Wama ewindini elikhulu, emgodini ongenalutho wegatsha lokukhulelwa, lapho umhlengikazi onomugqa omuhle wawushiya isikhashana, waya khona ukucacisa ukuthi yiliphi igumbi lokuthola ukuthi ...
Phansi kwagxila ethule ukuthula. Ngalobu busuku, akekho, ngaphandle kwayo nabanye besifazane ababili, kubonakala sengathi akuhambi. Njengentombazane eneminyaka engamashumi amabili ubudala, yalalela imizwa yakhe ngentshiseko, iphazanyiswe imisindo ebekiwe eyaqhamuka emakamelweni.
Ubusuku obungajwayelekile ... ngaphandle kwewindi lesithwathwa cishe ama-degree angamashumi amane. Izinkanyezi zikhanya kangaka ezamboza iqhwa elimhlophe elikhazimulayo eliseduze ne-tundra. Kepha kwangihlaba umxhwele futhi kwenziwa ukuthi ukhohlwe umzuzwana lapho yena nokuthi kungani elapha, ubuhle obungajwayelekile nokukhanya kwamalambu asenyakatho, lapho belale ngemibala enombala esibhakabhakeni esimnyama.
Sekuphele izinyanga eziyisithupha, njengoba ayehlala edolobheni elikude nenyakatho, kude neMoscow. Kepha amalambu asenyakatho alikakaboni. Futhi-ke isimangaliso esinjalo sinamabhodlela esibhakabhakeni sonke, sichichima ngopende obomvu, ophuzi, oluhlaza okotshani nasosiliva. Kwabonakala sengathi indawo yonke ngokwayo yanquma ukunika lo mqondo omangalisayo wobusuku nokubaluleka.
Ngendlela ehlukile, akunakwenzeka ukuthi: Namuhla kuzofika umzuzwana lapho kufinyelela esinye sezinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthuthuka kwayo - ukuzalwa kwendodana yakhe yokuqala ...
Ingxenye yonyaka edlule wayengesabi ukushiya eVorkuta nomyeni wakhe, owayeqale umsebenzi wakhe wezempi, owayesendlini yesithathu yokukhulelwa, eshiya i-efulethini laseMoscow, ephuma efulethini laseMoscow, ebeka umsebenzi womculo we-jerking. .. Ekuqaleni kuka-Agasti, uTundra wahlangana naye ... ukuwa kweqhwa, ukwenza isitimela esiqondile saya efasiteleni lesitimela ...
Ngemuva kwalokho waqala ukufuna umsebenzi, imihlangano kanye nokwehluleka. Kusukela, ngombuzo oqondile: "Ingabe ulinde ingane?" Walandela impendulo eqondile necacile: "Yebo ... futhi kungekudala." Ngemuva kokuhluleka okuningana, ikusasa, elimelelwa yiNhloko ye-Aloid ye-Kindergarten, eyayiseminyakeni yobudala, yambulula. Washiya indodakazi yakhe eMoscow, ngenkathi ngasikhathi sinye sokukhulelwa.
Isinqumo sokuba yilapho umyeni wakhe, sisebenza khona, futhi singalokothi silinde inyanga embalwa lapho ingane izalwa, ehlezi ekhaya futhi ijabulele ukukhulelwa kokuqala, yayifana nokungabaza. Kepha ubani ongacabanga ukuthi emsukeni wakhe, njengoba i-TV isimangalo, izwe kuzodingeka lihlale emaphethelweni edolobha, amamitha angama-500 ukusuka ocingweni oluboshwe ngocingo oluboshwe kanye nokukhonkotha Izinja zezwakala ekuseni, zigqoke amanzi esiSomlomo zilinde ekuseni kuze kube yilapho amasosha efika akhipha indlela ephuma endlini, ngemuva kwenye i-purgi. Umqondo wakhe awuzange uqonde ukuthi yini ngempela ngezikhathi nokukhula komuntu siqu kwenzeka, ikhwalithi yezinguquko ezingaba khona, ikhono lokufeza izinhloso zalo liyakhiwa. Kepha ngibona kahle ukuthi ukukhethwa nokufika kwakulungile futhi kwanikeza amabutho. Futhi indawo yonke, amalambu akhe asenyakatho emangazayo, njengokungathi, ayemanye amisiwe futhi amsekela ngolwazi ngaye ahambisana nokuzalwa kwengane. AMAHORA AMAHHALA AMAHHALA ...
