"Sihamba nomama osogwini, ngasendleleni enezihlahla, ziye olwandle. Futhi ngithi umama wami enomuzwa: "Mama, yile khaya lami, yindawo yami! Ngiyayithanda lapha, ngiyamangalisa lapha! "Umama uyaphendula:" Nina niyangedwa lapha, ngeke ngilibambelele! "Ngigijimele esihlabathini, ngithi:" Angikwazi ukuhlanza. Njengokungcola! "Ngiyayithanda kusukela kulokhu, ngithumela ekhaya futhi ngibuya ngedwa ebhange. Ngibona indoda enakekela lapha yezilwane: ama-kittens, amahlosi namanye amakati. Ngimkisela ukuthi asizane ne-nursery, kuyo yonke into ezokwesekwa kuye futhi athi ngidinga ukuvikelwa nokukhokha umsebenzi wami. Uphendula ngokuthi konke kuhle ukuthi ngizonakekela amakati futhi ngiphile naye. "
UClarissa Pinkl Elles, udokotela wezokwelapha kaJungi owabhala incwadi edumile ethi "egijima ngezimpisi", wakhuluma ngemibhalo yakhe mayelana nokusungulwa kowesifazane - okungukuthi, ukunikezelwa kowesifazane osemusha endaweni yokudala. Futhi uthola lokhu kuqalwa kunina. Ngamanye amagama, intombazane encane kufanele ithole isibusiso kusuka kumama iye eqinisweni lokuthi inempilo yayo yokuthi inelungelo lamaphutha akhe, umndeni wayo, izingane zabo, amaphupho abo. Ukuthi wavulwa kakhulu kangangokuba angasadingi imiyalo kamama, kodwa adinga ukusekelwa kwakhe kuphela.
Ukulala le ntombazane kusho ukuthi usekhuphuke kakhulu ukutshela unina, ukuthi aqhubeke nokuzihlalela ukuthi usethole ikhaya lakhe, ikusasa lakhe, elisho ukuthi uMama wakhe. Uhlangana nomuntu ozokhulisa nobani izingane futhi amsekele.
Eqinisweni, kungaba kuhle ukuthi bonke abesifazane abasebasha bazodlula inqubo enjalo. Ezimweni eziningi, ukuhlukaniswa okuvuthiwe okuvela kumama akwenzeki. Omama bayaqhubeka nokuphazamisa impilo yamadodakazi asebekhulile, bakhulise izingane zabo, bagxeke impilo yabo yomndeni wabo. Futhi amadodakazi adala akwazi ukuzivikela kulokhu u-anyanisi, njengamantombazane amancane esaba ukudumaza noma ukucasula umama.
Le nqubo iwuphawu lomphakathi wethu. Ukuhlukaniswa kwabazali akwenzeki, okusho ukuthi lokhu kuqalwa kokuphila kwabantu nakho. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abadala bavame ukuziphatha ngomama njengezingane ezicasulayo.
Kepha amaphupho ethu abonakala eletha umyalo ofanele wobudlelwano nonina. Futhi le yinto enhle kakhulu eyayingenzeka ngo-Eva womshado.
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin