Okuthakazelisa kakhulu ukusebenza ngamaphupho ukuhunyushwa kwabo kumongo wezehlakalo zamanje.
Isibonelo, ngatshela iphupho lomyeni wakho owesifazane osemusha. Babhekana nesigaba esibucayi ebuhlotsheni babo, bazisekele ngokufaka isicelo kochwepheshe abahlukahlukene, ama-psychotherapists, kusebenza emaqenjini okukhula komuntu. Futhi yeka ukuthi ngasikhathi sinye amaphupho abonisa zonke izinyathelo zomsebenzi wazo.
"Kuphupha umyeni wami. Izakhiwo ezimbili zengilazi zidutshulwa zibhekene. Esitimeleni esisodwa (kubonakala sengathi ukuqeqeshwa okuthile) amantombazane, komunye - bafo. Umyeni wami lapho abafana. Kungazelelwe kuza ingane encane yeminyaka engu-6-7. Ilungele iwindi futhi igxume ngaphandle kwalo. Wonke umuntu uyaqhubeka sengathi akwenzekanga lutho ekwenzeni amabhizinisi abo, futhi umyeni ugijimela ewindini ukuze abone ukuthi ingane. Ingane yawa kusukela kulesi sitezi esiphakeme, kepha ezansi kwakuyi-trampoline enkulu. Wamshaya wamhlikihla wabuyela emuva! Kepha okwesibili ingane yafika engasekho ku-trampoline, kodwa emhlabathini. Waphahlazeka. "
Ngakho-ke, ukulala kugcwele uphawu. Izindlu ezimbili nabesifazane nabesilisa zibandakanyeka ekukhuleni komuntu siqu. Kungenzeka ukuthi ephusheni, isimo somndeni sivezwa ephusheni: Abesilisa eduze kwabesilisa bazibandakanya nabo, baphenduka inhlekelele ngokusekelwa kwabo. Futhi abesifazane baphendukela kwabesifazane,
Umfana ugijimela endlini namadoda, abona iphupho, agxume ngaphandle kwewindows e-trampoline, kodwa umzuzu olandelayo wephukile. Kuphakamisa umbono wokuthi, iphupho, ubona ukuthi ingxenye yakhe ye-infantile iphuka kanjani. Mhlawumbe ubuntwana bakhe, isimo sengqondo esingavuthiwe ngokwenzekayo. Futhi ingxenye yakhe yayo yabantu abadala yale nqubo iyabona futhi "iwina" kuyo.
Njengoba ngishilo, ukulala kufanele kubhekwe ngokwesimo sempilo. Futhi uma sikhuluma ngesikhathi lapho iphupho liphupha khona, khona-ke lo muntu uyaphupha lapho ebuhlotsheni bakhe nosizi lomkakhe. Cishe kuhamba ngokuwa kwezinye izinkohliso, imicabango yemilingo noma yezingane mayelana nokusondela nothando futhi iba ivuthiwe ngokwengeziwe, yangempela.
Futhi amaphupho akho?
UMaria Dyachkova, isazi sezengqondo, udokotela wezokwelapha umndeni kanye nokuqeqeshwa okuholayo kweSikhungo Sokukhulisa Ukukhula KwaMarika Khazin