Lesi yisiqephu kuphela esivela empilweni esenzeka ngesikhathi esichaziwe, ikakhulukazi ngokweqiniso. Kamuva, ngacabanga ukuthi yimi engiyikho ngingubani futhi ngiqale indlela eyaziyo eya kowesifazane ophumelelayo.
... Lapho ngicelwa ukuba ngibhale i-athikili ngesihloko esithi "ukukhula komuntu kwabesifazane kanye nempumelelo yowesifazane: Ngabe baxhumene kanjani?" ukubaluleka okubhaliwe). Vele ukhombise ukuthi yonke indlela yethu yokuphila iwumphumela wokuthuthuka kobuntu bethu. Futhi uma singayeki entuthukweni yethu, ungaphuphutheki futhi, noma kunjalo, ungahambi ngaphesheya, bahlala bephumelela.
Lapho owesifazane ophumelelayo ephakamisa ukuthi wayenenhlanhla nje, kuzwakala uhlekisayo. Ingozi ingenye yezinkomba zamaphethini. Futhi hhayi kuphela ngomqondo wefilosofi. Owesifazane ophumelelayo ungowesifazane okwazile ngokunembe indlela yakhe, ephonsa insangu, ukwesaba ushintsho, enza umkhuba wabo wokungena komunye "isiyaluyalu saya komunye nokuvezwa okushiwo impilo yakhe. Lokhu ukukhula komuntu siqu.
Ukukhula komuntu siqu kunezinguquko ezifanelekile emandleni akhona, ukuxazulula ngempumelelo imisebenzi yempilo futhi uvule ithemba lokuphila elicebile. Ukukhula komuntu siqu kuvumela, okokuqala, ukwakha ubudlelwane naye, finyelela ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi, kwakha ubudlelwano nomuntu wangaphandle futhi ube ngumuntu ofanele futhi osetshenzisiwe.
Umuntu akazalwanga, ubuntu buba. Well, noma ungabi ...
Emcabangweni Impumelelo ingena kufezekiswa yezinhloso ecaleni elihlosiwe, ethola ukuqashelwa komphakathi.
Lapho kukhula umfazi, kukhula mathupha, khona-ke kuqondakala ngencazelo yempilo yakhe. Ngokuvumelana nalokho, yilokhu:
- Kunomuzwa wenkululeko yangaphakathi nenkululeko.
- Kunokuqonda kobudlelwano be-causal ezweni elizungezile
- Kwakhiwa ikhono lokuhlaziywa kwempilo
- Ukuqonda okuqondile amamodeli wokuziphatha kwabo futhi, ngenxa yalokho, ukwethulwa kwamamodeli amasha, okungcono kuholele kumphumela ohlosiwe
- Kungenzeka uqonde kangcono abantu futhi wakhe ukuxhumana nabo, unaka izimfanelo zabo ngazinye.
- Kuvela ukuthi kuthathe umthwalo wemfanelo ngezenzo zakhe, isenzo, ukukhetha;
- Amandla azithanda wena, abantu, umhlaba ozungezile. Ukuphila ngenhliziyo evulekile, ikhipha i-Flam and Light ...
Mhlawumbe le nto ebaluleke kakhulu owesifazane ethola uma eza endleleni yokuthuthuka kwayo. Vele, ukukhula komuntu kwabesifazane nempumelelo akuxhunyiwe nje. Bahlanganiswa yimicu engabonakali, intokazi yakha isikhala sayo sothando, ibamba amandla lapho enenjabulo enkulu khona.