Ukuqomisana kwi-Intanethi kuvame ukuba nokungabaza, kodwa kwabanye kuyinsindiso yangempela. Amanethiwekhi omphakathi kanye nezinsizakalo ezikhethekile zisiza ukubheja noma abantu abamatasa kakhulu ukuthola imiphefumulo yabo. Uxoxe nemibhangqwana ehlangabezana ne-inthanethi, futhi yathola ukuthi ubudlelwane obunjalo abuhlali bengacabangi.
U-Olga B.
"Sajwayelana ne-Intanethi, kodwa hhayi kumasayithi. Ngivele ngikhuze kumapharamitha wokusesha wosuku lwami lokuzalwa kuze kube unyaka, ngamehlo avaliwe, uhlu lwabantu lukhanyiselwe futhi luncwelisiwe ngokungahleliwe. Kwacatshangelwa ukuthi simane nje sihlale ebusuku, futhi akekho noyedwa oyokukhumbula lokhu. Kepha saqhubeka nokukhulumisana. Ezinyangeni ezi-4 kamuva, ucingo oluvela kwinombolo engaziwa. Kwavela yena. Ngikhohliwe ukuthi ngamnika ifoni yami. Ngemuva kwalokho sathuthela ezingeni elisha. Ngaqala ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu ukuxhumana online kuba okubaluleke kakhulu kimi nsuku zonke.
Ngosuku lokuzalwa kwethu, ngimbhalela ukuhalalisela. Futhi ekugcineni komyalezo ngiyavuma ngemizwa, hhayi ukubala ekubuyiselweni. Kepha ... Iminyaka engu-6 Izingcingo, Imilayezo nezinhlamvu. Izinkinga ngemali kanye nobunzima babazali bami. Asikwazanga ukuhlangana. Ngemuva kwebutho, wabuyela ekhaya, wanikela ngepasipoti yakhe esikhundleni sakhe iminyaka engama-20 futhi, wamkhafulela kukho konke, ngaphandle kwepasipoti, weza kimi. Amahora angama-36 endleleni, ukufakelwa futhi namanje 4. Ngimi epulatifomu ngizama ukuthatha ukuthuthumela ezandleni zami. Ngiyalazi igumbi lenqola, kepha ngingqongqoze ku-akhawunti. Uphuma esitimeleni, silahlekile esixukwini. Kepha ihembe elibomvu liphuma phakathi kwamajakethi angwevu, ngihlukana nendawo ngigijimela kuye.
Wafika izinsuku ezintathu. Ezintathu nje. Ukuqwashisa ukuthi lo muntu ungokoqobo, futhi ngikwazi ukumthinta, waminza u-Crazy. Sivale njalo, sithola iminyaka eyi-6. Sazungeza idolobha lonke. Abazange balale nhlobo - bengafuni ukulahlekelwa isikhathi. Wabe esehamba. Futhi ukuxhumana, izingcingo zevidiyo nezingcingo. Wabuya ngenyanga nesigamu. Ngama-backpack amabili, ipotimende kanye ne-skate. Futhi akasahambi. "
Izinhlelo zokusebenza zamahhala zikhona online ukuphola online
Amina c-p.
"Indaba yethu uchungechunge lwamathuba. Ngadala uhlu lwemibuzo kuhlelo lokusebenza lokuqomisana kusuka ku-boredom, umfana ofuna isifiso sasingenjalo. UMat Case wenzeka eDany. Ngiphendule kulokhu ngokungafanele. Yebo, elinye lamakhulu kaMattheck futhi yilokho. UDanya wangibhalela, saqala ukuxhumana nokungayeki. Masinyane wabona ukuthi lo ngumphefumlo wami. Angizange ngicabange ngobudlelwano: Okokuqala, akulona uhlobo lwami lohlobo, okwesibili, uhlala kwelinye idolobha, kodwa kubalulekile kimi ukubona othandekayo. Usuka eNizhny Novgorod, hhayi eMoscow, i-geolocation eyimbumbulu ayibeki ukuyolandisa. Ibhaliselwe ukuzijabulisa.
Amaviki amabili okuxhumana okuqhubekayo, uDani wangishayela ucingo ukuba ngivakashele. Ngokweqiniso, ngingumuntu onamatheke kakhulu futhi ngamncane: ngibe ngibe nokuncane eMoscow engaya ezinsukwini zakhe. Kepha ngacabanga: "Lesi isiphetho." Nginqume ukuthi ithikithi likaKhisimusi lizobe lishibhile kunama-ruble angu-1500, ngiyahamba. Kwathi kwenzeka. Ngilahlile amathikithi - akakwazanga ukukholwa. Uvumile nokuthi ume epulatifomu, wacabanga ukuthi kwakuyihlaya. Lapho nje behlangana - bamanga ngokushesha. Isithiyo sasikhona, kepha sanyamalala emahoreni ambalwa. Ngokuvamile, ngethuba elijabulisayo, saqala ukuhlangana, sekudlule izinyanga eziyisithupha. Manje sihlala ndawonye eMoscow. "
U-Anna Sh.
