Eminyakeni engu-15 eyedlule, abazali bebengakwazi ukuxhumana nayo yonke iminyaka eyi-11 yokutadisha izingane zabo, kepha izimo zanamuhla zidinga ukuxhumana, futhi namuhla ingxoxo yabazali yingxenye yempilo yesikole njengemihlangano nekomidi lomzali. Kodwa-ke, ngokocwaningo lwamashumi athile babazali, izilaleli ezingxoxweni zivame ukucasula ngendlela emangalisayo, njengoba kunjalo nakule ngxoxo kunabantu abahlukahlukene ngokuphelele. Sinqume ukuhlanganisa izinhlamvu ezithandwa kakhulu zezingxoxo zabazali ezigunda kakhulu ama-mam nobaba.
Kuthukuthelise uSpammer
Kukhona abantu abanjalo kuzo zonke izingxoxo. Njengomthetho, lezi yizilwane ezincelisayo esimeme esilandelayo, ezihlalwa kuphela ngokukhulisa ingane ubusuku nemininingwane noma imininingwane yezemfundo nakancane, imvamisa ayihlobene nekilasi izindaba nganoma iyiphi indlela. I-hypostage yesibili yomzali-spammer yinhlekisa yendawo. Njalo ngemizuzu eyishumi engxoxweni ethi "Fika" Izithombe ezihlekisayo ezibonakala zihlekisayo kuphela kumlobi. Isigamu sengxoxo yesikole sithanda ukungabheki kulaba bantu, kanti abanye bamane baphinyiselwa. Kodwa-ke, asincomi ukuthula, uma okuthile kungakufaneli: vikela umthetho engxoxweni - ukubhala kuphela kuleli cala, ngekwelulekwa yizikhukhula ukudala ingxoxo ehlukile.
Abanye omama bangaphikelela kakhulu
Photo: www.unsplash.com.
Mama-owl
Njengomthetho, emaqenjini amaningi, imithetho isungulwa ongayibiza ngayo futhi ubhale kuphela kuze kube yihora elithile. Kepha engxoxweni yabazali, kukhona umuntu 'ongakwazi ukwazi ". Abazali babaliwe basebenze ngemuva kwesishiyagalombili kusihlwa, naphezu kwawo wonke amacala abazali bengxoxo asevele ekwazile ukuxoxa ntambama. "Izikhova" ziqala ukumangala, base bekhathazeka ngokuthi akekho oziphendulayo ebusuku. Njengasesimweni sokuqala, into enhle kakhulu ukwenza isisho, kepha uma ungafuni ukuthuthukisa ukungezwani, ukukhubaza izaziso, inzuzo yomsebenzi onjalo ukhona.
Dokotela ngokwakhe
Omunye umlingiswa ocasulayo, ozabalalisa ngodokotela wokuqala, yize iningi lawo livame ukukwenza nge-Medicine. Kuwufanele ukubhala ukuthi ingane ngeke ize esikoleni namuhla ngenxa yokugula, umama- "Dokotela" lapha kufana lapha. Akuvumeli izeluleko, awukwazi ukugwema izincomo esihlokweni esihle. Esimweni esinjalo, zama ngenhlonipho ukubika ukuthi awudingi ukweseluleko futhi uma udinga usizo, nakanjani uzobe ubhekisa.
Umzali Buka
Kubantu abanjalo abadingi ngisho nesizathu sokuthuka nokusakaza okungekuhle - kwanele ukungavumelani nabo. Uyaphoqeleka ukuthi ulalele izikhalazo njalo ngothisha, ukukhuphuka kusenesikhathi ekuseni nasosistimu yezemfundo awonke, futhi umuntu onjalo akakwazi ukwenziwa amazwana - kuzoqala "isiphepho endizeni". Kepha akudingekile ukukhuthazelela i-destot engxoxweni futhi: Yiba namandla ekuxhumaneni nomuntu onolaka oziphatha ngale ndlela, wazi ukuthi akekho umuntu ozovuma ukuphikisana. Lapho uzothula, "Igunya lengxoxo" lakho eliningi lizofudumala.