Ukucabanga kakhulu ngakho, ngangenza ngabona ukuxhumana komuntu omdala nengane yami. Umfana wazama ukucindezela inkinobho efinisheli, ngasizathu simbe kabakhanyisi, ukuphendula lo baba, ngokucasuka, wathi: "Awukwazi ukuchofoza ngokujwayelekile"? Inzalo yabheka ubaba ngokuzimisela, ngoba kulokhu igama elithi "okujwayelekile" alinamathelwa ekufundweni okucacile. Kungakwazi kakhulu, futhi mhlawumbe buthaka, futhi mhlawumbe nawo wonke amandla enqindi. Leli cala likude noyedwa.
Umama engxoxweni nendodakazi ethi: "Kungani ungamtholi umfana ojwayelekile"? Kulokhu, "okujwayelekile" nguyena ozothanda umama uqobo. Futhi kuthiwani ngeqiniso lokuthi ukuhlala naye eceleni ngakusohlangothini lokuba nendodakazi?
Masiqhubeke - ugogo ophambukayo onobuhlungu enhliziyweni yakhe ukhuluma abazukulu bakhe: "Beka ngokujwayelekile." Isaladi, okokuqala, okwesibili kanye ne-compote ngama-pancake - kakhulu, amanoni, ikhalori - yilokho okusho ukuthi "okujwayelekile". Manje, lapho abantu abaningi belandela imvelo yemikhiqizo, badla ngokwahlukana, bahlale kuzo zonke izinhlobo zokudla, benqaba inyama, usawoti, ushukela, imvubelo, ukungqubuzana okunjalo kwezizukulwane eziphathelene nezinkinga zokudla akuyona into engajwayelekile. Ngokubona ngesizukulwane esidala - lokhu kuyinto ebusuku, ngokungajwayelekile, okungukuthi.
Esinye isibonelo. Ungakwazi yini ukukhafulela noma ukuncela asphalt? Hhayi? Futhi umuntu akaboni lutho olusolisayo futhi acabangele okujwayelekile.
Yebo, ngokudla okulula - ngeke uze engqondweni ukuthi udle uzakwethu emsebenzini kuphela ngeqiniso lokuthi unento "yokupompa." Futhi esizweni se-Yali, ukuthi esifundeni sasePapua New Guinea, ukudla nesitha saso kusabhekwa njenge-Valor enkulu.
Izibonelo, ngicabanga, sekwanele, siphendukela eziphethweni. Okokuqala, yazi ukuthi igama elithi "okujwayelekile" lifihlwe cishe imiqondo eyisigidi eziyizinkulungwane eziyisikhombisa - njengoba abantu abaningi bahlala emhlabeni. Yilowo nalowo uneqiniso lawo - kuwe endle, futhi umakhelwane wakho uyamukeleka, futhi, ujwayelekile.
Okwesibili, ngokubheka okuhlukile okuhlukile, futhi kwesinye isikhathi okuhlukile kwegama elithi "ngokujwayelekile", zilungiselele iqiniso lokuthi iningi lezingxabano zabantu lizovutha ngalesi sizathu. Uzama "ukuncipha" omunye umuntu ohlakeni lomqondo wakho wempilo futhi lapho kungasebenzi, ucasukile, uthukuthele.
Ngaphambi nje kokuba othile "ahlehlise kabusha", zibuze: Welani ukuphazamisa impilo yomunye umuntu? Umthetho ubheka ukuhlaselwa kwensimu yobunikazi obuzimele njengecala, naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi ungephula imingcele yesikhala somuntu siqu. Ngokweminye imithetho engenayo, abazali baphazamisa izingane, futhi labo abakhona, empilweni yabazali, amadoda ahola izenzo zabafazi, futhi nabafazi bawo benza okufanayo.
Ufuna ukuphila ngenenjabulo? Phila impilo yakho futhi ungazami ukuphoqa imiqondo yakho nabanye - bakulungele kuphela. Kepha njengoba wazi, "Ukuthi isiRussia yinhle, khona-ke ukufa kwamaJalimane." Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, sihlonishwa esikhaleni somuntu somunye umuntu futhi singakhohlwa ukuvikela ukuhlasela kwabanye abantu. Futhi isibikezelo sami sonkanyezi seviki sonyaka sizosiza ukufunda ngezindlela zeviki yamanje.
8 Agasti. Amandla okuyekethisa yisici esiyimpumelelo sempumelelo namuhla. Akusebenzi okuthile - thatha igxathu emuva, uhlakaze, ungagijimeli ngeziphetho. Uwina isiguli, asitshelwanga.
Agasti 9. Usuku olukhiqizayo kakhulu lwebhizinisi. Isimo sebhizinisi sengqondo sikhona kwezokuxhumana, ngakho-ke ngikhaphela amaqiniso zama ukucacisa futhi unembe ngangokunokwenzeka. Noma imiphi imizamo ithembisa ukuphumelela.
Agasti 10. Usuku luqamba abantu abasebenzayo futhi befuna ukwazi. Ufuna ukuphumelela - yiba nanamuhla. Ukuhamba okuhle futhi ujwayelane.
11 Agasti. Namuhla ungavusa umoya wokuncintisana. Uma ungancintikeleli nanoma ngubani, ziphonsele inselelo.
I-12 ka-Agasti. Ukufingqa namuhla, ungabona ngokumangala ukuthi wenze amahlandla amathathu ahlelwe kathathu. Kuhle ikakhulukazi ukuqeda amacala ohlehliswe isikhathi eside.
Agasti 13. Ungadabuki uma amacebo amaningi wanamuhla ahlala engabonakali. Ungahleleli noma yini ebalulekile, yenqaba uhambo olukude.