Mhlawumbe asisekho isimo esiphakeme esibhekise kumlingani wakho kanye nomuntu osondelene kakhulu kunokubonisa imizwa ngokwanga. Izinhlobo ezahlukene zokuqabula ziphethe izinzwa ezinhle kakhulu kulabo bantu abathunyelwa kubo. Akudingekile ukusho imishwana ebukekayo nhlobo, ungaqabula nje. Masibhekane nokuqabulana okuthile.
Qabula eMakusherki.
Kunombono wokuthi ukwanga okuya ku-painshoe kakhulu kuwuphawu oluthembekile lokuvukela umbuso. Kepha asazicebisi ngolaka ukuze siphendule isenzo esingenangozi, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthi amamodeli aziphatha kanjani, ngakho-ke ake wajaha inhlamvu endaweni efanayo. Cishe kuzoba khona ukubizwa kwalo indoda akubone njengamanje, ngakho-ke wakhombisa ubumnene bakhe kini. Khumbula, ngoba abazali baphinde basebenzise izingane zabo. Ngakho-ke, umlingani wakho uzwakalisa ukuqhosha ngalokho oyikho empilweni yakhe.
Ukwanga emehlweni avaliwe
Enye yezindlela ezithambekile kakhulu, ngoba amehlo, ngokuqondile, isikhumba sejwabu leso singelinye lamaphoyinti abucayi kakhulu emzimbeni wethu. Udinga ukuphatha le ndawo. Ukuqabulana emehlweni avaliwe kusikisela ukuthi umlingani wakho ukulungele ukunakekela, ukuzokuza uma kunesidingo, kanye nokwesaba ukukulimaza.
Kunezinhlobo ezimbalwa zokuqabula.
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Qabula ehlombe
Isenzo esingandile, kepha kwenzeka. Amadoda awakunaki kakhulu kule ndawo. Ukuqabula umfazi wami ehlombe, indoda izwakalisa ngasikhathi sinye imizwa embalwa: ukunakekelwa, ubumnene kanye nothando. Njengomthetho, ukwanga okufanayo kwenzeka ngesikhathi lapho lo mbhangqwana uhlala ndawonye isikhathi eside futhi nsuku zonke umuntu evuka, into yokuqala ibona owesifazane wayo eduze. Ngosizo lokuqabula, indoda ikhombisa isimo sakhe sengqondo ngowesifazane ngenkathi esela.
Qabula ngesandla
Okunye kokuqabula okusemthethweni, kepha namuhla kuyaqabukela. Sekungamakhulu eminyaka, amadoda azwakalise ukunconywa kwale ntokazi, wathinta kancane izindebe zakhe ezinhlangothini zakhe zeminwe yakhe. Njengamanje, lenzo eqinile yabesilisa isetshenziswa ezimweni eziningana: Eyokuqala - indoda izama ukwaba ngemvelaphi yawo wonke amadoda asehholo, ikhombisa ukwamukelwa kwayo, ngokwesibili - kwenzeka ngomukeli osemthethweni , lapho indoda imane ingenalo elinye ithuba lokuthola ukunakwa kowesifazane.
Isikhumo
Impela uzwe ngalokhu kuqabula. Kulokhu, izindebe azithathi ukubamba iqhaza kule nqubo, amakhala eza ukuzongena esikhundleni sazo: abantu ababili bahlikihla kahle amakhala abo. Imvamisa, lesi senzo sitholakala ebudlelwaneni bukamama nengane, ngobhangqa, lokhu kubonakaliswa kwesisa akuyona nhlobo. Ukwanga wakuthola ukuzalwa ngesimo sezulu esinzima, lapho kufakwa khona ukucaciswa okuvame kakhulu kuyingozi - ngenxa yesithwathwa esinamandla, isikhumba sezindebe siqala ukuqhekeka, futhi ukuthinta izindebe ezomile nezibukhali akulethi noma iyiphi injabulo
Qabula ngesiNgisi
Cha, umnyombo akusona ukuthi ngemuva kokuqabula ujike uhambe, ukwanga kwamaNgisi kufaka izingcezu zephayi. Enye yezimpawu ezijwayelekile ezijwayelekile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uphayi akufanele kube namandla ukuze ungabangeli imibuzo evela kumlingani. Njengomthetho, indoda ikumema ukuba uye ezingeni elilandelayo ebudlelwaneni.