Ngokuvamile, ucansi luyadingeka ukuze uqhubeke nohlobo, ukuze izingane zibonakale, nokuningi nganoma yini. Ngakho-ke, ngaphandle kwezocansi ungaphila. Kepha uma ungakhulumi ngocansi, kodwa ngothando lomzimba, isimo siguquka kakhulu.
Uma abashadikazi benganakho ukuxhumana komzimba, uthando lomzimba, uma bengakhululi ukusondelana, ngokocansi, bese ebudlelwaneni babo ebaluleke kakhulu kugcwele, futhi ukuthuthuka kwabo kulobu budlelwano kuba umbuzo omkhulu. Lo mbhangqwana usengozini yengozi. Kunoma ikuphi, ngeke bafinyelele eziphakameni ezingatholakala uma uthando lomzimba lwalukhona ezimpilweni zabo.
Ngesikhathi sothando lomzimba, intukuthelo inyamalale, okuhlangenwe nakho okungekuhle kuncibilika, okungasuswa ngendlela ehlukile ngomsebenzi wezazi zengqondo, ezinzima, ezinde nezibizayo. Lapha lokhu kwenzeka ngokwayo, ngokwemvelo. Lokhu kuthuthukisa impilo, kudala ukusondela, ubumbano, kuvumela umuntu ukuthi ahambe, ngoba umfazi uwunikeza amandla ... uhlu oludingekayo, kungani kubalulekile, ungaqhubeka nokuqhubeka. Empeleni, umbhangqwana ophilayo ngaphandle kokuxhumana ngokocansi uphendukela kwabangane, omakhelwane. Kuhle futhi, kepha omakhelwane akuwona umbhangqwana.
Kunezizathu eziningana zokuthi kungani, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uthando lomzimba luyanyamalala kubalingani. Okokuqala, isimo sengqondo ngaleli nqubo, njengokungathi ucansi, yisinyathelo sokuqala sokwenza loluhlango lwempilo lumpofu. Lapho kungekho ukuqonda okubalulekile, akukho ukuqonda kwalokho okwenzekayo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, khona-ke kwehlela ukuzongena ku-physiology futhi ekugcineni kube yinto eyisidina, ebulala noma yisiphi isifiso sokukwenza Lokhu.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, imvelo ihlelwe ngendlela yokuthi kukhona uthando phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane, baziphonsa komunye nomunye ukuze bakhulelwe. Kusukela lapho kubhekwa khona imvelo kamama, kudingeka sikhiqize inzalo. I-Passion inesikhathi sayo, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi iyancipha - kucatshangwa ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi ubuciko benzekile. Lapho-ke inkanuko nokuheha kuyacishwa, ngoba abalingani badinga ukutshalwa yinzalo, hhayi injabulo yobulili. Lapho inkanuko icima, abalingani baphelelwa abanye ozakwethu, ngoba bebangenamntwana, noma bayakhula. Ezimweni zombili, inkanuko ayidingeki. Elinye lamathuluzi elakhiwe ngalo - ama-pheromones. Ngamunye wethu uqokomisa izinto ezingezinhle ezingatholwa yinuka, kepha zilandelwa futhi ziqonda kahle. Lapho singukuthi "i-sniff" ende yomlingani ofanayo, khona-ke umlutha wale phunga uyeza, futhi siyeka ukuphendula kubo. Kulula ukufika kulokhu: udinga "ukuhlwitha" omunye umlingani. Lokhu akusho ukuthi kuyadingeka ukujoyina naye ebudlelwaneni bezocansi, kwanele ukudansa, ukuba sezandleni, ngandlela thile kuzolahleka - futhi kugijinyelwe kumlingani wakho. Ama-pheromones omlingani wabo azobonakala emusha.
Kukhona nezizathu zenhlalo nezengqondo. I-Psychological eyodwa ingabangelwa ukuthi umbhangqwana owayehlala isikhathi eside ndawonye ndawonye, ukuthukwa, ukudumazeka, futhi konke lokhu kusendlalelo ngemuva kongqimba kuvela ngesithiyo phakathi kwabo. Ziya ngokuya zivuleka, zibe qotho, ekhaleni phambi komunye nomunye azikaze zibe mnyama kakhulu ngokomzimba, futhi zikwenza kube nzima ngocansi, ngoba uthando lomzimba lubandakanya ukuvezwa okuphezulu, ukwethembeka okuphezulu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ucansi alukho ngokwehlukana empilweni, futhi kusho ukuthi akukhona ukuthi ubulili buye kwesokunxele kwenye indawo, kodwa mayelana neqiniso lokuthi abantu abafundanga ukuthethelela, baqongele kabi kakhulu, izikhalazo, abacasulwa, bavale izinhliziyo zabo futhi, Ngenxa yalokho, uthando lomzimba oluvela kubo. Lokhu kuphathelene neningi lababili, futhi nakhu kubalulekile ukucasuka nalawo maklabhisi ahleli ekhanda. Lo msebenzi owenzelwe udokotela wezengqondo, njengomthetho, kunzima ukubhekana nakho. Ukuya ocansini kuleli cala kungumphumela, hhayi isizathu futhi wenza iphepha le-lactium ngobuhlobo.
