Cabanga nje ukuthi uchithe isikhathi esiningi esizeni sokuthandana futhi ekugcineni wathola umuntu ofuna ukuhlangana naye. Kubukeka sengathi akukho lutho oluzophanga lolu suku oluhle, noma kunjalo, sivame ukonakalisa ubudlelwano be-nascent. Isazi, isazi sezengqondo ekaterina fadeeva, sitshela ngamaphutha amakhulu ngosuku lokuqala.
Usuku lokuqala ukufika sekwephuzile
Indlela elula yokwenza umbono ongemuhle wokuqala ukwenza umuntu ahlale yedwa, elinde isikhathi eside. Uma izimo ziye zathuthuka ukuze kuvinjelwe, bese ukhansele umhlangano, uma kungenjalo kamuva, noma okungenani uxwayise umlingani wakho ngokushesha okukhulu, ukuthi yini ebambezelela imizuzu eminingi. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi uyaxolisa! Kwesinye isikhathi inkinga ingaxazululwa ngokuthumela indawo noma isikhathi somhlangano, kepha kubalulekile ukuyinakekela kusengaphambili.
Abaphenyi base-University College laseLondon bathola ukuthi abantu bavame ukulinda ukubalwa kwabo ngokumelene ne-interlocutor yabo encane uma ebatshela ngokubambezeleka kwabo. Uma eza ngaphambili kunesikhathi esithenjisiwe, khona-ke umlingani wakhe uzoba muhle kakhulu.
Zama ukungahambi sekwephuzile
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Ukukhetha okungalungile kwendawo kuze kube manje
Uma i-interlocutor yakho iphenduka ibe yimifino futhi azikho izitsha ezifanele endaweni yokudlela, khona-ke usuku nakanjani luzophangwa. Cacisa okuthandwa ngumlingani wakho kusengaphambili. Uma kukhona imikhawulo, ngokushesha uzokusho ngakho.
Futhi kufanelekile ukunaka impendulo. Uma kungekho, kungcono ukungazibeki engcupheni futhi ukhethe enye indawo ongahlangabezana nayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngeke kudingeke ukucacisa ukuthi ngesikhathi sesikhathi sokudlela noma imiphi imicimbi yokudlela, amakhonsathi, njll. Ngaphandle kwalokho, indawo ethule futhi enokuthula ingaphenduka ngokungazelelwe ukuba i-karaoke noma iplatifomu ye-stedap. Ekugcineni, okwedlule, kepha kungabikho sizathu esingabalulekile, itafula kumele libhukelwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi.
Shiya izinkinga zakho ekhaya
Umsebenzi wakho oyinhloko ngosuku lokuqala muhle futhi unethemba. Uma uhlala ukhononda ngokuthile, noma ngabe kuwumsebenzi, umndeni, inja, njll, uzokwakha isithombe somuntu othukuthele unomphela. Amadoda athintwe ngokuyinhloko: Uma ummeleli onamandla wezocansi azibeka njengesisulu sezimo, khona-ke le ntombazane ibulala ithemba lokugcina lenjabulo naye. Uma ungadingeki kubunzima bakho, khona-ke uzolinda isikhashana esifanele usuku.
Ungahloniphi abasebenzi benkonzo?
Akukho lutho olucasulayo kakhulu futhi alwenzi blush, njengomngane onobudlova kubalindi. Uma ungayithandi insizakalo, akufanele wenze ukuphawula okukhulu futhi ikakhulukazi umuntu athuke. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi ngamadoda: avumela amaphutha anjalo kaningi. Zama ukunciphisa yonke into ihlaya, phumula futhi unganaki.
Uma okwedlule awushiyi
Ubudlelwano obudlule buyisihloko esinqatshelwe, ikakhulukazi usuku lokuqala. Akudingekile ukuphendula nge-Overe, noma Okuhle: Kuzona zozimbili lezi zimo, amathuba wokuthi ingxoxo izobathinta kabi ubudlelwano bakho obusha. Inketho ekahle akuyona ukuthinta lesi sihloko nakancane noma uma kungenzeki ukukugwema, phendula yonke imibuzo ukungathathi hlangothi bese uzama ukuguqula isihloko sengxoxo ngokushesha okukhulu.
Setha i-smartphone yakho
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I-Instagram icasule kakhulu
Ungabheki esikrinini se-smartphone usuku lonke, ukhombisa ukungamhloniphi umlingani wakho. Beka eceleni igajethi Away: Usenesikhathi sokuhlola i-Instagram bese uphendula yonke imilayezo. Uma ulindele ucingo olubalulekile olungaphuthelwa, luxwayiswe ngakho kusengaphambili.
I-Monologue: Awukho engxoxweni
Zibheke: Uma ukhuluma ngezinkinga zakho, izintshisekelo zakho kanye nezinto zokuzilibazisa, khona-ke maduze nje i-interlocutor iba isicefe. Futhi uma uqala ukuklelisa izimpumelelo zakho, kuzobe kungathandeki kuye: ukuzipenda akukwenzi ukuthi uthandeke futhi kubangele ukwenqatshwa kuphela. Ukuxhumana kusho hhayi ukukhuluma nge-monoolical, kepha inkhulumomphendvulwano, okungukuthi, ukushintshana ngamazwi, lapho abahlanganyeli ababambe iqhaza khona ngezinga elilinganayo noma elingaphansi. Umuntu okhuluma kuphela ngokwakhe wadala umbono we-egoist ongakwazi ubudlelwano ngokususelwa ekuhlonipheni.
Umsebenzi ubaluleke kakhulu
Ngosuku lokuqala akufanelekile ukwakha usomabhizinisi ongeke aphile umzuzu ngaphandle kocingo noma imiyalezo ebalulekile. Uma udinga ngempela ukukhuluma ocingweni, xolisa bese uhamba eceleni.
Musa ngokweqile ngotshwala
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Ingilazi yokugcina yayinamandla amakhulu
Akukho lutho olubi ngosuku lokuqala ukwedlula i-satellite ye-Drunken. Yazi isilinganiso futhi ungakweqi. Ukungagwenywa kweze kuqashelwe: Okwesibili edlule, wahleka ngokuhlekisayo futhi wahamba uWitty, futhi manje awunikeli neze ukunikela ngegama lomhumushi wakho. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi enye ingilazi yewayini izoba yinhle, yima futhi ibeke amanzi.
Gwema le mikhuba emibi, bese usuku lwesibili luzokwenzeka.