Akuwona wonke amathoyizi asiza ngokulinganayo, noma kunjalo, akubona bonke abazali abanalo kulo mzuzu. Ukuzama ukujabulisa ingane yakho, omama abaningi nobaba abaningi bathenga izinto ezinjalo ezizoshiya ingane engcono, ekuzimiseleni, ekubikeni okubi kakhulu kuyomlethela usizi lwengqondo. Ngakho-ke yiziphi izinhlobo zamathoyizi afanele ukudlula futhi ungatholi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo. Ake sikutholele ndawonye.
Umbala "amehlo endandatho"
Onke amathoyizi ahlukaniswe izigaba yiminyaka yezingane, kanti abakhiqizi bamathoyizi abancane kakhulu bazama ukuheha ukunakwa kwabathengi nezingane zabo akudingekile kunokubangela imibala. Abazali abaningi bathanda amathoyizi aqhakazile, njengoba bevame ukuzwa ukuthi "imibala enamanzi yandisa isimo", kepha hhayi esimweni se-acidic: umbala ohlaza okotshani, obomvu kanye nombala ophuzi, kodwa kunalokho - okuphambene nalokho - nolaka futhi novalo.
Ukwesaba okukhulu
Abazali - abalandeli beTim Bertona noma nje abanandaba nezinto zokuqala abantu abavame ukuletha amathoyizi avela esitolo, okunzima ukubiza amathoyizi , noma ngabe ubaba, ethenga ithoyizi, wajabula nje. Izingane zithambekele kakhulu kulokho okwenzeka nxazonke, ngakho-ke, kungaze kube nobungozi ekubukeni okuqala njengokuqala, into efana nethoyizi elinamandla lishiya isihlathi nge-psyche yezingane. Qaphela.
Imvelaphi ayisebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi nge-psyche yezingane
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Ubulili ngokweqile
Le nto kufanele ifakwe ezinganeni zonyaka wesikole omncane abafuna ukuthatha isibonelo hhayi kuphela kubazali, kodwa futhi nabafundisi, kanye nabanye abantu abadala abajwayelekile. Kuyathakazelisa ukuthi ezinye izingane zingalingisa amathoyizi azo futhi zibone ukubukeka kwazo njengento evamile. Sikhuluma ngonodoli ngokudala ukwakheka kanye nezingubo, khumbula, phakathi kwe-zero, ama-doll - izimbiwa ezinkulu kakhulu, zibe nekhanda elikhulu kakhulu, zibe nengubo ekhanyayo futhi ziphelele iqoqo lezimonyo zifakiwe. Amantombazane anempilo kulo doneli, futhi abanikazi abajabule bazamile ukuthatha isibonelo esivela ethoylini elithandwayo, ekwenzeni nangokungefani, kodwa ukwakheka okungahambisani nakho. Gada ngokucophelela ukuthi yimiphi imiphumela engabangela ukungabi nzima ekubukeni kokuqala konodoli.
Amathoyizi amaningi
Kubukeka ngathi ukuthi ithoyizi lasekuqaleni ngesimo sentuthwane enamasondo esikhundleni semilenze noma indlulamithi nge-wokubala esiswini - indlela enhle yokuphuthelwa yingane ukuze ukhathazeke. Eqinisweni, amathoyizi anjalo awanikezi ingane ukuba ifunde ukucabanga ngobuciko: esikhundleni sokusiza ingane ukuba ifunde umhlaba, amathoyizi anjalo mamane ahlanekezele umbono wangempela, ikakhulukazi uma ingane isencane - iminyaka emi-3.
Izinsimbi zomculo
Ikhanda labazali nomakhelwane odongeni oluseduze. Isigubhu esicasulayo, lapho inqubo ivame ukufakwa khona, noma isigingci esingenakususwa enganeni futhi ilalele imisindo ye-hellish izinsuku eziningana kuze kube yilapho ingane idlala khona. Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bayazethemba ukuthi abadala kuphela abahlupheka, kodwa abantwana uqobo, okwathi, ekuqaleni kwempilo yabo, bathola umbono ongalungile womculo futhi badumazelele imisindo yabo.