Kwenzeka ukuthi konke empilweni kuhamba njengokujwayelekile, kepha injabulo ayingezeli ukugeleza okunjalo, okuphambene nakho kuyakhulisa ukukhathazeka, amandla aqala ukuhamba kancane. Konke lokhu kukhombisa ukungagculiseki kwangaphakathi, okuthi ngaphandle kwezinyathelo ezithathiwe kungakhula kube ukucindezelwa okujulile. Izitho izitho zikucebisa izinguquko ezizosiza ukushintshana. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi singavumisela kanjani izinguquko ezimpilweni zethu ukuthi izinsuku zethu ezimpunga zizoletha.
Qala "Lungisa Inhlabathi"
Igama elidumile elithi "I-Zeroing" lilungele isimo lapho udinga ukuqalisa kabusha impilo yakho ejwayelekile. Khumbula ukuthi noma yiziphi izinguquko ozinqumayo, kubalulekile ukuthatha ukwazi okucacile, akukho zimo nokulandela izeluleko zabangane nabathandekayo. Izinguquko kufanele zibe yisinqumo sakho. Cabanga uma uthola okungaphezu kokulahlekelwa kwakho. Uma isinqumo sakho sokushintsha yonke into nxazonke asikashintshi, zizwe ukhululekile ukwenza izinyathelo ezilandelayo zibheke empilweni engcono.
Hlanganisa uhlelo
Izinguquko empilweni azinakwenziwa "kuzo zonke izinhlaka" ngasikhathi sinye, kuyadingeka ukwenza uhlelo olucacile lwesenzo futhi lukulandele ngokuqinile. Ake sithi awujabuli ngokubukeka kwakho, okubonakala kuwe, kuthinta isimo sakho sengqondo ngani. Qala ngalokhu: Shintsha isithombe, uthenge okubhaliselwe ejimini, njll. Lapho nje le modi ingena kulo mkhuba, uyoshintshela esigabeni esilandelayo, ngokwesibonelo, ushintshe ifenisha efulethini, engeza okuthe xaxa, ushintsho Ekuhlelweni ngomlingo kuthinta isimo ngalesi simo ekuqapheleni kwethu. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, ngezinyathelo ezincane, kancane kancane uzovula impilo 'evela emilenzeni ekhanda "(ngomqondo omuhle).
Thatha isinyathelo sokuqala
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Lahla "umthwalo"
Sesivele sikhulume ngokushintshwa kwesimo, kepha asilinganiselwe ezintweni ezibonakalayo. Uma kungenzeka, zama ukuqonda ukuthi yiziphi izinto ozithandayo futhi ofuna ukuzama okuthile okusha. Kungenzeka ukuthi ubelokhu uphupha ngokudansa, kepha unesikhashana noma isifiso noma isifiso, kungani ungaphonseli izifundo ezibusayo ezingakulethi ukwaneliseka futhi ungabhalisi studio esiseduze? Ngokunokwenzeka kakhulu lapho uzohlangana nabantu abasha abathakazelayo abanamathuba onke wokuba abangane bakho abahle noma nabangane. Ukushintsha umbuthano wokuxhumana nezintshisakalo kuyingxenye ebalulekile yesibuyekezo sobuntu.
Musa ukulinda "UMsombuluko"
Vele, isifiso soshintsho asihlali sihlangana ngezenzo ezisebenzayo. Ungafuna ukuguqula okuthile, kepha konke kuyafana ukuchitha isikhathi kuphela ehhovisi nasekhaya, ukuzikholisa eqinisweni lokuthi ungaqala ukuguquka nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Akusebenzi emthanjeni ofanayo. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala, isifiso esisodwa sizoba sincane. Kancane kancane unqoba ukungabaza, uzokwanda ngokwengeziwe kwinqubo futhi ungaziboni ukuthi izinyanga ezimbalwa impilo yakho zizoshintsha zipholile.