Akunasikhathi esibekiwe ngokusethembisa ukuthi kufanele usebenzise imali nabathandekayo - abantu abathile badinga amahora ambalwa ngosuku, kuyilapho umuntu enengxoxo eyanele ngehora lonke ngesonto. Kunoma yisiphi isimo, siyakucebisa ukuthi uzibheke bese kuba abanye. Ungazihluleli ku-egoism, ngoba ubuntu bobuntu bakho yinto engase iphephe, futhi ungazami ukulungisa. Funa abantu abazoqonda ukufisa kwakho umsebenzi nokuzithuthukisa, futhi ngeke baphoqe ngamandla okuhlala kusofa. Futhi nangokuphumula sikucebisa ukuthi ukhulume ngalezi zindlela:
Thola ukwesekwa emndenini
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Thola imingcele yomuntu siqu
Cabanga nje ukuthi kukhona inqaba nezindonga zawo okufanele uziqaphele. I-Castle ubusengozini yakho, futhi izindonga ziyimingcele yomuntu siqu. Lapho nje umuntu oyedwa esondela, yenza isixwayiso ngendlela ezolile. Ake ungitshele: "Lesi sihloko asisingemnandi kimi, ake sikushintshe kulokho esikuthandayo kubo bobabili." Izindawo ezibuthakathaka ezibuthakathaka ze-Wordaholics zivame ukuba yisikhumbuzo sempilo neqiniso lempilo yomuntu siqu engaxhunyiwe, ukungakwazi ukuphumula nokuhambisana nezindaba, njengoba bebekwenziwa eholidini namakhasimende ngeposi nokunye. Uma umuntu engazange aqonde okokuqala, phinda. Okwesithathu, ingxoxo efeni - uzocasulwa kuphela elukuluku lakhe nokungabikho kwekhono elifunda imizwa ye-interlocutor.
Cisha umsindo ocingweni
Ngamalungu omndeni, umthetho wokuxhumana kwiwashi elikhethekile lapho usuqede umsebenzi wakho kanye nezingcingo kuphela kumacala aphuthumayo afakiwe. Eduze nokuqonda ukuthi usebenzise ini isikhathi esiningi emisebenzini yokusebenza - ngenxa yokuzibonakalisa kanye nekusasa elijwayelekile elivikelekile. Kuzilungiselelo zefoni, shiya umsindo kuphela kwizingcingo zabo, ngokunye, cisha izaziso. Ayikho imibuzo ebingaxazululwa amahora ambalwa kamuva, kepha izaziso ezihlala njalo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana zingakukhipha ngaphandle kwe-rut futhi zinwebe ngosuku lokusebenza.
Gijima phambili ngephupho lakho
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Zibheke
Uma usebenzela iholo elincane futhi ungaboni amathemba, khona-ke i-Woolism ingahle ilungiswe kuphela ngesimilo se-altruism kuwe. Enye into yilapho upenda uhlelo lweminyaka ezayo futhi uqonde ukuthi isenzo sakho sonke siyaholela. Noma uhlanganisa umsebenzi ophambili kanye nephrojekthi yakho ofuna ukuyibeka ezinyaweni zakho bese uyobhukuda mahhala. Ukusebenzisa indlela enengqondo, uzobe ungenakuhlaselwa ukugconwa kwabangane abangaqondi ukuthi kungani uze ephathini futhi ungaphuzi, nangokuthi baya kusasa sizoya ehhovisi. Kungenzeka ukuthi ngisho nendawo okuyo kuyoshintsha ngaphakathi kwazo - abantu bazokuqonda okuhambayo nokukhuthaza ukukhuthazela kwakho.
Siphinde futhi sikucebisa ukuthi usebenze lesi sihloko ngesazi sezengqondo kanye nokuqeqesha ngebhizinisi, noma ukhulume nothile ovela embuthanweni wosomabhizinisi abajwayelekile. Umuntu ngamunye unaye umngani abathandayo. KunguMuntu ongaba yi-ugqozi lwakho ukuthi ungaphonswanga waqala futhi ungabheki abagxeki.