Ubudlelwano obuvumelanayo ngeke bakhe ngaphandle komsebenzi kuzo zombili izinhlangothi, kepha lapho omunye wabalingani ehlushwa yingqondo, kuba nzima ngangokunokwenzeka ukudala umoya onethezekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukubona i-psychopath kuvame ukuthi kube lula kangako - umuntu uvame ukuba muhle kakhulu futhi akabangeli ukusolwa uze ufike naye ngokuseduze kwakho. Futhi nokho, indlela yokuhlukanisa umlingiswa onzima ovela ekuphazamiseka kwangempela? Sinqume ukuthola.
Uzibeka ngaphezu kwakho
Le psychopath ngeke ikubekezelele ukuthi umlingani ento akwehlisile. Uyohlala uzwa imishwana efana: "Awungeke wenze lutho," "Owayengeke akwazi ngaphandle kwami," nokunye. Konke lokhu kwenziwa ngenjongo eyodwa - ukucindezela imizwa yakho, ukwethula imizwa yakho futhi ukwethula kuwe ukuxhomekeka. Wena ngokwakho ngeke uqaphele ukuthi uqala kanjani ukujabulisa i-psychopath egunyaziwe.
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Uhlolwe ngokunganaki
Okuwukuphela kwento, futhi ubudlelwane obuhle, obunobudlova ne-psychopath, bungabizwa ngokuthi ukungacabangi ebudlelwaneni: Namuhla ushintshana othandweni lwaphakade futhi uzizwa sengathi unjengenganekwane, noma kunjalo, uzwela ngokuphikelela , futhi awuqondi okwenzekile. Okubi kakhulu, ukunganakwa kuvame ukukhula kube nolaka. Ukushintshana okunjalo okungokomzwelo kunciphisa kahle i-psyche.
Akaze aqaphele icala lakhe
Njengoba sishilo, amandla phezu komhlubuli kubalulekile kwi-psychopath, futhi alondoloze igunya, wayengamjabulisi ukubona icala kunoma yikuphi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ingxenye yakho yesibili inecala ngempela, kufanele uphinde asole - ngoba uyi-Parri okufanele usolwe ngazo zonke izinkinga ebudlelwaneni. Qaphela izikhathi ezinjalo, kufanele bakwazise.
Ubonisa isimo esihle sengqondo
Ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, umlingani uzokwenza konke okufisayo, anikeze izipho futhi akujabulele nganoma yisiphi isizathu. Kodwa-ke, ungaphuthumi ukujabula - lapho nje ubudlelwano bakho busondele kancane noma ungena emshadweni, i-Psychopath izogcwala. Umgomo oyinhloko wemizamo yakhe yokuthuthukiswa - ukukwenza ulahlekelwe amandla, bese ukwenze kuthobele ngokuphelele, lapho kuzoba sekwephuze kakhulu ukuklebhula ubuhlobo.
Izoshintsha
Umuntu ongajwayele ukunamathiselwa nemizwa ejulile ngokushesha upholisa futhi uqala ukubheka "umhlatshelo" omusha ozondla imizwa. Njengoba izibalo zibonisa, ngaphezu kwengxenye yalo lonke ushintsho kwenzeka ebudlelwaneni, lapho omunye wabalingani e-psychopath. Ngokushesha nje lapho 'edlala', inoveli yesikhashana ngeke ize, kepha ngokushesha izohamba ayofuna "okuvelayo."