Igama elithi "ingane" lihunyushwa ngokuthi "ngaphandle kwezingane". Ngaphezu kwalokho, uChaylllFrey angaba njengabantu abamane bakhethe ukukhathazeka ngamabomu ukuthi bangabi nabuntwana futhi bangahlangani nempilo yangempela nalabo ababelana ngemibono yabo kanye namaqembu abumbene, imvamisa emiphakathini ye-Intanethi noma emiphakathini ye-Internet. Iqembu lesibili labantu, njengomthetho, lisebenza ngokuhlukumezeka kakhulu, libeka ukubukwa kwalo komhlaba nokwedelela ngokuqondene nazo zonke izingane.
Kodwa-ke, sanquma ukukhuluma ngohlobo lokuqala - abantu abazikhethela ngamabomu futhi abazami ukugqokisa abaseceleni kwabo.
Izingane zidinga ukunikela impilo yabo yonke
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Kungaziphi izizathu umuntu angafuni ukuqala izingane?
Abantu bangase banqume ngokwenqaba ukuzalwa kukamama kanye nobaba ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene, enye yazo engaba:
- Ubudlelwano obungazinzi emndenini wakho.
- Izici zomuntu.
- Ithonya lomphakathi.
Lapho owesilisa ekhombisa ukunakekelwa ngokweqile ebuntwaneni, akazange asetshenziselwe iqiniso lokuthi weza kuze kube manje lapho edinga ukunakekela omunye umuntu. Umane nje akaboni ngalo mqondo futhi akaqondi ukuthi kungani ayesidinga.
Lapho ingane ebuntwaneni ingathathwanga ngokucophelela, ayikhombisi imizwa eqotho, ingadala nokuntuleka kwesifiso sokuqala ingane yakho.
Kuyenzeka ukuthi omama abanganaki banesibopho sokunakekelwa kwezingane ezincane kubadala, yize izingane kungafanele zinakekele ezinye izingane, ngoba lokhu kungumsebenzi kamama. Izingane ezakhulela emindenini enjalo, imvamisa zidala isimo esifanayo emndenini wazo, futhi futhi senqaba ukuqhubeka nohlobo.
Imvamisa izingane ezindala zihamba zibheke omncane
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Ngokuqondene nomphakathi, yonke intombazane ethile yezwakala entombini yomakhelwane / yomama, leyo ntombi kamama, lowo muntu "akayona" izitatimende ezidumile ", njll. Izitatimende ezinjalo ezivela kumarabi, nentombazane encane inquma ngayo Umphakathi onobuhlakani obunobuhlakani wenqaba injabulo yokuba ngumama, kwesinye isikhathi wenza okubi kuphela, hhayi umphakathi ofanayo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda, ukwenqaba enganeni ngokwakho noma uzame ukufakazela okuthile okujwayelekile.
Uyini umehluko phakathi kwengane kusuka ku-Childhy
I-DetoneWorwork yenza ama-99% ezinhlaka ezimbiwe ze-chayldfrey. Umuntu ongafuni ukuba nezingane azikubheki ukuthi kudingekile ukuhlala ku-inthanethi futhi futhi kufakazela abanye okuthile, ngoba lokhu kungukukhetha komuntu wonke umuntu. Enye into yilapho abantu befuna ukubheka intukuthelo yabo, ababhaliselwe kuyo izinkundla ezinjalo, bahlangane emphakathini. Lababantu abanalutho oluphathelene nezingane, iningi lezi zingane zesikole abazama ukuzifakazela bona nokuthi yimuphi emgabeni osazozama ngasikhathi sinye ngezingane.
Njengomthetho, izihlahla zihlushwa amaHeyters, ngokwazo azinangozi futhi azithobeli noma kuphi.
Cabanga ukuthi unganikeza ingane yakho
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Ungakubona kanjani ukukhetha?
Unganquma ngokuzimela ukuthi ungumntwana noma cha. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuphendula imibuzo embalwa:
1. Ngabe uzibona ungumama noma ufuna ukunikela ngempilo yokuzithuthukisa?
2. Ngabe udinga ukuqhubeka nohlobo?
3. Yini ongayinika ingane?
4. Izingane zishintsha impilo yakho, usukulungele ukumnika omunye umuntu?
5. Ngabe uyaqiniseka ukuthi emhlabeni wakho kuzoba nendawo yempilo entsha?
Uma uphendula okungenani imibuzo embalwa kahle, awukwazi ukuzibiza nge-Childfree. Kodwa-ke, lesi akusona isizathu sokugijima ngokushesha bese uqala ingane, cabanga uma unazo zonke izimo zokuzalwa kwakhe nokukhuliswa, ngoba wanele nje ukuwuthanda, udinga ukunikeza impilo efanelekile nendoda encane.