Sonke sabandakanyeka kulo ... sitshelwe ngosuku lokuqala, olungeyena olumnandi futhi lungeminye iminyaka eminingi ebambe ikhanda, bakhuluma nezintombi zakhe, futhi bafundile ukushayela kahle imoto yabo, kanye nomqashi - ukuthi abahlanu Amaphrojekthi ngasikhathi sinye akuyona inkinga ngasikhathi sinye. Sonke sikhohlisana ngezinga elithile noma elinye. Siwehlisa, sihlehlise, sibe isikhathi eside, noma isikhathi esingalungile. Kodwa-ke, kungani sikwenza?
Ukwethembeka kulahlekelwe yintengo
Akunandaba ukuthi kuphole kanjani, futhi ukwethembeka emphakathini wanamuhla akuswanga. Kungani usho okuthile ebunzini kumuntu, uziveze engxoxweni engemnandi noma ngisho nokungqubuzana, uma ungaphendukela kumaqhinga nokukhohlisa futhi uthole lokho okufunayo? Emashalofini ebhuku lezitolo, uzobona amakhulukhulu ezincwadi nge-psychology ngalesi sihloko. Wena, kungathi ngaphandle kwengcindezi eqondile yengqondo, thinta umuntu futhi uthole okufunayo. Amanye ama-Psychologists aze abize imikhuba enjalo "ngezindlela zokuxhumana". Kepha kuyahlonipha omunye?
Singaqamba amanga ukuzithoba ngokwethu
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Yikuphi Ochwepheshe Bezenzisi
Ukukhohlisa okungenakunqotshwa kwezengqondo kubizwa ngokuthi yithemba. Ngokuphathelene nobani esikwenzayo lokho? Okokuqala, lo ngumndeni wethu - izingane, abazali. Siyabazi kahle kakhulu futhi, imvamisa bekungakwazi ukukubona lokho, zihlala zikhohlisa. Siseyisikhathi sokuzithoba. Umngani wakho ufuna umsebenzi, wacela ukuthola ukuthi azikho izindawo zamahhala enkampanini yakho. Wethembisa ukuthola eMnyangweni Wezisebenzi, kodwa wakhuphuka wasikhohlwa. Futhi manje intombi ibiza: "Hhayi-ke, kwenza kanjani lutho?" Futhi usho ukuthi babuza emsebenzini, kepha akukho mpendulo okwamanje, ngoba inamahloni ukuvuma ukuthi ukhohlwe ukufeza isicelo. Kungcono ukusho ukuthi awekho amaphrojekthi kuleli sonto futhi kwakungekho sikhathi sokubuza, kepha uzocela isicelo kungekudala.
Emhlabeni wanamuhla, izazi zezengqondo ezigcwele zaqala ukubiza "izindlela zokuxhumana"
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I-SENTEMENT inikela ngamanga
Singakhohlisa umuntu ngokungahloniphi. Intombazane ibeka emhlanganweni ukugqoka okusha, okungafanele ngokuphelele uhlobo lwesimo sakhe. Awuthandi ngempela isithombe, kepha ingubo isivele ithengiwe, ngakho-ke uthi intombi ibukeka sengathi iyinhle. Singaqamba amanga ukuze sibukeke kangcono, siqinile, sikhange ngokwengeziwe emehlweni womuntu. Isibonelo esidala e-Era yethu siphinde siphinde futhi sithathe izithombe zezithombe zazo ekuxhumaneni nomphakathi. Asifuni abangane kanye nabantu obajwayele ukubona imibuthano ngaphansi kwamehlo noma bayindilinga kancane ngemuva kwesidlo sakusihlwa esiminyene - futhi lokhu kujwayelekile.
Ucabangani? Kukangaki uzikhohlisa wena nabanye?