Njengephupho, ukushisa nokudla okukodwa, isidingo esisodwa esiyisisekelo socansi. Noma ungahleleli ukuqala ingane, akusho ukuthi udinga ukuzivikela koxhumana nabo bezocansi, ngoba isikhathi sawo seke sayeka ukuqondiswa kuphela ukuzala kabusha.
Ucansi kungekudala kwenzeka empilweni yawo wonke umuntu, okuhlangenwe nakho kokuqala kuvame ukukhunjulwa impilo, kanye nokuthweswa iziqu. Imvamisa, lolu hlelo luletha ukukhungatheka okwengeziwe kunokugculiseka. Sizonikeza izeluleko ezithile kulabo abazoqala "indlela yabo ye-Sexy", ngakho-ke ungakugwema ukudumazeka okuningi.
Kubalulekile ukuba ulungele futhi ngokomzimba, nangokwengqondo
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Okudingayo ukwazi
Iningi labantu abasha ayazi ukuthi ungangena nini ebulilini ngaphandle kokulimaza impilo nakwezengqondo. Emphakathini wethu kunombono wokuthi iminyaka efanelekile yocansi lokuqala yiminyaka eyi-18-25 - inani eliphakeme kakhulu lokuzala.
Kodwa-ke, ngenxa yesiko eliningi, okuthi emashumini ambalwa eminyaka aqala ukucekela phansi imingcele phakathi kokuvunyelwa kanye nemiphumela yendabuko, abalingani bezingane abangena ebudlelwaneni obuseduze bancipha kakhulu: manje ngisho nabafundi base-High School uzwa ukuthi bangaki abalingani Washintsha ezinyangeni eziyisithupha ezedlule. Njengoba ubona, kunzima ukubiza inombolo ngqo.
Ukuze okokuqala ngqa ubunzima obuncane kunabo bonke, kubalulekile ukulungela ngokomzimba futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, kuyinto yezengqondo. Ensizweni, futhi ikakhulukazi intombazane, lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuyanqunyelwa: kuya ngokuthi impilo yocansi yomuntu olandelayo iminyaka engu-5-16 elandelayo izoba kanjani.
Ukuhleleka kokuziphatha
Intsha ibalulekile ukumisa ngokuziphatha, akudingekile ukucabanga ukuthi ubulili busebenza nezingqinamba, awudingi muntu ukufakazela noma yini, uvele ujabule komunye nomunye.
Uma unovalo olukhulu, zama ukudala umoya opholile: ukwenza lokhu, yenza isidlo sakusihlwa sengxenye yakho yesibili, faka umoya efulethini, uthenge iwayini, lihlengele ukukhanya. Ungafaka umculo wokuphumula.
I-Pre-Pre-Generen Linen, kuyinto efiselekayo ukuthi muhle. Ukuhlanzeka komuntu siqu nakho kubalulekile, ngakho-ke ungakhohlwa ukugeza ngokushesha ngaphambi kwenqubo uqobo.
Iminyaka yokufaka ubudlelwano obuseduze iya ngokuya incipha
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Cishe into ebaluleke kakhulu ibaluleke kakhulu kunomuzwa - ukuvikelwa okuthembekile. Abaningi bake bezwa ngeqiniso ngamantombazane akhulelwa esikoleni esiphakeme, futhi manje kufanele abhekane nemiphumela yezenzo zabo ezinde.
Ukuze ungabi kubazali esemncane, hhayi ezifisweni, futhi impela, hhayi ukuba zihambisane nokwamukela i-veneEdologist, kubalulekile ukuvikeleka. Isixazululo esilula sizoba ngamakhondomu. Kepha nakekela lokhu kusengaphambili ukuze ngesikhathi sokugcina akukhona ukugijimela ekhemisi, kwephule lonke umoya obuseduze. Umzuzu obalulekile: Thenga amakhondomu okungcono ekhemisi, hhayi esitolo, ngoba imikhiqizo yasekhemisi ihlolwe ngokucophelela.
Dala isimo sothando
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Isikhundla esingakanani sokukhetha
Ungabethembi ukuya ocansini olude ngokobulili, akunakwenzeka ukuthi lokhu kwenzeke, ikakhulukazi uma kungenjalo kuphela kuwe, kodwa futhi nakumlingani wakho ukuthi lokhu kungokocansi kungokokuqala. Ungahlola kancane kamuva, kodwa ngoba manje kufanelekile ukugxila ku-classic, isithunywa sevangeli ukugwema ukulimala okukhulu.