Maye, amaqiniso okushaya nokuthobeka emindenini yamakhosikazi kanye nomama basenzeka kaningi. Abezindaba bahlala bavela izindaba zabesifazane abadumile, abanobuhlakani, abahle futhi abanethalente ababehlala esihogweni iminyaka eminingana, noma baba umhlatshelo wokuvalwa okungalindelekile kokuhlukumezeka okumangalisayo komuntu othandekayo.
Ngubani osebukweni obusengozini, ukuthi ungabugwema kanjani ubudlelwane obunjalo emndenini wakhe, oqale wacelwa usizo, ukuthi ungasusa kanjani iTirana - Lesi sasizwa yi-Psycholowist Family kanye nezingane "Alis I-altergott.
Ukholelwa ukuthi kuyadingeka ukushiya owesilisa okungenani owake wavuma ukuthi aphakamise isandla sakho, ngoba, njengomthetho, nakanjani uzophinda. Ukuzethemba kwakho kuzokuwa njalo lapho kuvela ukucindezeleka, okuzoholela kwezinye izifo futhi, mhlawumbe, ukuzibulala.
Kuyiqiniso, kunezimo lapho indoda yesaba ukulahlekelwa abanye abathandekayo, iba enye, kodwa ngeshwa, kuyaqabukela.
I-Music-Tyrant iyadingeka usizo lwezengqondo ukuze lushintshe. NaseRussia, lokhu akwamukelwa. "Ngiyini, ngikhale noma yini okufanele uye kwizazi zengqondo?" - ngakho-ke iningi liyacabanga. Yenza isikhathi sokubonana nochwepheshe futhi uthintane namadoda kuvame ukuthotshiswa.
Kunabesifazane abathi, ngohlobo lwabo lwengqondo, banethuba eliphakeme kakhulu lokuba yisisulu senkosi yasekhaya. Bancike kakhulu kumlingani, balwela ukuncibilika kumuntu, abazitholi bona umuntu ohlukile ogcwele. Ngokwesimo, zingabizwa ngokuthi "abesifazane-ama-rugs", bafuna ukujabulisa umlingani, bamenze, kepha akekho noyedwa othanda abesifazane abanjalo.
Uma kungazelelwe kwenzeka ukuthi wathandana, kepha indoda ayinacala, ngakho-ke akudingekile ukumfuna. Kuyadingeka ukuthola enye into, ngoba, njengomthetho, umlingani uzokuzwa ngawe futhi ahlaze. Uthando kufanele lube muncan, lususelwa ekuhlonipheni nasekuziboneni ngakunye kubalingani, kuphela lapho kuzoba ngumndeni ojabulayo.
Kudingeka ushiye indoda okungenani lapho izivumele ukuthi ziphakamise isandla
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Imvamisa, abesifazane ngokwabo abakwazi ukuqeda uthando olunjalo lokubekezelela. Ngemuva kwalokho udinga ukufuna usizo kudokotela wezengqondo.
Kwesobunxele yedwa nenkinga yakhe, owesifazane kungenzeka angakwazi ukubhekana, kungaphakathi kwenkinga futhi akakuboni ukuphuma. Isazi sezengqondo kuphela esazi izixazululo. Uba ngumqhubi. Abanye besifazane kufanele bafake izicelo ku-psychotherapist for ukwesekwa kwemithi uma sebecindezelekile, ephathwa kuphela ngezidakamizwa ezithile.
Futhi kaningi, abesifazane abakhule emndenini ofanayo baba izisulu zodlame lwasekhaya, bayayazi isibonelo esinjalo sokuziphatha kobuntwana. Nakanjani ubesesabekayo, abesabekayo, kepha ababonanga okunye ukuziphatha. Ngeshwa, ubusuku obufanayo buyadluliselwa ebudaleni.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, umphakathi lapho sikhula khona, futhi sibeka umlolo obalulekile. Yize kunjalo, kusukela ekuqaleni kweminyaka, othisha bavame ukumemeza kithi, bangakwazi ukusakaza emtholampilo, ugogo emnyango uthi ungaziphatha kanjani. Sihlanza njalo, futhi kuba yinto ejwayelekile, siqala ukukholelwa ukuthi kufanele kube maqondana nathi.
Kuyiqiniso, ukuzama ukungazihlanganisi nobudlelwano nomuntu ongakuhloniphi.
Ukuze wenze lokhu, okokuqala, udinga ukubheka ubuhlobo emndenini okhethiweyo wakho, njengoba bephatha umama. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ekuqaleni ungowakho. Uma owesilisa evumela avumele amahlaya angahloniphi ekhelini lakho, akanendaba nawe, angahlazisa nabangane, khona-ke akufanele uqhubeke lobu budlelwano.
Omunye wesifazane wanamuhla akufanele ancike ngokuphelele endodeni, kumane nje kudingekile ukuba nomsebenzi onamandla, nezindlu lapho kungahlala khona njalo.
Futhi awusoze walahlekelwa ukuzethemba futhi uvumele abanye bazihlobe ngokwakho abangafanele.