Wonke umuntu unomucu omnyama empilweni. Siwela ekudayisweni, futhi akukho okusithokozisayo. Kungadingeka ukuthi unyakaze, kepha ukuqala ukwenza okuthile, kepha ungafuni nje. Umuntu uhlala, ambambe ngokwakhe, akhumbule ukwehluleka kwakhe, nokuningi ngokwesimo sesandla. Izazi zezengqondo zibiza isimo esinjalo sombuso. Kunzima ukubalekela kulo, kepha uyakwazi. Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngisho nokubonana nodokotela, kudingeka ushintshe isimo.
Indlela 1. Ukutholwa
Into yokuqala okudingeka uyenze ukumane uqaphele ukuthi kunenkinga. Bonke abantu ngesikhathi esisodwa noma esinye isikhathi sokuphila kwabo basesimweni esihlukile, kubandakanya ukucindezeleka. Vele akudingeki uzibeke icala. Zama ukuhlaziya imicabango yakho, futhi ungazigwebi - ngeke uzilahle thina.
Thatha ipeni, iphepha bese uchaza inkinga yakho, ezintweni. Bese ucabanga ukuthi ngayinye yaxazululwa kanjani. Kuyadingeka ukwenza lokhu "ngokusebenzisa angifuni," futhi impendulo ayimukelwa.
Indlela 2. Zibheke
Ngabe ufuna ukuba yilokhu kuhlupheka nendoda ethambile oyibona esibukweni? Uma uzothola "ngokwanele" ngezinkinga zakho, khona-ke bonke abajwayelene nabo bazazi maduze nje bazophambukela kuwe. Vele wenze ukunyakaza okubukhali, futhi unikeze isimo ngesinyathelo ngesinyathelo - uzophumelela.
Indlela 3. Qala ukuhamba
Esimweni esicindezelayo, ngifuna ukufaka amaphuzu ekhoneni, ngihlale, ngiyaxolisa nokwesaba. Kepha lokhu akukufanele ukwenza. Dumisani abathandekayo bakho - bangathanda ukusiza umuntu wabo wendabuko, kepha abakwazi, kepha wena muhle. Qala ukuphuma endlini. Bona ipaki epaki njengomuthi.
Indlela 4. Bheka nxazonke
Yebo, nakanjani, mubi kakhulu manje: Ngaphonsa othandekayo, ngashintsha umyeni wami, ngadubula ngomsebenzi, futhi mhlawumbe ngivele ngathola ubunzima bezinkinga eziphakathi - zonke izizathu ze-Handra zihlukile, kepha zinhlonipho okufanele . Manje bheka abantu abaseduze kwakho, mhlawumbe awumubi kangako? Kancane kancane funda ukujabulela lokho. Indabuko yakho iphila? Uphilile? Ngakho-ke lesi yisizathu sokujabula.
Indlela 5. Yeka
Noma yimuphi umgwaqo onganikeli lutho. Manje kufanele usebenze ukuze uphume kulesi simo. Akukho siwula embhedeni usuku lonke, ngoba angifuni lutho. Faka isiyalo, uzilandele ezindabeni zansuku zonke. Ngeke balethe injabulo, kepha bazokuvumela ukuthi uphazamisekile emicabangweni emibi.