Ukuhanjiswa yigama elethwe nguFreud. Ukudalulwa kwesimo salo mshini wezengqondo kwakufuna ukuvelela. Izingxabano, okuhlangenwe nakho, amaphupho ayimfihlo, esingabhekana nawo, i-psyche yethu iyakulahla kokuqonda. Futhi konke lokhu kwenziwa ukuze sikwazi ukuzivumelanisa nemvelo. UFreud, wakhela umbono wakhe ngokuzuliswa kwezocansi nezocansi, waphikisana nokuthi asidingi ezandleni ngengozi. Ukuqonda okungaqondakali kuthunyelwa kulokho okungasilimaza, njengokuheha izingane kubazali futhi, kunalokho, akwamukeleki emphakathini wanamuhla. I-Psychoanalysis selokhu yathuthuka kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, ama-postulan amaningi aseshintshile kuwo, akudingeki ukuthi siphikisane ngokuvuselela amandla ngoFreud. Yebo, futhi i-athikili ayikho ngakho. Kepha okusele kusukela, kuwuhlobo lokuthuthwa. Ukuvikelwa kwengqondo kusivumela ukuthi sisuse okuhlangenwe nakho okunzima kuwe, siguqukele ukugxila kokunakwa okuvela kubo, ikakhulukazi lapho singenawo amandla anele okubhekana nabo. Konke kungaba kuhle kakhulu, kepha okuqondayo, okusho ukuthi izingxabano zifihlwe lapho, zihlala zikhuluma nathi. Singahlala sithinta okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kwangempela, uma kungenjalo, ngokwesibonelo, ngokuqiniseka ngokweqiniso ukulala kwakho.
Ukucacisa, thatha izibonelo ezimbili ezintsha zamaphupho avela kwabesifazane abahlukile.
Iphupho lokuqala laliphupha ngowesifazane ophilayo owesilisa owayesehlukanisweni ukuze abe naye. Isehlukaniso nokuhlukana kwelula isikhathi eside, kuvutha. I-Dreamy yethu iyazi "izizathu zenhloso". Futhi ngephupho ubona isizathu esiqotho. Amagama, ngendlela, inganekwane.
"Ngiphupha ukuthi kubonakala sengathi ngidinga ukubiza u-Igor futhi ngithola ucingo phakathi kwakhe no-Olga (umkakhe). Kuvela njengocingo lwengqungquthela: ngiyabazwa, futhi abasoli ukuthi ngijoyine ingxoxo. Futhi ingxoxo imnandi kakhulu, u-Igor uyavuma kuye othandweni, naye, nazo zonke izinhlobo ze-mi-mi. Yebo, nansi i-idyll eqondile. Ngiyazi ukuthi ngasikhathi sinye ngisempilweni yakhe, ungitshela ukuthi ubudlelwano no-Olga buyesabeka nje. Ephusheni, angizisho ngokwami, ngilalela nje ingxoxo emnene phakathi kwabo. "
Ukulala kukhombisa amaphupho ethu eqinisweni ukuthi uzizwa uxhumano oluqinile phakathi kwendoda nomkayo. Mhlawumbe ukuze ube naye ebudlelwaneni, kwadingeka angazinaki izimpawu zalokhu kuxhumana futhi. Yebo, kanye nesimo senkosikazi isikhashana sinikeza umuzwa wamanga wamandla akhethekile, okhethiweyo. Yize kunjalo, umuntu ukhetha umkakhe ophilayo eduzane, naye uneqhaza elikhethekile namalungelo akhethekile. Kodwa-ke, ngephupho, lihlangana nolwazi olunembile lokuthi empeleni akuyona inombolo yokuqala yale ndoda. Ungukusekela nokusekelwa kwakhe, kepha kuphela ukuze kwandise ukuxhumana okuyinhloko nomkakhe. Ukulala ngaphandle kwama-stick kwamkhombisa ukuthi ungubani empeleni kule ndaba. Lokhu kungukwelashwa okuyikho ngephupho.
Ukuhanjiswa kuyindlela ye-psyche, "yokuhlanza" okuhlangenwe nakho okungadingekile kokuqonda
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Iphupho lesibili lingelinye iphupho. Kufanelekile ukucacisa. Amaphupho ethu adabula isehlukaniso futhi ahlangana nendoda eyayisa ehlukaniso nonkosikazi wokuqala. Kulomshado kukhona indodakazi. Onke amagama nawo ashintshiwe.
"Uphuphe endaweni yangoMeyi 9th. Lapho-ke bekungakabi sobala ukuthi indoda yami iya empini nasekuvukeni kwabamhlophe okushisayo. Benginaye nendodakazi yakhe ezweni. Ngolunye usuku wayeyindodakazi eMoscow futhi kwadingeka abuye ngakusasa, futhi ngangihlala ukulinda. Ukuncika, wathi ekuseni kufanele alethe imoto yezinkuni, wakhombisa indawo lapho belahla khona.
