Konke kuqala ... kusuka ngokungabizi. Ngokwakho, umlingani, impilo.
Kusuka ekuzijwayezeleni kwakhe kusebenza namakhasimende afuna ukudala ubuhlobo obujabulisayo nomlingani, ngabona ukuthambekela 'kocansi kungenye yezinto eziyisisekelo kulolu daba.
Ukuhlola ukuthi iklayenti lilindele ebudlelwaneni obuzayo noma ukuthi linganikeza lobu budlelwano, kuphela ngamacala ayi-10% abizwa ngokuthi ngocansi olusezingeni eliphezulu. Ekuphumuleni, akukhulunywa nathi.
Lapho uxhumana nesevele maqondana nezinkinga nezinkinga ezinolwazi embhedeni, umkhuba wembulwa phambi kwe-US, abesifazane ukuthi "akakwazi ukucabanga ukuthi kukhona okunye," "Bonke abesilisa bangokobulili UManyaki "," kumele ngiqale ngicabange ngezingane. " Futhi, abaningi besaba ukukhululwa, "kungazelelwe ngeke ngiqonde," "Nginamahloni," "Kufanele ngizenze sengathi, ngoba ngingezwani nokumcunula," "nencazelo ukwenza lokho angikulethi? " njll.
Kunesinye futhi isizathu - "Ngiseduze ngokomoya, konke okunye kudingwa futhi akunandaba, into esemqoka ukuthi siyathandana."
Ngeshwa, silahlekelwe ukuqonda ngokubaluleka kwemfundo yezocansi emndenini. Abazali abatsheli izingane ngesidingo sokuzinakekela nangezimo zabo zesikhathi esizayo, eziholela ezimweni eziningi ukukhulelwa okungafuneki, ukudumazeka, ukulahlekelwa isithunzi, ukuzethemba, ukuzethemba, ukuzethemba.
UMarina Alyasova, uchwepheshe ebudlelwaneni, umbhali wencwadi ethi "Musa, amantombazane, ushade ..."
Okufanele ngikwenze? Ungakugwema kanjani zonke lezi zingqinamba futhi ujabule ngempela ebudlelwaneni?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuthi umndeni omuhle unjengesithombe esihle, yonke into isendaweni yayo: iphalethi elikhethwe ngokomsebenzi lokupenda, izithunzi, indawo edlalwa, ukuthinta ngakunye kudlala ukuthandwa kwesakhiwo. Akukho lutho olukhulu kakhulu kulo. Ngifuna ukubheka isithombe esinjalo futhi ngijabulele ubuhle bakhe, ukujula kanye nekhono lomculi. Futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukubheka lokho, okuthile okusha, okwakunganakwa ngaphambili, kepha akukuhle kangako.
Okwesibili, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ngibone iqiniso lokuthi abazali abajabule bonke abasebabilineni abanye bangenza izingane zabo zijabule ngempela.
Okwesithathu, kuphela lapho senza okuthile ngentokozo, siphila ngempela enjabulweni.
Ngakho-ke vumela ukuzijabulisa kukho konke okwenzayo. Futhi akunandaba - ingabe ulungiselela, ukhulisa izingane noma uxhumane nomyeni wakho. Ngisho ekuxhumaneni nomuntu wakho othandekayo, kubalulekile ukuze ufunde ukujabulela, ngaphandle kwalokho kungani uhlangana?
Qala ubudlelwano bakho ngobuqotho, okokuqala, ngokuqondene nawe futhi, ngokufanele, maqondana nomlingani. Uma ucansi lungekho endaweni yokuqala kuwe, akufanele uhlangane nomuntu onayo kuqala. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kuzoholela enkingeni yokungaqondi, futhi amathuba aphezulu okubheja nokuhlukaniswa okubuhlungu kuzovela.
Zivumele ukunethezeka okunjalo njengekhono lokukhuluma nomunye, ikakhulukazi kahle ezindabeni ezinjengomsoco. Thembela futhi uvule umlingani wakho, zilalele wena - imizwa yakho, imizwa, imizwa yakho. Ukuziqonda Kuzokusiza wakhe ubuhlobo obuvumelanayo futhi ujabulele ukuxhumana okuhlanganayo. Ukukhuthaza injabulo kuzo zonke izindawo zempilo yakho ndawonye.
Futhi khumbula, le ndoda iba yintokozo enkulu lapho owesifazane wakhe ejabulela inqubo esikhundleni sokumfuna ukumjabulisa. Futhi lapha konke kunqotshwa - kowesifazane nowesilisa, nobudlelwano. Ujabule futhi uthandene.