokubona naphezu kwesayensi? Bhala umbono wakho kumazwana angezansi bese usho ezinye izinganekwane okudingeka sizikhiphe.