Kungabonakala kungajwayelekile, kepha abantu abadala abaningi bayasaba izingane ezincane. Kubonakala sengathi lokhu kuvela kuphi, ngoba ingane ayikwazi ukulimaza. Kodwa-ke, eqinisweni lokuthi umuntu unezinkinga ezingenzeka ezingenzeka ingane encane. Yingakho ukungathandi. Futhi kungenzeka ngisho nabantu abanezingane zabo.
Ubani igama le-phobia efanayo?
Ukwesaba kunethemu lakhe - i-pedophobia. Abantu ababhekene nesifo esinjalo kunzima ukujoyina noma yiziphi oxhumana nabo nezingane: ukuxhumana, ukudlala noma ukukhulisa. Kuza ephuzwini lokuthi abantu baqala ukugcina onodoli befana nezingane ezincane.
Inkinga ebaluleke kakhulu abantu ebhekene nayo ukungakwazi ukwenza owabo umndeni. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imbangela yokwesaba ingahle ingaqondakali kumuntu: Kungenzeka umane ungakhululeki ukuba egumbini elilodwa nengane.
Ngisho namazwi ambalwa anengane enemizamo yawo emikhulu, futhi ekugcineni imizwa izonquma: Umuntu uyacasuka, uHystera kungenzeka kuye.
Ngisho nemidlalo nezingane ingashayela umuntu ngokucindezela
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Ngabe ukwesaba kuqalwa kuphi?
Imbangela eyinhloko ye-pedophobia iyinhlungu yengqondo ebuntwaneni. Imvamisa, lokhu kwenzeka kubantu emindenini enezingane eziningana: Abazali banganaka kakhulu omunye wabantwana kunomunye. Ngakho-ke kwakhiwa abanye abaphansi. Kubonakala kumuntu ukuthi noma yimuphi umntwana ungumncintiswano wakhe. I-Psyche yezingane ithambekele kakhulu kuzo zonke izinhlobo zengcindezi nesikhuthazo, ngakho-ke noma yikuphi ukucasuka isikhathi eside kuhlala kukhumbula umuntu omdala.
Enye inketho: Abazali bazama ukungaxhumani nengane eboshwe phansi, ukuze bona ngokwabo bangatholi umthamo wokuxineka, okungukuthi, gwema izinkinga. Ngenxa yalokho, ingane emndenini onjalo ikhula ingalawuleki, okuholela ekwehliseni okukhulu kakhulu ebudlelwaneni phakathi kwezingane nabazali, futhi inomthelela ekuqiniseni ukwesaba izingane.
Zama ukuthola inkinga ngesazi sezengqondo
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I-phobia ibonakala kanjani?
Uma ungeyena udokotela wezengqondo, kunzima impela ukunquma i-pedophoba, ungacabanga ngakho kulezi zimpawu ezilandelayo:
- I-pulse iyabiza;
- Ukuphazamisa ukuphefumula;
- Ingcindezi yokukhasa phezulu;
- Ikhanda liqala ukuphetha;
- Ama-Tremor Limbs;
- Ukusulwa;
- Ukulahleka okungenzeka ukwazi.
Izingane empeleni azinangozi ngokuphelele
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Yini engenziwa yi-pedophobia?
Owesifazane angashiya ingane esibhedlela somama.
Ukuntuleka kokubamba iqhaza ekukhuliseni kwengane.
Umuntu uyeka ukuxhumana nabantu abajwayelekile nabangane abanezingane.
Njengoba uqonda, i-pedophobia ayikwazi ukubizwa ngokuthi isimo esijwayelekile, iholela ezimweni ezahlukahlukene ezingezinhle, ngakho-ke kudingeka zilwe nodokotela wezengqondo.
Ungakunqoba kanjani lokhu kwesaba?
Ezimweni ezilula, kungenzeka ukuthi ubhekane nalokhu kwesaba, noma kunjalo, uma unomuzwa wokuthi isimo siyaphela, thinta isazi sezengqondo. Kunoma ikuphi, okokuqala, yehlisa umoya bese uzama ukubheka lesi simo kwesinye. Izingane zesikhathi sokuba - izidalwa ezingenabungozi impela. Kaningi, babonisa ukwesaba abantu abadala, ngakho-ke awufanele ukwethuka lapho kubona ingane.