Ekuseni ngibona iphupho elinjalo. Ngivuka emndenini wemoto ngokhuni, ngifuna iwindi kusuka esitezi sesibili, ngazi ukuthi bekuyizinkuni, zizolile. Futhi ngibona ukuthi amaloli amaningana afika, ahamba egcekeni aqale asphalt. (Kunecebo elikhulu, limbozwe ngentengo ngotshani, izihlahla, zitshaliwe, izihlahla, konke kuhle futhi ngokwemvelo futhi ngasikhathi sinye, izingadi. Ngaphandle, ngicabanga ukuthi kufanele badule, hhayi i-asphalt roll, kufanele wehle ngokuphuthumayo ubatshele ukuthi akudingekile ku-asphalt. Kufanele siqede asphalt kuze kube sekwephuze kakhulu! U-Oleg uzofika, uzokubona ukuthi uzokusho! Futhi ngenkathi ngicabanga ukuthi kuza, lo mcabango uza: "Empeleni, le yindlu yakhe, icebo lakhe. Futhi akunakwenzeka ukuthi beze lapha e-Asphalt. Cishe wabaqasha. Bengifuna ukumboza i-asphalt, futhi yini okubi - ngakho-ke? Leli yilungelo lakhe, uzungeza ukwenza lokho akufunayo. " Futhi ngangidabukisa ngenxa yokuthi ubuhle obunjalo bubhujiswa, kodwa ngiyaqonda ukuthi akukho lutho oluzokwenza nganoma yini.
Kimina, leli phupho lalingukubizwa ngokuthi yena ngokwakhe ukhetha impilo yakhe (noma kunalokho, okungewona impilo) futhi uzoyigoqa esisoleni - futhi lokhu kuyimpilo yakhe nokuzikhethela kwakhe. Futhi ngiyakwazi ukubona, ngingacasula, ngikwazi nokubuza ukucabanga nge-asphalt. Kepha ngaphansi kwe-asphalt konke kubunjiwe. "
Lapha iphupho libonisa isithombe sonke salabo abahlala eduze kwabantu abancike kubo. Bajaha ubuhle babo bemvelo ku-asphalt, ungamemeza futhi uwufunele ukuphazamisa, kodwa empeleni, kunzima ukusiza lokhu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, iphupho mayelana ne-asphalt esibhala singancikile kutshwala, kodwa umlingani walo. Kuye, lokhu kusho ukuthi "ugoqa" esigxotsheni se-asphalt mayelana neqiniso lokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle kumuntu wakhe. Lokhu kungukusabela okuvamile eduze komuntu oxhomekekile wabantu. Basusa okusobala, bachaze, bathole izaba futhi bangaboni nje. Akunjalo kudala, nganginowesifazane othile ekwamukeleni, owabona ukuthi umyeni wakhe wayengumlutha wotshwala, lapho umngane efika kubavakashi, ababengakaze babone iminyaka eminingana. Intombazane ngokumangala yamemeza: "Idlala ini indodakazi yakho?" Futhi-ke kuphela owesifazana sengathi uvukile esuka eLethargy, ethola indodakazi yakhe encane edlala futhi edonsa amabhodlela avela ngaphansi kukabhiya nasevodka. Kwakuyisikhathi sokummisa.
Kwenzeka into efanayo namaphupho ethu, angawanaki amahembe asobala e-Alcoholism esithandwa sakhe. Ngakho-ke i-Dreamy yethu inethuba lokuhlwilisa ukuqondisa ulwazi oluqondile lokuthi kwakha ubudlelwano notshwala, ukufihla leli qiniso uqobo.
Kubukeka sengathi kungekho ndawo! Lala, njengoba uFreud athi, lo ngumgwaqo wasebukhosini ongazi lutho. Khumbula futhi uyeke ukulala - lokhu kuyilungelo ukwazi nokuphatha izingxabano zakho. Ngenkathi zingqubuzana emkhakheni ongazi lutho, ziyasisebenzisa.
Amaphupho ethu athola imiyalezo eyiqiniso ngabo nobudlelwano babo. Ngiyazibuza ukuthi bazoqamba amanga kanjani ...
Futhi kithina yisifundo esinaka amaphupho akho nokuqukethwe okuyisisekelo.
Futhi amaphupho akho? Izibonelo zamaphupho akho athumela ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupho kulula kakhulu ukuwaveza uma encwadini eya kumhleli uzobhala izimo zokuphila okwandulelayo, kepha okubaluleke kakhulu - imizwa nemizwa ngesikhathi sokuvuka kuleli phupho.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin