Ngaphezulu indlela abesifazane bethu abacashe ngayo ubufazi, kungenzeka ukuthi i-iron malini. Kepha akunakwenzeka ukuvala amehlo abo ekubukeni kokuziphatha kwama-caraliers ngesikhathi sokuhwebo.
Ukuchazwa kwabesilisa abanjalo abaningi be-infantile noma abakhuluma kahle. Futhi kunengqondo impela. Kulula ukuvula isikhathi esedlule bese ubheka usuku lokukhulelwa lwe-20 × 30-45-love-oneminyaka yobudala. Ungqimba lohlelo lweSoviet lwaletha inkululeko ende yayilindele. Kepha hhayi kukho konke obekukhona futhi: Isikhungo somshado sawa. Isehlukaniso saba yinto ejwayelekile, futhi umkhuba awuwi. Amadoda amaningi anamuhla aletha omama. Ngakho-ke lokhu kuziphatha okujwayelekile: kungaba ukufuna umfazi oqinile, noma ukwenqatshwa okusheshayo kokuhlala ndawonye ngenxa yalowo osolwa ngowesifazane ("mama") edonsa ebuchosheni.
Kepha lokhu kuyizengqondo. Futhi uma ubukeka lula nje, khona-ke ngaphansi kwezinhlobo ezinhlanu ezijwayelekile zamadoda. Iqoqo lavela ngenxa yezindaba zezintombi kanye namaphutha. Ukuqomisana kwabo kwenzeka kumasayithi athandanayo noma empilweni. Kodwa iziphetho ziyefana: manje, uma umuntu ethatha isinyathelo sokuqala, cishe i-knight, futhi uma enobugomo omuhle, khona-ke iqhawe selivele.
1. Izixhumanisi. Kubukeka sengathi uyakwazi ukucela usuku, kusho ngakho konke futhi akukho lutho. Ungakhohlwa ukuthola imininingwane kusuka empilweni yakho. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye anikezi uphawu ngezifiso zakhe. Akukacaci ukuthi ufuna ubulili nje noma alungiselelwe endabeni edlala isikhathi eside. Ngemuva kwesikhashana, kuyazinyamalala, noma kungenangqondo ukuphendula nge-SMS yakhe yansuku zonke ngaphandle kwemininingwane. Okufana nezemvelo ekilabhini yezitabane: Unganikezi futhi ungathathi.
Amadoda aya ngokuya elindele imizamo evela emantombazaneni
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2. Ukugubha. Abafuni muntu, abazinikeli. Balindile ngobuwula lapho becula futhi behlangana okungenani kwabanye ukunyakaza. Yize ukugqwala kukuhle, ngakho-ke nje ukunakwa, noma kubhaliwe. Imizamo evela kubo ayilindi. Bajabule ngesimo sabo sobuvila nesifo sokunethezeka. Phila ekulethweni kwezindlu, kahle, noma isabelomali somzali. Kuhle kuphela ukudla nabo, uma isimangaliso esithile ukubalethela ekhaya lasekhaya.
3. Ukhathazekile futhi udidekile. Futhi kulokho, kwesinye isimo, ucansi. Lokhu kucashe kwi-Intanethi nakuzinhlelo zokusebenza zokuthandana. Bazinikela ku "Sawubona" wokuqala, noma bakunikeze ukuba nizinikele. Izingxoxo ezinjalo ziqala ngephepha lemibuzo lezocansi mayelana nezintandokazi kanye nezifiso ezingatholakali. Kakade ngomzuzu wesihlanu, okunikezwayo kufanele kube kubo ("Kuphephile, kholwa ku"), noma thatha isithandwa seqhawe. Eyodwa "kodwa". Bakhuluma ngocansi njengokuhlanza efulethini, hhayi njengesidlo sakusihlwa esimnandi. I-Primitivism ihlala ishaya isifiso. Futhi, ngamahlaya, amadoda anjalo nawo awashisi kangako. Bavuka kuphela esifisweni soMkhakha olandelayo (noma umkhaza). Ukuzwa, isimo sezulu nezingxoxo ezihlekisayo? Cha, awuzwanga ...
Futhi kubukeka njengomuntu, usuvele ungajwayelekile, futhi inkhulumomphendvulwano ayifakwanga ...
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4. Unesithukuthezi. Ezimweni eziningi, ukushada noma umshado womphakathi. Okubuzwa ukuthi isithombe NU ekukhuleni okugcwele, isithombe esinqunu sezingxenye zomzimba ngamunye futhi size selfie kusuka endlini yangasese yehhovisi. Banesithukuthezi hhayi ekhaya kuphela, kodwa nasemsebenzini. Futhi wena - ukuzijabulisa kwalo. Kuvame kakhulu okubonakalayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, bathembele ngesikhathi. Phula kakhulu futhi ufake phakathi izifiso ezivelile - inkinga. Ukuba njalo, ukuthi ungaphanga kanjani i-karma yakho - hhayi izinketho ezinhle kakhulu.
5. Iminyaka yokubingelela. Umhlangano wokuqala nabo uvame ukuba ngowokugcina. Kuyathakazelisa ukuxhumana ngokubhala, empeleni kuvela ukuba kwehlise. Futhi manje uhleli endaweni ye-cafe, futhi njengomuntu osuvele ungajwayelekile, futhi inkhulumomphendvulwano ayifakwanga. Futhi usabona ukuthi ama-stud alandelayo kuye ngeke agqoke (ngaphandle kwalokho sawubona ku-duet cabaret "Academy"). Futhi uma ekhuluma ngokuthile nokudumiswa, khona-ke into efana nowesifazane osenkingeni yama-maphakathi aneminyaka yobudala, - mayelana nokomela impilo ehlanganyelwe futhi igijime ngasefulethini izingane. Futhi kubonakala sengathi ngandlela-thile wamukelekile, kepha hhayi esimweni somndeni othe xaxa sokuthula.
Vele, umthetho ngamunye unakho okuhlukile. Kepha kusukela ekuvezweni kungashiyi: Ukuze uhlangane nomuntu wakho, futhi nje indoda ethokozisayo manje umsebenzi. Yize uma ifisa, ukubekezela kanye nokungabikho kokwesaba umphumela omubi, noma yimiphi imisebenzi ixazululwa. Yebo, futhi imisebe yasentwasahlobo ezayo izozwa ngokusobala.