Iholide lomndeni yilokho abantu abaningi abalindele kulo lonke isonto lomsebenzi. Kepha futhi kukhona nezimpelasonto ezinjalo, emva kwalokho ngifuna ukuphumula futhi. Ukukhathala kubunqwabelana, ukucasuka okuhlanganyele kuyavela, kukhona ukuxabana emndenini, ngoba wonke umuntu ubona ukuphumula ngezindlela ezihlukile. Konke lokhu yingoba abantu abakwazi ukunquma ukuthi bangasichitha kanjani isikhathi ngenduduzo ndawonye. Uma lezi zinkinga zikujwayele, siphakamisa ukubheka umkhosi we- "Live Emotions" imidlalo. Kulapha ukuthi uzothola ingxoxo esezingeni eliphakeme yomndeni, futhi imindeni ngayinye izothola umdlalo ofanele yena.
Vumelana, kwesinye isikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola isikhathi sakho nomndeni wakho, unciphise ukungezwani, uthole i-push yamandla. Iholide lomndeni libalulekile futhi ngoba lihlanganisa izingane kanye nabantu abadala. Kwabaningi, kubalulekile ukuthi banezifiso, nezinhlelo ezihlanganyelwe zokuphila zakhiwa, futhi ukuqonda ukuthuthukiswa kwemindeni yabo kuzovela.
I-Oksana Gonde, i-psychist eqinisekisiwe yezengqondo
Izinsizakalo Zokushicilela Izinsiza
Ngakho-ke, kungani, uma esikhundleni seholide elijwayelekile lomndeni ku-cafe noma epaki yokuzijabulisa, chitha isikhathi ngempela ngomndeni wakho? Uma ngabe yilokhu okufunayo, uma ngabe yilokhu umndeni wakho ongekho - wamukelekile kuMkhosi Wokuphila Womzwelo.
Lo mcimbi wenzelwe izilaleli ezinkulu, ngakho-ke kukhona umsebenzi kanye nabantu abadala babantu abangathi sína, futhi kwabahlanganyeli abancane kakhulu. Emkhosini uzothola umdlalo nezingane ezincane, kusukela eminyakeni emithathu yobudala.
Isikhala soMkhosi sihlukaniswe ngezindawo ezinamanani. Ukuzikhethela umdlalo ulula ngendlela engajwayelekile - nquma isihloko esithakazelayo kusuka kumidlalo yomdlalo, bheka umbala walo mkhakha, bese uhlala phansi etafuleni ngokuqokwa kwalombala.
Futhi, isikhala soMkhosi sahlukaniswa yiminyaka yobudala - kusukela eminyakeni emithathu kuya kweyisikhombisa, kusukela kwabayishumi nambili kuya kwabayishumi nambili naku-12 kuya eminyakeni eyishumi nambili kuya kweminyaka eyishumi nambili kuya kweshumi nesishiyagalombili kuya kweshumi nesishiyagalombili kuya kweshumi nambili kuya kweshumi nambili kuya kweshumi nambili kuya kweshumi nambili kuya kweminyaka leshumi nesishiyagalombili. Lezi zingxenye zenzelwe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ingane ngayinye yazizwa ikhululekile phakathi kontanga yakhe. Kule midlalo, izingane azigcini nje ngokuchitha isikhathi, kodwa futhi zifunde ngamakhono namakhono abo. Kepha lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu futhi kuyadingeka.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, lo mdlalo unemali yako - lawa ngamakhadi emizwa ekhuthazana ngamunye abahlanganyeli futhi aholele. Ngemuva komdlalo ngamunye, iKhadi elilodwa kufanele linikezwe umgcini womdlalo. Yimuphi umzwelo ozofuna ukunikela, kuya kuwe kuphela. Ekupheleni kosuku, abethuli bazokubala ibhalansi yabo engokomzwelo futhi labo abathola okuningi bazothola isimo "sokuhola intandokazi" ngokusho kwe- "Folk Jury" ngokusho kwe- "Folk Jury" ngokwe- "Folk Jury".
Ekupheleni komkhosi "eMgqeni Fair", la makhadi angashintshwa ngenxa yezipho.
Ungathanda imizwa eyengeziwe? Letha izincwadi nemidlalo yebhodi emkhosini ongasadingeki. Emkhosini kuzokwenzeka ukushintshana ngemidlalo oyithandayo nemidlalo yebhodi nabanye abahlanganyeli boMkhosi.
Umkhosi unemithethoso yawo.
Isikhala sizohlukaniswa ngezindawo ezizokusiza ukhethe ngqo ukuqondiswa komdlalo:
* Ubudlelwano,
* Impumelelo yezinhloso,
* Sesha izincazelo
* Sebenza ngentulovo nokwesaba
* Imvume yezinkinga zezezimali,
* Ukusebenza noMdabu
* Sesha ukuphuma esimweni esinzima nakwabanye.
Abahlanganyeli emkhosini kungenzeka futhi abantu bakhuluma isiNgisi. Amatafula ahlukene wokudlala azohlelwa bona.
Izingane nazo zizonikezwa ama-thematic athuthukisayo webhodi lebhodi.
Umdlalo owodwa uthatha amahora amabili.
Emkhosini, uzokwazi ukujwayelana nababhali bemidlalo kanye nenqubo. Futhi uma ufisa, ukuzitholela wena.
Umkhosi womndeni uhlose ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo komndeni wonke.
Futhi ukuhlala emkhosini akusona isikhathi esimnandi kanye nomcimbi othokozisayo nemidlalo yokuguqula. Wena nezingane zakho nizodalula lawo makhono angazazanga phambilini. Funda kabanzi ngobuhlobo emndenini futhi ungashintsha okude ukufunwa. Kwenze kuphela ngefomethi yomdlalo engabizi.
Futhi labo abanesifiso sokuzithuthukisa sizokwenza igxathu elikhulu lokuguqulwa kwezimpilo zabo futhi kwifomu lomdlalo lizokwazi ukuthuthukisa amakhono adingekayo kulokhu.
Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukuguqulwa okubaluleke kakhulu injabulo yabantu abaseduze kakhulu nathi. Futhi yimuphi umdlalo onzima kakhulu? Lona ngumdlalo wokuphila. Futhi indlela ephumelela kakhulu futhi elungile ukudlulisa isandla nezihlobo zakho! Futhi yingakho umkhosi udalwe njengomndeni ngesimo sesikhala, lapho ungafika khona noshade naye, izingane zakho, abazali kanye nemidlalo yokudlala. Kepha obambe iqhaza angaba yedwa futhi ukuqonda kwakhe ngesikhathi somdlalo kuzoba yi-ray efudumele kubo bonke abazoba eduze kwakhe!