"Sihlangane ngesikhathi esinzima kimi - ngibe sengichitha nsuku zonke esibhedlela, lapho ugogo wami ayelele khona. Okungenani ngokuphazamisa ngandlela thile, ngabhalisa esizeni sokuthandana. Angibonanga lutho olubi, bengifuna ukukhuluma nothile. Ngamqondanisa uRuslan. Ekuqaleni, konke bekukuhle: Sasinezintshisakalo ezifanayo, wahlekisa ngokuhlekisa futhi wangisekela. Emasontweni amabili kamuva sahlangana. Ukulindela kwami kwakunesizathu. Inesisindo, konke kubuye kube kuhle, kusekela inkhulumomphendvulwano. Kepha ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile, ukuxhumana kwethu kudlulile esigabeni esingaziwa - kubonakala sengathi akusona ubudlelwane okwamanje, kepha kungazelelwe kunezikhalazo nezidingo: nalowo owayengakhulumi, phendule imiyalezo ngokushesha lapho ngibiza . Ngingumuntu onothando olukhulu kakhulu, ngakho-ke ukuziphatha kwamandla kwangigxumela.
Ubuhlobo bethu baqala ukuwohloka. Waqala ukunyamalala: Akabhaleli izinsuku ezimbili, bese kuba yisihlanu. Ekugcineni, ukuxhumana kumiswe nhlobo. Ngemuva kwenyanga, kwavela uRuslan, kodwa ngabona ukuthi ubudlelwane obunjalo musazi. Lo mfo uphinde waphinda uhlu lokuqomisana okungenamsebenzi kunethiwekhi. "
Svetlana
"Lapho engibhalela okokuqala ngesicelo sokuhlangana, ngenqaba. Bengicabanga ukuthi ukuqomisana kwi-Intanethi kuyangabaza ngandlela thile. Waphendula ngokuqonda, kodwa wacela i-Instagram yami futhi wabhalisela kimi. Angizange ngiyinike noma yiziphi izincazelo futhi ngokuvamile ngikhohliwe ngaye.
Ngemuva kwesonto cishe, waphendula enye yezindaba zami. Sisuse ukuxhumana. Usuku X, wangiphakamisa ukuthi ngihlangane. Ngavuma, kepha nginovalo. Emahoreni ambalwa ngaphambi kokuba umhlangano uqale ukuzitholela: "Mhlawumbe akukufanele? Akakaze wazi ukuthi kuzoziphatha kanjani. Angazi lutho ngaye. " Noma kunjalo, wabuthana nomoya wahamba.
Waphuma emnyango, imoto yakhe yayimi ngemitha kimi. Uxolo. Izandla ziyaqhaqhazela ekujabuleni. Sikhuluma ngakho konke futhi akukho lutho, ngiyaqonda ukuthi akukho lutho olwesabisayo - luyinsizwa ethengekile. Konke kwahamba kahle. Sathandana nezindlebe.
NgoSepthemba 13, ubuhlobo bethu buzoba khona impela unyaka. Manje sihlala ndawonye futhi sinezinhlelo eziningi zekusasa. Ukube bekungengenxa ye-Intanethi, sasingeke sazi. "
Imvamisa amanoveli we-indere aphela ebudlelwaneni bangempela
UJulia K.
"Sihlangane noMisha ngoDisemba nyakenye. Emibukweni imibuzo abhala ukuthi wayezise kahle amathofi nezindawo zokudlela. Nginentshisekelo kulesi sihloko, nginqume ukumbuza imibuzo embalwa. Angizange ngithembele ebudlelwaneni, bengifuna ukubuza nje. Ngemuva kokuthi sihlangane kwi-cafe futhi saxoxa. Ungibuke ubusuku bonke kusihlwa. Angiqondanga, noma ngabe ngithi uhlobo oluthile lukadoti, kungaba. Ngabuza: "Kungani ungibuka kanjalo?". Uthe umbala we-sweatshi wami ulungele amehlo. Futhi waqhubeka nokungibuka. Bengingakhululekile kakhulu. Ngemuva kwalokho kwavela ukuthi, njengami, akazange ahlele ubuhlobo, ngoba maduze nje ukuzothuthela e-United States. Ukwazi inethiwekhi bekuwukuzijabulisa nje. Uhlu lwemibuzo lwamdala kakhulu udadewethu.
Kwavela ukuthi sifana kakhulu. Saqala ukuhamba kaningi. Emasontweni amabili kamuva bathatha amathikithi ohambo lwethu oluhlanganyelwe futhi bandizela e-Italy. Ukundiza eholidini, ngazi omunye nomunye amasonto ambalwa! Manje wayesethuthela eMelika. Angikwazi ukuza kuye okwamanje, ngoba inxusa livaliwe, izindiza zindiza ngokugcwele. Kepha silungile. Ngiyethemba ukuthi lapho ngiqeda inyuvesi kwathi lapho inxusa livuleka, ngizoya eMelika, futhi sizophila ngenjabulo lapho. "