Njengokudla ngokulala, ucansi kungenye yezidingo eziyisisekelo zomuntu. Namuhla, akekho noyedwa ongeke amangaze ukuxoxa ngalesi sihloko, kusatshalaliswa kabanzi emphakathini wethu: zonke izinhlobo zemibukiso yenkulumo zibandakanyeka engxoxweni yempilo yakhe (kanye nomunye umuntu), zinikelwe ezincwadini nakumafilimu, ukuqeqeshwa kwenziwa.
Noma kunjalo, iningi labesifazane abaningi bayenqaba ubuhlobo bobulili. Izimbangela zingahluka ngokuphelele, kepha izinkinga zilethwa njengesethi enhle, enye ye-Main ukuphazamiseka emndenini noma ngombhangqwana. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi kungani abesifazane bekhipha lokhu ngokuzithandela ngaphandle kwempilo yabo.
Ungabukeli phansi inkinga yeLibido ephansi
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Kungani impilo yezocansi ibaluleke kangaka empilweni ye-eus evamile?
Umnyombo awukho ngisho nasenkingeni uqobo, kepha ekugcineni isimo esihle sabantu nabesifazane. Ukube bebengazi, ukuya ocansini njalo kunomthelela emsebenzini ofanele wenhliziyo nobuchopho. Konke kumayelana nokuthuthukiswa kweHormone Oxitococin, futhi, njengoba wazi, unomphumela opholile we-psyche yethu.
Kunombono onjalo wokuthi ubulili obunaphakade bukhulisa ukuzithemba ikakhulukazi kwabesifazane abavame ukukhathazeka ngokubukeka kwabo nokubona kwabo umphakathi wabo. Kufanelekile ukusho ukuthi ukuhambisana okuhle embhedeni kuqinisekisa ubudlelwane obuqinile iminyaka eminingi.
Isidingo sowesilisa sizwela kakhulu izinguquko esimweni sowesifazane
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Ngokwezibalo zezengqondo zezengqondo, iningi labantu abafake isicelo sosizo oluvela ku-psychoanalyst ngezinkinga zokwengeza ukukhathazeka nokudangala nazo zibe nezinkinga emkhakheni wezocansi. Ngokuqondene nempilo yomzimba, ukwehluleka kocansi kungaholela kuma-pathologies ahlukahlukene ohlelo lokuzala.
Yiziphi izizathu?
Ungacabangi ukuthi isizathu sokuba nekhono lezocansi lilele kuphela kumlingiswa wowesifazane. Azikho. Izimbangela zingaba ezihluke kakhulu: kusuka kwengqondo kuya ngokomzimba, futhi lokhu sekuyisizathu sokufaka isicelo sokubonisana nochwepheshe.
Izizathu ezibonakalayo
Engxenyeni enkulu, "abaceli" bangama-hormone e-estrogen ne-testosterone. Izifo zifaka isandla ekunciphiseni eLibido:
- Isifo sikashukela;
- Ukukhuluphala;
- I-Anemia;
- I-Cystitis;
- Izifo zezitho zangasese;
- Izifo ze-thyroid gland.
Kodwa-ke, ukugula okungathi sína akuhlali ku-blocker - kwesinye isikhathi kuncishiswa i-banal migraine noma ukukhathala kwancishiswa yimi yonke imizamo yendoda ukufeza isikhathi esimnandi. Ngakho-ke, indoda idinga ukufakwa esikhundleni sowesifazane futhi iqonde ukuthi "ikhanda" ngokuvamile akusona izaba.
Zama "ukuvuselela" ukuguqulwa kobudlelwano
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Izizathu ezingokomzwelo nezengqondo
Lapha, vele ukhulume ngokudangala kanye nokucindezela kunoma yisiphi isikhathi. Akuyona imfihlo ukuthi i-psyche yowesifazane ithambekele kakhulu ekuvuseleleni kwangaphandle kunabesilisa, ukuze umehluko wemood uvamile. Kodwa-ke, uma ukucindezelwa kukhishwe futhi kuthola uhlobo lokungapheli, kunconywa ukubhekisa kuchwepheshe ozosiza ukuxazulula inkinga yezengqondo, futhi ukusondelana nakho kuzoxazululwa.
Enye inkinga ingahle ilahlekelwe yintshisekelo kumlingani, njengoba eyeka ukwanelisa umfazi njengakuqala. Isizathu singaba muva kwengane noma nje ubudala, ngoba i-Libido, ngemuva kweminyaka, yenza buthaka kakhulu. Ukulungisa lesi simo, zama ukungeza ubululile ebuhlotsheni bakho: shintsha isimo, qhubeka nohambo noma nje uchithe impelasonto yedwa.
Lapho nje unquma isizathu sokuba ubulili obungeyona i-MIL, kuzoba lula ngawe ukuthi ukhethe indlela yokuxazulula inkinga.