Izizathu zenhlalo zifaka lokho abantu, ngokumaka, yize kungabhalwanga noma kuphi, kuyavuma ukuthi ngine-munye - unayo eyodwa, futhi kakhulu kakhulu kakhulu. Ekuqaleni badonsela omunye komunye, kepha bakhangwa ngenkathi bekhululekile. Manje, kubonakala sengathi konke kuhle, kepha ngenxa yombuso "akumele ngenze okunye. "Kufanele ngithande, ngoba ungumkami," "Kufanele ngilale naye, ngoba umyeni wami uzwakala edabukile. Le nkinga nayo ingaxazululwa, ukuxazulula izimbili ezihlukile ngezindlela ezihlukile. Isibonelo, enye yezindlela abanye imibhangqwana abajabulela ngayo ukuvuma ukuthi umshado awunaphakade, kodwa unyaka owodwa, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi, ngokwesibonelo, futhi, futhi, futhi, futhi evumelana ngonyaka hhayi ukuthi othile wenza okuthile, kodwa ngoba inkontileka isiphelile. Okuzenzakalelayo, ngaphandle kwesizathu nencazelo yezizathu. Kepha lokhu akudingekile, futhi uma bobabili abashadikazi bafuna, bazokwelula inkontileka komunye unyaka. Kulokhu, isimo esithi "Phakade" sinyamalala futhi ukuqwashisa kubonakala sengathi umlingani ongikhethile, lapho-ke ngidinga "ukuntshontshele izisekelo", okuthile okufanele ngikwenze ukuze ngihlale naye, ngoba kungenzeka kungakhethi. Manje umshado uyaqhubeka ngokuzenzakalelayo, futhi ukuwuchitha, udinga ukwenza okuthile. Ngiphakamisa ukuthi isimo sihlaselwe: Umshado unqanyulwe ngokuzenzakalelayo, kodwa ukuze uqhubeke nokwenza okuthile: udinga ukufuna ukunqoba ukunakwa, bese kuthi kuhlale kukhangayo, bese kuba nokubukeka kakhulu ubuhlobo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ama-prebs wesikhathi sokuqala sobudlelwano ayagcinwa, kepha ukujula, ukuvuleleka, ukuqonda, ngakolunye uhlangothi, alahlekanga, ikhwalithi yobudlelwano besikhathi eside ayilahlekanga. Vele, akunakwenzeka ukuthi usebenzise lokhu ngokusemthethweni ensimini yethu yomthetho, kepha inkontileka ibiza kakhulu kunemali, futhi uma uvuma lokho, ikakhulukazi emphakathini, nabangane, kungasebenza kahle.
Izindlela ze-Universal zomshuwalense ngokumelene nokulahlekelwa yisifiso ukuthuthukiswa. Uma abashadikazi bethuthuka, kufaka phakathi emkhakheni wezocansi, uma abashadikazi bathuthukiswa iminyaka eyishumi, baba ngabathandi besigaba sokuqala, bangasebenza izimangaliso, ngoba bazoba nentshisekelo, ngoba badlula ngalokhu Path ndawonye, ngokubambisana kuzoqhubeka. Uma isikhathi siphasisiwe, futhi abalingani bebengenayo intuthuko, kodwa, eyenzeke kaningi, kwaba nokuwohloka, khona-ke ukususwa komzuzu lapho ubulili bodwa buba yisicefe.
Indlela Egqamile Kakhulu Yokubuya Ezocansi Emndenini (noma ukuvimba ukunakekelwa kwayo) - Qondisa yonke imizamo yokwenza umfazi athande indoda, naphezu kwesipiliyoni esikhulu sobudlelwano. Le ndoda yakha izifiso ezifanele ukuze lona wesifazane ukuthi kube lula ukumthanda, futhi lona wesifazane uyakhula, ethuthuka othandweni ngendoda yakhe hhayi kuphela ohlelweni lwenhlangano. Futhi uma umbhangqwana ehamba kulokhu, khona-ke bayoba sesinyathelo esisodwa kusuka ku-sex ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ngezikhathi ezithile bangena kukho. Futhi ngeke kusaba ocansini, kepha uthando lomzimba lwekhwalithi ephezulu kakhulu.