Uma ubhekisisa esinye isimo, kuvela ukuthi sifuna ukuthi othile asenzele thina okungadingeki nhlobo. Sifuna, kepha ungabuzi. Isibonelo lesi simo esitimeleni, lapho izindawo zihlanganyela kubantu, futhi akekho ophansi kunendawo emi eduze kowesifazane. Yini impendulo yakhe? Imvamisa - ukuthuka nokucasuka, kukhathele esigabeni sabesilisa sonke sobuntu, kwesinye isikhathi buthule, ngisho nangendlela obala. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi isimilo seNgqumeni maqondana nowesifazane osemusha, ophilile akusona umsebenzi, kepha kuphela ukubonakaliswa kwabafundi, umusa kanye ne-halanery. Izidingo ezinolaka, ingcindezi nokuhlambalaza akuyona indlela engcono kakhulu yokubiza lezi zimfanelo ezinhle.
Labo abajwayele ukukholelwa ukuthi bonke kufanele bahlale becasukile, "kucasulwe ngokungafanele futhi, njengomthetho, musa ukufinyelela umgomo. Okufanele ngikwenze? Funda ukubuza, weluleka udokotela wezengqondo. Isicelo asihlazi, kepha iningi livame ukuba yingxenye yalowo ongaqapheli ukuthi kufanele 'abe nokuthile.' Ikakhulu, kuthinta abesilisa nezimfuneko zethu ezincane kubo. Kunzima ukuyicela ukuthi kunzima kakhulu ukusabela ngokwanele ekwenqatsheni. Kepha leli khono lizokusiza wakhe ukuqondana nobudlelwano obuhle nabanye.