Izifundo zamashumi eminyaka okugcina zibonisa ukuthi ingane inekhono elikhulu elidinga ukuthuthukiswa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucwaningo oluningi lubonisa ukuthi ezinye zezengqondo eziphakeme kakhulu zengqondo kanye nekhono lengane kudingeka zikhule kahle ngesikhathi esithile lapho i-substrate (empeleni, uhlelo lwezinzwa oluphakathi) lutholakala kakhulu. Futhi ngekhono ngalinye, le nkathi ingeyakho.
Abazali abaningi ngokwengeziwe balungele ukukhuliswa kwengane, ukukhula kwalo kanye nokwazi kahle kuyinto ngokunembe, futhi lokhu akunakujabula kodwa kuyathokoza. Kepha, njengoba kwenzeka kaningi, noma lapha kukhona ukweqisa okungcono kungcono ukungawa, namaphutha ajwayelekile angcono ukungawenzi:
1. Kuyadingeka ukukhumbula lokho, kanye namathuba, Ingane inemikhawulo . Futhi le mikhawulo ihlotshaniswa nokuthembela kwe-psyche yakhe, kanye neminyango ethile yobuchopho ebhekele imisebenzi ehlukahlukene. Futhi uyilayishe ngokweqile, ukubeka umthwalo okhuphukayo enganeni engasebenzi ekuthuthukisweni kwayo, kungenzeka ukulimaza ukuthi kulungile kangakanani. Ngani? Ngizonikeza isibonelo esibonakalayo. Ukusuka emhlabeni emhlabeni jikelele, amasiginali amaningi avela kuzo zonke izinhlelo zethu zemizwa eza ebuchosheni bomuntu. Sibona okuthile okuthokozisayo, sizwa eminye imisindo, sizizwa sikhanyisa umunwe wakho. Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, ngokwesibonelo, sisemsebenzini, futhi umuntu omdala angaphoqa ukuthi intando yokuziphoqa ukuthi igxile eqinisweni lokuthi ibalulekile okwamanje. Isibonelo, ngokufunda izinhlamvu nokulungiselela imininingwane equkethwe kubo. Kulokhu, indawo yobuchopho - Talamus, okuthi kumuntu omdala ithathwa. Ingane inale ndawo, njengezitho eziningi, isesimweni sokuvuthwa futhi isezingeni elibi, aliphelele, lingakwazi ukuhlukanisa ngempumelelo imininingwane kulabo abadinga ukweqa (izimpukane ezindizayo ezizungeze incwadi), Kulezo lapho udinga ukugxila khona futhi unake isikhathi eside.
Imithwalo eminingi yobuchopho ingaholela ku-neurosis
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Ngamanye amagama, umuntu omdala angadinga ingane yanoma yimaphi amakhono okuzikhuza, ukulalela okugcwele, ukuzithiba, ukumane wenza amathuluzi anembe kunazo zonke, kepha ingane umane ayinawo amathuluzi amvumela ukuthi akwenze. Abakasukile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imithwalo ephakeme yobuchopho nayo ingahle ibe khona ngokufanele ngokuthethelwa kwamathuluzi nezindleko ezinkulu zokuqonda. Akuyona imfihlo yokuthi kwinqubo yamandla engqondo, amandla adliwa ngaphezu kokungokwenyama. Ngakho-ke, kufunwa enganeni ekuphothulweni ngempumelelo kwemisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi, ukubeka imithwalo ephezulu engakwazi ukubhekana nakho empeleni, singakha umuzwa ophakeme wokukhathazeka kanye nokuvela kwe-neurosis. Ngenxa yalokho, ngeke sikhule ubuhlakani, futhi sinikeza ama-neurons ngokuphila.
2. Iphutha lesibili elikhulu Skrolela Wemithwalo . Kuvame ukwenzeka lapho umzali, efunda izindatshana zokuthuthuka kwengane, mayelana "namathuba amathuba" asolayo ", aqala ukubamba ngokushesha okuphuthelwe futhi wethula imithwalo ephakanyisiwe engalindele futhi ngokweqisa. Akulula ukuzibandakanya kwizibalo ezengeziwe, kepha qiniseka ekuzivocavoca okungu-100 kwendlela eyodwa. Izenzo ezinjalo zingabulawa ngokuphelele enganeni isifiso sokuthuthukisa, sifunde futhi, futhi, ngaphandle kokukhathala nokunganeliseki, ngeke kunikeze noma yini. Imvamisa umzali, "ngokunikeza ukushisa" enganeni, ngesonto, elinye liphonsa lo msebenzi, futhi konke kubuyela endaweni yokuqala. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi imithwalo kumele icatshangwe kusengaphambili, ihlelekile futhi isamnandi ingane. Okungukuthi, inqubo yokufunda kufanele, okokuqala, ingapheli amandla ingane, okwesibili, ukuze ithakazelisa. Ngoba ngokuzibandakanya kwengane ongathemba ukuthi umuntu uzokhula kuwo, ethambekele ekuthuthukisweni okuqhubekayo futhi ebona inqubo yolwazi lokuthakazelisa nangokwemvelo.
Amakilasi kufanele adlule ingane
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3. Iphutha elivame kakhulu yilapho Abazali bazama ukubona amaphupho abo ahlulekile ezinganeni . Njengoba sekuchazwe ngenhla, ukumiswa okunjalo okulindelwe okulindelwe akukunikeli ekuthuthukisweni kwengqondo okunempilo okunengqondo kwengane noma ukuthuthuka ebudlelwaneni babazali. Kakade kungasashisi uhlangothi lokuziphatha lwempikiswano lapho ingane iba khona emdala futhi iyaqonda ukuthi igunya kanye nezidingo zabazali ziye zaziphatha kabi, izifiso zalokhu. Lapha, izifundazwe ezinamandla kakhulu ezicindezelayo zingakhula, ngenxa yokuthi ekugcineni umuntu uyabona ukuthi akenzi lutho olufunayo, futhi akazange aphile impilo yakhe, kodwa wayengu "Puppep" ezandleni zabanye abantu. Thola indlela yakho futhi uqonde ukuthi ufunani yena, kwenzeka kuye, khona-ke kuyinkinga kuye, futhi konke lokhu kungaholela ekwakhekeni kwemiphumela emibi kakhulu yempilo yakhe yengqondo. Ngakho-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali amaphupho abo angahlelekile noma bazisebenzise, noma, uma kungekho akhona amathuba, ukuwahambisa kwezinye izifiso, kodwa hhayi ukusebenzisa impilo yengane encane nengavikeleki yalokhu.