Ushada no-Millionaire - Yini eshayela? Ukukhathala kusuka empilweni, insiza eqoqiwe engifuna ukuyitshala, isifiso sokuthola okuthile okufana nokuthile - Kubonisani ukuthi uvikela amandla okunye, okubaluleke kakhulu? Kufanelekile ukubhekelwana nalokhu, kepha kunoma yikuphi, zonke izifiso zingafezeka - umthetho oyinhloko awufisi, kodwa kusukela enjabulweni, bese kuthi isifiso esihle sizoletha ukwaneliseka nenjabulo.
Wonke umuntu wesifazane ufuna ukubona eduze kwakhe indoda ephumelelayo futhi kuyinto ejwayelekile. Uma ulinganisa impumelelo yabesilisa ngemali, yona iyinkomba enenhloso ngokuphelele yekhono lokunakekela umngane womshado kanye nezingane ezizayo, khona-ke uma inhloso esobala kakhulu futhi oyifunayo ye-Millionaire. Ngakho-ke ungashada kanjani nesigidigidi?
Ngiphakamisa wonke umuntu wesifazane okhathazekile ngalo mbuzo, zibuze nakubanye abambalwa ukuba baqonde ukuthi ngeke uzibuze. Kungani ufuna isigidi sezigidi? Ingabe kungenxa yokuthi ngokweqiniso awukulungele ukunikela okuthile ebudlelwaneni bakho? Kuya ngokuthi uphendula kanjani lo mbuzo, kungenzeka ukuthi ucabange ngakho akusho ukuthi ungakutholaphi okucebile, kepha ngalokho okufanele ushintshe ngokwakho.
Akucaci kangako, kepha inhloso enengqondo ngokwengeziwe yindoda ethembisayo ezokwazi ukuthola isimo sezigidi esikhathini esizayo esibonakalayo. Wonke umuntu waziwa ngalokhu, kepha akubona bonke abesifazane abakulungele ukushiya amaphupho abo ngeNkosana enhle kuMercedes abamhlophe futhi babone isidingo sokutshala imali ngokweqiniso ekuthuthukiseni inhlala-kahle yomndeni wakhe. "Wonke umuntu wesifazane ufuna ukuvela ngaphansi kwesixuku somqhele, yinkinga enkulu." Cishe kuyafana nokuthi umgomo awulungele noma ibuphi ubuhlobo, kanye nokusesha okungapheli kwesigidi njengoba ukhetho olukufanele kakhulu luyizaba zalo kuphela. Kunoma ikuphi, ukuphanga ama-Milliares kuvame ukuba yisizathu sokuzihlaziya okujulile, futhi njengesilinganiso esiphezulu - sokuvakashela i-psychoanalyst.
Kodwa-ke, inkinga enkulu ilapha komunye. Ufuna isigidi, okusho ukuthi, okungenzeka, wena uqobo, wena ngokwakho awuhleleli ukuba yisigidi, ngoba uma kungenjalo imicabango yakho izomatasa ngokuphelele. Ngokufanelekile, amaphupho akho nezifiso zakho kufanele zilele endizeni yezimpumelelo zazo, hhayi ukufanelekela umyeni ongaba khona. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ukuhambisa ngokuphelele impilo yakho futhi uzibonela emadolweni akwezinye izimo ukuthi ziyingozi, ngoba akekho ovikelekile ngommese ngemuva, nakwabanye, lapho uhlelo lwengxenye yempahla lunikezwa ngesehlukaniso - I-Suctle ne-Cynical. Kodwa-ke, iqiniso elibuhlungu yinoma yini amacebo akho amakhulu kuzofanela ukwaneliswa yiqhaza lokuqukethwe kwesithandwa isikhathi esithile, kepha ungabala okuningi.
Kunoma ikuphi, ukuzifundela kanye nendlela yokuzibonakalisa kuyinqubo ehehayo kakhulu, lapho uba nobuchule khona, unamandla futhi uzethembela kuwe nsuku zonke ukuthi akukho ukuqhathanisa nokugijima kwabacebile. Ezimweni eziningi, kumane nje kubhekwe ukwehluleka, ngoba ingxenye yamantombazane angatholanga indawo yawo empilweni yamantombazane isho ukuthi ukuzingela kwezigidi, okuyikho, akwanele kuwo wonke umuntu. Uma ungafuni ukuba nalomhlambi, funa indlela yakho!
Okuhlukile kusuka kunani eliphelele, mhlawumbe, yilawo mantombazane uqobo angaziqhayisa ngezigidi ephephile futhi efuna ngisho. Kepha bona, njengomthetho, akuveli ngokufuna isigidigidi, ngoba ekuqaleni bangena embuthanweni wabo wokuxhumana. Ngikhuluma nje ngakunye ukuthi wonke umuntu wakhetha ubushelelezi ngisho nangesisekelo salesi seluleko esithile esisebenzayo kubafundi abasakwazi ukunika. Kuzoba yinto enengqondo ukucabanga ukuthi isigidigidi, ngaphandle kokuthi, asihlobene nobugebengu - lo muntu ungumuntu ophambeneyo, onobuhlakani nangokuqonda. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, akunakwenzeka ukuthi kunqatshelwe ukusabalala ngakwesokunene nangakwesobunxele, ngoba inhlokodolobha eqoqiwe idinga ukutshalwa kwemali okuqhubekayo, futhi
Hhayi ukuchitha. Intombazane efundile ezimele enezifiso kanye nemibono yakhe, engangeni endodeni efuna ukuqala ibhizinisi noma ukuthuthuka ngesitebhisi semali, futhi yazi inani lemali eliphakeme, lihlala linamathuba amaningi amaningi okushada nesigidi , futhi ungabi enye inkosikazi. Lolu lwazi kuphela okufanele lube ngumhlahlandlela olwenzelwe wena, khona-ke ngeke ulahlekelwe noma kunjalo.
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