Muva nje, abesifazane abafuna ukubeletha ingane bavame ukubhekelwa kimi. Iningi labo labangu-30, zenzeka kulo msebenzi. Futhi manje, lapho kubonakala sengathi sesivuthiwe futhi sekulungele, izingane zabo ngasizathu simbe aziphathwa ngazo.
Ngeke ngithinte izici zezokwelapha ukuthi kungani abesifazane kunzima ukukhulelwa noma ukuthatha ingane. Sizobheka isici esivamile ngokwengqondo sabo. Futhi selokhu umphefumulo (noma kunalokho, i-psyche) futhi umzimba uhlobene, umzimba unikezwa iqembu ukuthi izingane zisekusekuseni kakhulu.
Ngakho-ke, isici sabantu abaningi salaba besifazane ukuphelela, isifiso semibono.
Ezinye zazo zifuna indoda ekahle ekahle ezoba ngumyeni oyisibonelo kanye nobaba omuhle wezingane zawo. Kunabaphathi abalula / ababhali / amasistimu (afaka esikhundleni kunoma yimuphi umsebenzi) ngeke alunge. Kudinga ocebile, ophilile, ohlakaniphile, owayemfundisiwe, owayelandela ovuthiwe, oqinile, onamandla ngokwengqondo, onothando futhi (ukunaka) konke lokhu kukhululekile nalo lonke leli njabulo naye, nalona wesifazane uzofuna. Kepha, ngobubi bakho, abesifazane abanamaphupho anjalo nabo bahlakaniphile kakhulu. Baxabana kanjena: "Ukuqinisekisa ukuthi indoda enjalo ifuna umndeni nami, kufanele futhi ngihambisane." Futhi woza ukuzoletha ekupheleleni. Futhi izindawo nezinketho zalesi sisindo: ukusuka ejimini kuya ezifundweni kuFeng Shui, ukugcotshwa kwama-erotic nezindlela ezingama-30 zokulungiselela amasangweji.
Konke lokhu ngokwako kumnandi, kepha iqiniso ukuthi kule nqubo akunakwenzeka ukuyeka. Lapho umfazi "uthuthuka", anda kakhulu isidingo somuntu, ithuba elincane lokuthatha indawo eduze kowesifazane onjalo ngesimo sakhe sokuphila, futhi akunangqondo ukuba ngunina - phela, akakatholakali Izingane ezifanele kakhulu.
Kulabo asebesenqume izingane noyise, enye inkinga: ngokwesibonelo, impilo. Kufanele kube okuphelele, ngokuphelele ukuze izingane zizalwe ziphilile. Abesifazane abanjalo bayasithanda lesi sihloko kungathi bafuna ukundiza bangene emkhathini, futhi bangabeletheli izingane.
Omunye uphilile, kepha imali iyinkinga, funa ukuhlinzekela noma yibuphi ubunzima bezimali, gijimani noma ukufunwa emadodeni ahlinzekelwe ngokuphelele iminyaka eyi-100.
Omunye udinga ukubeletha ingane ngeminyaka engama-30- 35 ubudala. Ngoba usuku lokuzalwa lwe-35 ngaphandle kwengane usuku olulilayo. Kanye neminyaka engu-5 ngaphambi kwaleyo - i-neurotic chase for the social stark.
Futhi isisekelo sakho konke lokhu ukuphelela, isifiso sokuthobela umbono ofanele nokuluweyo ngokwayo nangempilo yabo, ukubambisana kanye nokuba ngumama.
Inkinga kuphela ukuthi ukukhubazeka kuyiphutha lephutha. Izingane azihambelani nanoma yiziphi izindinganiso. Yidla, ulale, ukhale, ukhule, uyagula, awakhiwa ngohlelo noma uhlelo lwawo, kodwa ngemvelo yawo. Kepha ama-perfendicists anzima ukuvuma ukungapheleli kanye nawo, nabanye, futhi ngenxa yalokho, isihloko sezingane sizohlehliswa - ngemuva kwakho konke, kuzofanele bazi konke ukungapheleli kwabo kanye nezindaba zabo.
Akukho ukugonywa kulo, ngaphandle kokuthi ufunde ukwenza amaphutha, ake akwazi ukulawula futhi uvumele ukuba uphile, ungaphelele. Izingane zinguthisha abahle kakhulu bothando olungenamibandela bona kanye nalabo abathandekayo. Izingane azinandaba ukuthi imali engakanani umama e-Wallet, ingabe amazinyo ayo nokuthi ingabe ihambisana nemibono ngowesifazane weVedic. Bazodinga ukuthi umama lokho.
By the way, amasistimu wokuphelela angasola ukuthi ucingo lwe-cramole kulesi sihloko ukuze luziphonse bona kanye nentuthuko yabo. Kepha akunjalo. Umsebenzi ukuwubheka kuphela ogxekile ezindinganisweni olwela ukufeza ukuze ekugcineni ube ngumama. Mhlawumbe wena ngokwakho unenkonzo yebhere futhi ususe kuphela umama oyithandayo.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin